How did your First Time happen?

[married_lovers]

What was the setting for your first swinger experience?

[hotinphoenix]

A few years back, my wife came home from a spa day, and told me about the masseuse. Cute guy, very professional, straight massage, but it got us both worked up anyway. I thought it would be neat to learn how to do a sensual massage. So I looked in the New Times and called John, who advertised that he did couples. Told him my wife needed a massage. I asked him if he could show me some techniques that I could do. He said sure. When he got to our house, he set up table and we talked a bit. He was fairly cute, very nice, professional with very large hands. My wife got on the table with towel. After a while of watching him massage her, I asked him if he could show me some techniques. Again, he was very professional. I learned some different strokes on her legs, shoulders and back. It was very fun, and I could tell my wife was enjoying all the attention. I then got brave and asked him if he could show me some sensual strokes. He was a bit surprised, but not a lot. He said sure. At that point, we took the towel away. There was my beautiful wife (5' 4", 105lbs, pretty, round average sized breasts and a trimmed/shaved red bush), lying naked in front of this stranger. I was full of different emotions. It seemed so taboo, but exciting at the same time. He showed me how to stroke up the inside of her thigh and just barely brush her pussy. We started doing this at the same time, same rhythm on each leg. He then showed me how to do her neck and shoulders and let my hands wander down to the sides of her breasts. Now she was instructed to turn over. There she was. Glowing in the candle light, while John got to see her up close and personal. We spent quite a bit of time on her breasts and inner thighs. John never did work over her pussy, but she was getting pretty turned on. We decided it was time for John to leave. I continued the massage for a few minutes, but was so turned on I hopped up on the table and we went at it pretty wildly. We both agreed it was great. I had a few jealous moments, but we used that experience for the next few weeks to really get us going.

I voted at a club.

Since that is the first time it was planned and we actualy were using the word "swingers".

In the two years before that we had two soft MFMs but they were not planned and it was single men. No couples.

Our first club experience is where we experienced swinging as a lifestyle not the once a year or so MFM we would kind of "Fall" into.

[jra46]

My ex and I got involved with friends interested in nudism. We had tried joining a nudist club, but the club was too far to go too on a regular basis( a 300 mile round trip). When our friends brought up an interest in nudism, we told them we had tried it. We talked for several weeks about our experiences and loaned them our mags. When they decided that they wanted to try nudism, they asked us to play strip poker with them. It was a very rousing experience to say the least, and things progressed faster and farther than anyone had anticipated. All agreed that we had a good time and wanted to continue. We were good friends and usually spent a few hours a day together, so we agreed to limit the swap to the weekends. Eventually another couple found out we were swinging and wanted to join. We played for a couple of years then decided to devote all of our energies into raising a family.

[Brit_Pair]

Ours was via an advert. We decided we wanted to play, trawled some of the local contact sites for suitable playmates, and after God knows how many false starts and red herrings, finally found the right people to lose our cherries with.

Hoorah!

[catherine1962]

The first time my husband and myself were with another couple was quite interesting but not enjoyable. My husband had been wanting to try this for awhile and finally talked me into it and we met a couple we knew over for dinner who were into this life style. We talked for some time with them but didn't do anything that night. The next week we went over to their home for dinner and again talked about it and this time we acted. My husband and I had already discussed this prior to our going over that if the opportunity arises then we should do it. Well it did arise and I found my self with the husband in another room than my husband. I was very nervous and just reacted to what was going on almost like a robot. I was so unsure of what to do that I just laid there on the bed while he kissed me all over my body. I have to admit I wasn't too stimulated and he was rather fast in his foreplay. He finally got on top of me and entered me and though he was able to slid inside me with no problem I didn't feel much. He thrusted and humped for what seemed like 20 minutes and finally he had an orgasm. I wasn't satisfied and told him that I never came so he began to touch me between my legs and rub me which felt good. But still I never came and he stopped. We haven't been back with that couple but have had several enjoyable experiences with others in which I have had orgasms and have reallyi enjoyed the sex

[NotsoNew]

Our first time was with people that we met from an Internet posting. We had a great time and still see them occasionally.

