How often do you have sex with your partner?

[Craiglovessarah]

Me and My GF have sex 3 times a week and sometimes more if were really horny and stuff.

[artboy]

This question for us has several answers...I put Once a week...but actually..we may go for a week with just kissing..and back rubs..etc...then we may do it 2 time a day..for 3 or four days...we usually go home for lunch, we both live close to our offices...and sometime do it then..hehehe
Both Mrs. Artboy and myself..seem to uh....cycle...I guess is the right word..we do have kids..3 to be exact...6 to 14...so we are sometimes limited to just getting neked and tiger fucking...but we do manage.....and tiger fucking is a cue we use for each other we we are really horny....kinda like..I'll do her doggie and bite the back of her neck while Im rocking and rollin!!!...

hence....."Tiger-Fucking".....

hehehe..... I kill me sometimes......hehehe

[djjwp]

I have 3 small children, sex, what is that? No really, we get it about twice a week BUT there always seem to be a crying child in the background. I work night turn and she works daylight and we have many days when we exchange kids and say “see ya later”.

This is a tough thing to try and keep alive in a relationship. We really have to work at it which diminishes the fun some.

[Jamie&Kieth]

Just the two of us, probably averages about 3 times per week, during the winter months it is less, during the summer a lot more. Also during the summer we usually get together once a week for some fun & sex, during the school year it is probably every other month we get together. Ho hum

[Sweet_Candy]

We had to go with 5 times a week or more...yes we have two small chidren. Bedtime is at 9:00 after that its our time. Since we moved into the lifestyle the frequency has gone up from 3 times a week. It's hard keeping track of how often when it seems like it's everyday.

[cumhungrycouple]

The wife thought we were going through a rough patch when we went down to once a day. better show her this poll!

But we are still < 2 years together and no kids yet. But one advantage of Asian families is you can dump the kids on willing relatives next door to get some romantic time alone. And its kind of understood why so no questions asked. But I had one gf for 5 years when younger where we were at it twice a day as she got horny just my looking at her but then 7 years with the ex and that went to once a week very quickly. The last ex made a point of arguing with me so much I would rather not be bothered. Indeed I should hace exited that relationship about 6.99 years earlier I thought it was because I was getting older. But was because we had more serious issues than sex

Sex is like a barometer. If something else is wrong then sex goes downhill. I had the problem before that many have when a lack of stella stud like performance results in "you having an affair?" "I am too fat" etc etc. But it was just not relaxing to argue like that. Now if tired some touching and caressing usually leads to oral then a quickie even if stressed and tired. Just start off with some touching and no expectations of a porno style 2 hour session. Nothing like performance worries (like with my ex) to kill sex. Keep those for a romantic weekend. Then not stressed anymore! And again it helps that the wife gets horny by just touching her once..... some people are more naturally sexed up than others. Fingers are great if you are too tired to rise to the occasion. But usually a moaning woman gets me going anyway. But for anyone some touching and mutual masturbation even when tired is surely a way to relax each other before sleep! Beats watching TV or having an arument

Sex is the best free anti-depressant/happy pill we have. Use it or loose it! No need for therapists, drugs, alcohol......or Oprah!

[cj22s]

Originally Posted by LikeMinds321

I don't believe anyone has brought up a time factor. I think it only fair to consider this carefully.

Let me explain:

Couple A has a ten-minute quickie each day of the week.

10 minutes X 7 days = 70 minutes of sex; just a little over an hour of sex each week.

Couple B has ninety minutes of lusty, indulgent, experimental sex twice a week.

90 minutes X 2 days = 180 minutes of sex; three hours of sex each week.

In defense of my vote.

LM

That is exsatly what I was thinking. Thank you!!!!!

[LFM2]

Mr. LFM and I might have sex more than once a day but not every day. So we might have sex about 7 times a week, on average.

Moreso in the Winter and less in the summer as we live 75 miles apart in the summer time and I only get Thurs-Sunday with him.

[prettylady]

Dog and I don't live together yet so it is when ever we get together. But, fingers crossed, we can live together soon and then I think it will be 5,6 times a week. I really love sex, as does Dog.
Your friend,
Prettylady

[2jersey]

We wil go through multi-week stretches where it will be every day - but we probably average out at only six times per week.

[Annaiis]

Frequency: 3 times a day max, 3 times a week min.
Duration: 3 minutes min, 30 minutes max.

[stu]

we average two times a week, but then we like long sessions, two hours...of lusty sex

[gatorvol64]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

And do you think it has anything to do with being involved in swinging, or is the opposite true - that you are involved in swinging because you had a highly charged sex life before...

Ok, I had to put an average of 5 times a week. Hubby works shift work. Shifts have been compatiable this week....6 days in a row with about 8 times. Don't mention that to him though. When he hears the numbers he likes to say he is spoiling me and better not give it to me the next day.

Spoo, about your question. I think we swing because we hit this groove about 10 years ago and it hasn't let up. Not that we don't have some very HOT sex after an encounter. But we more than likely would have made love anyway.

Vol

[lovinher]

I'd have to say 7 times a week. We might skip a day, but there are plenty of days we'll go twice.

At 1 1/2 hrs average each time that's 10 1/2 hrs a week and 546 hrs a year.

For lovin her that's at least 2184 orgasms a year.

[lovinher]

Correction:
That would be 2184 a year for lovinhim my s/o. I think that would kill me.