Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else?

dave110256 · 10-14-2004, 01:50 PM

Hell yes,it arouses me.....I can't wait to see my wife have sex with another man. She is afraid I will be jealous or have bad after-thoughts but I am sure that I will not. We both loved having sex with a woman at the same time and I am sure it will be the same with a man. I made sure to pay close attention to my wife during our 3some and as long as she does the same to make me feel as comfortable as I made her feel, I'm sure it will be hot. I love her so much and will love and respect her as much after, I wish she could believe this but I think it will happen soon.

SnozzberryBlu · 02-25-2005, 11:01 AM

It's HOT HOT HOT to me

But we both swing

confunktion · 02-25-2005, 05:07 PM

Dito to the lovely and talented Mrs. Snozzberry. Couldn't answer the poll because we both share in the experience. A huge turn-on both ways.

Mr. Funk
Looking for my Golden Ticket...

repglg · 02-25-2005, 07:21 PM

Absolutely. I love watching him receive and give pleasure to another women. Its HOT.

charlottefreaks · 02-26-2005, 07:43 AM

I get totally aroused when I see my man with another woman. I like to just sit back and watch because he is such a gentleman with the women. I like to see the woman sqirming and screaming from him pleasing her. When we first started swinging with cpls I thought he was going to be jealous of another man being with me but he wasn,t and it made the situation even better.

Justwatch · 02-26-2005, 11:07 AM

I've had sloppy seconds with my wife twice, and we had a threesome once...it was awesome! Fucking her when her pussy was full of cum (even when I didn't get to watch her) was hot, and the time I got to watch was incredible!

squirt · 03-25-2005, 01:41 AM

Yes I Love Watching My Wife Julie Geting Used By Another Man

findtime · 03-27-2005, 07:19 PM

One of my biggest turn-ons in the lifestyle is watching my husband with another woman. Nothing makes me hotter and he feels the same way.
That's why we always play same room.

hilltop · 03-28-2005, 01:37 AM

There's nothing and I mean NOTHING that arouses me more than to watch my partner (or any woman for that matter) being pleasured!!!! It put's me on a whole other plane . . .

The Big A · 01-20-2006, 11:27 PM

I voted "It arouses me" although she has never had sex with someone....The one time we had our full swing experience (2 weeks ago) the other male positioned himself over my wife and everything but simply could not "perform". I didn't realize he had troubles until later in the night....I was at the same time having sex with his wife and the sight of him seemingly penetrating my wife sent me over the edge into a fantastic orgasm.....Also my wife who has a great history of jealousy says she didn't mind at all watching me have sex with the other woman...In fact it has been the topic of many evenings gret sex since then.....

**LikeMinds321** · 01-21-2006, 11:20 AM

Out of the selections I chose "It's okay" because watching MrLM having sex with other women doesn't change my state of arousal.

He feels that thinking about me with other men and thinking back to when he watched me with other men is more arousing than when he's in the moment.

For these reasons I think we are especially comfortable playing out of view of the other and will even consider playing alone with select friends with benefits. Talking to each other about what happened - that the other was not there to see - is more erotic for us.

We made this surprising discovery when at our first suite party at a club, people were having sex all around us and watching this didn't do a thing for either of us. The act of sex itself isn't the arousal and pleasure for us. It is the "story" that can go with it when we've taken time - one on one - with another couple to intimately develop our arousal for each other as the evening progresses to that moment when we connect in body and mind with the person(s) with whom we have sex.

Both MrLM and I like to concentrate fully on our swing partner when we play.

The more I learn about ourselves, and learn about other swingers preferences, the more out of the norm I feel we are.

LM

fchgo · 04-19-2008, 06:15 AM

i relly love your style ,you guy,s are great

Hot Raleigh Cpl · 04-19-2008, 07:58 AM

There was no choice that said it turns us both on immensely, which would be the case with us. For us, it's the best foreplay.

S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl

Tia Vampire · 04-19-2008, 12:36 PM

It arouses me only when she starts making the sounds that I make. Then I know he has hit the sweet spot. Afterward I give him dap and tell him what a hotty he was and that is the way to throw down the pipe. Tag team, my baby did it again.

He just smile and call me crazy when I mess with him. Makes for fun times.

lotsoffun201 · 04-19-2008, 03:37 PM

I'v only seen my wife with another man one time. She and I have had many FMF threesomes but only one MFM. We have been with couples in a soft swing capacity many times before.

Personally with all of our other experiences, the MFM was by far and away the most intense to me and arousing. Is that wrong?

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View Poll Results: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else?
for man - it bothers me a bit	15	2.58%
for man - its ok	19	3.27%
for man - it arouses me	358	61.62%
for man - its hot, only my wife has sex when we swing	52	8.95%
for woman - it bothers me a bit	15	2.58%
for woman - its ok	16	2.75%
for woman - it arouses me	102	17.56%
for woman - its hot, only my husband has sex when we swing	4	0.69%
Voters: 581. You may not vote on this poll

10-14-2004, 01:50 PM	#31 (permalink)
dave110256 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 299 Location: Maine Status: Couple SLS Name:dave110256	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? Hell yes,it arouses me.....I can't wait to see my wife have sex with another man. She is afraid I will be jealous or have bad after-thoughts but I am sure that I will not. We both loved having sex with a woman at the same time and I am sure it will be the same with a man. I made sure to pay close attention to my wife during our 3some and as long as she does the same to make me feel as comfortable as I made her feel, I'm sure it will be hot. I love her so much and will love and respect her as much after, I wish she could believe this but I think it will happen soon.