[Elusive BiFem]

Many, many years ago, strictly spontaneous, with my very best friends at that time, and the result of a little too much wine. At that time, I had never even heard the words swinger or lifestyle or any such thing, and actually, carried some guilt about it for many years to follow...thinking that I/we were really weird or something. Wish I had gotten over that sooner! Also, I think that first experience is the reason I'm more into friends and relationships than the strictly sexual stuff like clubs and such.

- EBF

[curcpl_2004]

This is Mrs. Curcpl here, our first time was really enjoyable for us!

We met at their place once before for the get to know you meet during the week . Then we went over over to their house again on the weekend for our first sex meet.

We started out in the kitchen just chatting about life things. Then after a couple of glasses of wine (I don't recommend this); we went into the living room for more intense chatting, it took awhile to actually do anything, and most of it was done by our spouses, but hearing and seeing the other couple enjoying themselves really turned us both on! We moved the party into the bedroom, with the 4 of us on the same bed things really got hot!! Unfortunately, like we have read on other posts here, the stage fright was a little over whelming for the men we are hoping that this was a first time swinging thing for us.

We are planning a second get together for this weekend at our house. Stage fright left or sent somewhere else.

[pa_chip]

At a club with a friend??? Several years ago I had a long distance girlfriend and we found ourselves together at a conference. She brought up the subject of what seemed like a neat club in that town she wanted us to visit. My reaction was something like: Heck yeah!!!! So we did it. We both jumped in with both feet. It's remains one of the hottest nights of my life.

[leftcoastcouple]

I've told the story before, so I'll keep it to the Reader's Digest version: Shortly after we married, my wife and I went out with a couple of my male friends. The night started innocently enough--or as innocently as it could with these two horndogs--but as we enjoyed music and drinks, much flirting ensued, and we headed back to our place to continue the party. While changing to jump in the hot tub, I asked my wife if this might be the night, since we'd talked about it frequently and things had gotten fairly heated while we were out. She coyly said it might be. Minutes later in the hot tub, I discovered my buddy's hand inside her bikini bottom, so clearly she'd made up her mind. As we moved things inside, he and I made a beer run, and when we returned, we found my wife and the other guy making out in front of the TV (with a porno running), with his hand buried in her crotch. Seeing no further discussion between us was necessary, my wife and I asked the guys if they were interested--and no surprise, they were--and things moved quickly from there.

I was essentially a bystander until they were done with her, which was MORE than fine with me, as this was a fantasy come true and I loved every minute of the show. I'll never forget the moment when the second guy (the one who'd taken things into his own hands during the beer run), who was REALLY hung, spread my wife's thighs and slowly entered her, as the other guy devoured her breasts and enjoyed a handjob while waiting for his turn and I kissed her passionately. I'd fantasized about such a scene for so long that to see it right there before me with not one but two guys involved and her in such a state of arousal...well, it was ever more than I'd hoped for. And it burned itself into my memory--a great first experience, to be sure.

[1freakincpl]

Our first time we had a 3some with a friend of mines. After that we did the club thing and meet a nice cpl who we are still friends with on the net

[xxoticangel]

I'm sure this has been posted before but here goes...

We were taking a long weekend with friends to the FL panhandle. It was late October so the weather was cool and we were just looking to get away. We had agreed to share one room with two beds to save money. Saturday was a complete wash with heavy rains and high winds so we sat around the room drinking and talking. The more we drank the more sexual the conversation became and after a while we were all starting to get uncomfortably horny. We ended up having sex in seperate beds. At one point I was fucking Angel from behind while we watched them on the other bed. After he came he pulled out and turned around which put his cock at face level to Angel. For some reason she just grabbed it and started sucking. She and I both came almost immediately. She continued to suck him hard and I didn't even go down. His wife just crawled into our bed and started riding me. We spent the rest of the weekend in one big group grope. The girls did the bi thing and everyone was exhausted and sore for the 6 hour ride home. We continued to play with them off and on until we moved out of state.

[akamgaxoxo]

Ours was thru and ad and has been great since!!

[JustAskJulie]

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