How did your First Time happen?

[sweet_tna]

Last June, we went on a family camping trip with friends. The first night, they revealed to us they'd begun swinging a few months before, and Mr. Friend wanted his wife to have someone to talk to. We were flattered, and before I could say anything, Mr. Sweet says, "that's great for you, but Mrs. Sweet would never go for that." Boy was he ever wrong, lol.

We spent the next few months talking to each other, asking pesky questions of our friends, and ended up accepting their invite to a meet and greet. We decided to share a hotel room, with NO intentions of swapping with each other. Well, you know what they say about good intentions . . .

It was a great night, and now we're even better friends!

=)

[cocpl2007]

It was with a friend at a suite motel. And subsequently "our" first was at folks home we met through an ad

[Trace Ekies]

I voted "at a club" but it was technically an Aahz Party.

As it turned out, Mrs. Ekies met a woman who took a shine to her. We partied with her an her husband and their friends until the party ended at 2 am.

On our way out they invited us back to the room where the four of them were going to continue the party. We politely declined and headed to our room. On our way I suggested we go and watch a bit and Mrs. Ekies agreed.

By the time we got to our new friends room they were all naked and piled up on the bed. I asked if we could just watch a bit and get a feel for things. The readily agreed and continued on with their activities and at the same time including us in the conversation.

As you can imagine, it didn't take long for me to get too close to the action and get sucked in by the whirlwind on the bed. 60 seconds later I looked to my left and Mrs. Ekies was topless, on her knees and sucking her woman admirers tits.

From there we crossed alot of bridges and learned that we are not to be trusted when it comes to new friends and group sex.

In the end, we both grin really big when the suject of that night comes up.

[nicerrtxcple]

We had the couple next door over one evening for a bbq and after a few drinks it just happened.

[hannah_mark]

I raised the subject (Hannah) one evening as I thought it would be fun to push the boundaries. Rob agreed so we found a couple online that we liked the sound of. They came to ours for the evening. We had a great meal then chilled out with a few bottles of wine in the candlelit lounge with a roaring fire. A naughty movie got us all in the mood, I played with the other girl then the guys joined in. Much to our surprise we ended up full swapping (same room) that first time. Never looked back ;o)

[Tia Vampire]

We wanted it to be with someone we trusted and knew well, so we agreed with being with his best friend was the best way to go about having our first swing experience. We were right! It was fun and made us (especially female half) want to experience more. So we set out to make new friends to get comfortable with and hopefully great sex. Has not always happened that way, but still having fun trying.

[shagyd03]

Well...the first time was with my now husband and his brother who introduced me and my husband to each other. One night i was looking at a dirty mag when i came across a picture of two men and one lady on a beach. I liked what it looked like and asked if my Bf at the time what he thought of it. He proceeded to tell me that him and his brother had done it with his ex several times. That he was into sharing and with his younger brother (who is my age) it would be okay. Later that night after a good work over from BF i went and approached my now B-in law and seduced him with some good oral action . need i say he followed me to the room where his brother was awaiting our return they took turns on me then i finished off B-in law with a top mount and accidently made him unload in me(oops). Then my Bf topped me off with another. It wasnt later that i realized what had happened and my B-in law was standing there with no cum in hand (LOL)...but the both of their cum in me felt good...then he reconciled with his Gf and moved back to their home town.....but he did cum to visit again.....

[spamcatcher]

Our first experience was with "new" friends.

From a swinger's site!

[NCfuncouple98]

10th anniversary. Renewed our vows. His best friend was (again) his best man..... Mr. NC asked my permission to invite him in to the bedroom (his marriage has been swing for years). Had just enough alcohol to say yes.

WOW. It was hot.

[GerdOEvert]

We both travelled on business a lot. We had talked about swinging, and Eileen seduced a priest on vacaton in Norfolk. She came back and told me she was ready to try a Club. We partied at home once, at a hotel party once, and perhaps two dozen times at the Club.

We did try the club and played for the next four or five years. We also tried clubs in SF and Baltimore. The club in SF was excellent. I wonder if it is still open. I doublt it. We never got to Plato's Retreat, and wish we had.