02-25-2005, 11:01 AM	#32 (permalink)
SnozzberryBlu Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 98 Location: South Mississippi Status: M.Female SLS Name:http://SnozzberryBlu.swinglifestyle.com	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? It's HOT HOT HOT to me But we both swing __________________ ---- "Only two things are infinite, the universe and human stupidity, and I'm not sure about the former." - Einstein

02-25-2005, 05:07 PM	#33 (permalink)
confunktion Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2004 Posts: 358 Location: Wisconsin Status: Widower	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? Dito to the lovely and talented Mrs. Snozzberry. Couldn't answer the poll because we both share in the experience. A huge turn-on both ways. Mr. Funk Looking for my Golden Ticket... __________________ The cool points are out the window, and I'm all twisted up in the game...

02-25-2005, 07:21 PM	#34 (permalink)
repglg Registered User Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 2 Location: Chillicothe IL Status: Couple SLS Name:repglg	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? Absolutely. I love watching him receive and give pleasure to another women. Its HOT.

02-26-2005, 07:43 AM	#35 (permalink)
charlottefreaks Registered Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 7 Location: Charlotte, North Carolina Status: Couple SLS Name:charlottefreaks24	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? I get totally aroused when I see my man with another woman. I like to just sit back and watch because he is such a gentleman with the women. I like to see the woman sqirming and screaming from him pleasing her. When we first started swinging with cpls I thought he was going to be jealous of another man being with me but he wasn,t and it made the situation even better.

02-26-2005, 11:07 AM	#36 (permalink)
Justwatch Active Member Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 34 Location: New York	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? I've had sloppy seconds with my wife twice, and we had a threesome once...it was awesome! Fucking her when her pussy was full of cum (even when I didn't get to watch her) was hot, and the time I got to watch was incredible!

03-25-2005, 01:41 AM	#37 (permalink)
squirt Registered Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 3 Location: south milwaukee wisconsin	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? Yes I Love Watching My Wife Julie Geting Used By Another Man

03-27-2005, 07:19 PM	#38 (permalink)
findtime Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 73 Location: Canada Status: couple	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? One of my biggest turn-ons in the lifestyle is watching my husband with another woman. Nothing makes me hotter and he feels the same way. That's why we always play same room.

03-28-2005, 01:37 AM	#39 (permalink)
hilltop Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 568 Status: single male	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? There's nothing and I mean NOTHING that arouses me more than to watch my partner (or any woman for that matter) being pleasured!!!! It put's me on a whole other plane . . .

01-20-2006, 11:27 PM	#40 (permalink)
The Big A Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 26 Location: La Porte, Texas Status: Couple SLS Name:TheAandR	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? I voted "It arouses me" although she has never had sex with someone....The one time we had our full swing experience (2 weeks ago) the other male positioned himself over my wife and everything but simply could not "perform". I didn't realize he had troubles until later in the night....I was at the same time having sex with his wife and the sight of him seemingly penetrating my wife sent me over the edge into a fantastic orgasm.....Also my wife who has a great history of jealousy says she didn't mind at all watching me have sex with the other woman...In fact it has been the topic of many evenings gret sex since then.....

01-21-2006, 11:20 AM	#41 (permalink)
LikeMinds321 Let's get comfortable... Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 8,547 Location: On the couch Status: Married to Mr LM	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? Out of the selections I chose "It's okay" because watching MrLM having sex with other women doesn't change my state of arousal. He feels that thinking about me with other men and thinking back to when he watched me with other men is more arousing than when he's in the moment. For these reasons I think we are especially comfortable playing out of view of the other and will even consider playing alone with select friends with benefits. Talking to each other about what happened - that the other was not there to see - is more erotic for us. We made this surprising discovery when at our first suite party at a club, people were having sex all around us and watching this didn't do a thing for either of us. The act of sex itself isn't the arousal and pleasure for us. It is the "story" that can go with it when we've taken time - one on one - with another couple to intimately develop our arousal for each other as the evening progresses to that moment when we connect in body and mind with the person(s) with whom we have sex. Both MrLM and I like to concentrate fully on our swing partner when we play. The more I learn about ourselves, and learn about other swingers preferences, the more out of the norm I feel we are. LM Last edited by LikeMinds321 : 01-21-2006 at 11:51 AM. Reason: clarification

04-19-2008, 06:15 AM	#42 (permalink)
fchgo Registered User Join Date: Nov 2007 Posts: 1 Location: chicago Status: single	Re: For us... i relly love your style ,you guy,s are great

04-19-2008, 07:58 AM	#43 (permalink)
Hot Raleigh Cpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 151 Location: Raleigh, NC Status: Hot couple, deeply in love	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? There was no choice that said it turns us both on immensely, which would be the case with us. For us, it's the best foreplay. S and L, Hot Raleigh Cpl

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lotsoffun201 Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2008 Posts: 64 Location: las vegas Status: couple	Re: Are you aroused by your partner having sex with someone else? I'v only seen my wife with another man one time. She and I have had many FMF threesomes but only one MFM. We have been with couples in a soft swing capacity many times before. Personally with all of our other experiences, the MFM was by far and away the most intense to me and arousing. Is that wrong?

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