We stopped when there was danger of AIDS, and then we started up again when the kids were in high school. I'd like to find six couples who go off to some pleasant place every two or three months, but we are actually kind of old for that.

Otto and Eileen

[looking4ward]

We spent quite a bit of time on her breasts and inner thighs. John never did work over her pussy, but she was getting pretty turned on. We decided it was time for John to leave. I continued the massage for a few minutes, but was so turned on I hopped up on the table and we went at it pretty wildly. We both agreed it was great. I had a few jealous moments, but we used that experience for the next few weeks to really get us going.[/QUOTE]

Very hot story...but did John really leave without his table?

[crazinred]

Well after much talking and research on here and other sites we went to a local club. Its about 15 minutes from home and we figured if it just wasn't our thing we could just go back home.
Well bottle of Margarita in hand and a well planned bag of possibly needed things we arrived and took the tour. Had a very nice young couple give us the tour. We like what we saw and paid the money and got comfortable. Ended up know a couple that where there and they welcomed us into there group. After Red have just a little to much Margarita we got up and got some pop and chips and walked around some. Finally after Red was feeling better we where sitting there while most of the group we where sitting with had moved into other areas. A gentleman came and offered Red a full body massage. Well that was the perfect thing to say. As she was bored and ready to call it a night. We ended up back in the private room and She had her clothes off in a flash. He went to work on her back and I can tell you she loves a back rub. Well he almost made it to her thighs and that was the end of the massage. We ended up playing for around 3 hours I believe. Our cherries where busted and we where loving it. After our male partner left for the 3rd time we go dressed and went back out to the main area sat for awhile then headed to the hot tub. We had a great time there also. Finally heading home at 5:30 am.
Since then We have been to clubs 3 more times and 1 house party and haven't left unhappy yet. Infact it just keeps getting better. I think we found the perfect lifestyle for the 2 of us.

[az40scpl]

It started with a conversation about our fantasies, she admitted that she was interested in having 2 guys, I told her I was fine with it. About 2 months later a friend was visiting and having a few beers with us while his wife was out of town. My wife was merciless in her flirting and making dirty comments about eveything and anything. While he was using the bathroom, I asked her what was up, she said she wanted to try and seduce him into a 3sum, I said o, go for it. I eventually would up showing him nude pics of her on our computer, she walked over asked me to unzip her dress, which I did, she then said she was going in the bedroom and seeing the real thing was better than pictures. One of the biggest turn ons in my life because her actions were so COMPLETELY out of character...the down side is that my friend couldnt rise to the occasion.

[Jim&Shelley]

Our first two expierences were with the same couple...a friend of mine and her husband. We have been hanging out a couple friends for over ten years. We have always made little "swinging jokes" especially on vacation.
Over a year ago we rented a cabin in the Smoky Mountains of East Tennessee. Leaving the kids at home we planned a great weekend.

Our first night after dinner and wine our friends suggested some hot tub time to relax and enjoy the lights of the city below. I forgot mine and hubby swimsuits, then he (friends husband) suggested skinny dipping - even offered to let the ladies get in first before the guys came outside. Well we were game, all friends - right? So we skinny dipped in the hottub. Aftereards we went to our bedrooms.

Second day we shopped etc. After eating that night we returned, fixed drinks and stripped down and returned to the hot tub. Well after a while (and some drinks) in the tub, snuggeld up with our spouse...my friends husband started asking "when are we gonna swap"...well I spoke up and said I would snuggle with him and let my hubby snuggle his wife...well everone shifted around and we did. Well the conversation progressed...there was alot of kissing each other partner then ALOT of touching...

We ended up inside each couple having sex (not-swapped) in the living room.
The next weekend we went to thier house, no kids again. Well Saturday night we swapped in the same room for oral only, then had intercourse with our usual partner. Sunday after brunch, we swapped for oral again before we left.

Two weeks later we swapped again and progressed to intercourse...and its been a crazy ride ever since

[bellsandwhistle]

Our only experiences thus far have been through meeting couples on AFF.