Swinging with Kids in the House

shiftagain · 02-04-2008, 02:51 PM

we have two kids, one 4 and the other 1. We wouldnt swing with them in the house simply because we like to sleep in after a good night. hehe.
But I find it hard to understand the judgment comming from some members here. I thought of all groups this would not be a judgmental group.

All situations are different and deserve respect IMO.

xplor69 · 06-23-2008, 12:51 PM

I would not be comfortable with my kids or someone else's in the house while "playtime" was going on. That said, I have no problems with my children being around my friends who are in the lifestyle. It leaves out the curiosity of wondering who I'm meeting and why I don't bring them around, especially for my 14 year old. Quite a few have children of their own and are intelligent/respectful enough to know there is a time and place for everything.

***JustAskJulie*** · 06-23-2008, 01:20 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by shiftagain

But I find it hard to understand the judgment comming from some members here. I thought of all groups this would not be a judgmental group.

All situations are different and deserve respect IMO.

Swingers are just like everyone else in the world. We all have our boundaries and things that we don't agree with and will be judgemental on. There are very few things that others can do that I will say are just flat out wrong (as I do tend to take a "to each their own attitude") but swinging when there are kids present in the house ranks up there on my list of things that just should not be done.

As the poster above me said "there's a time and place for everything"... and in the house with kids is not the time or place for swinging.

theflamekasters · 06-23-2008, 01:48 PM

We dont play with the kids home, with one exception, with a single female. We always lock our door, even if it is jsut the mrs and i playing. So if one of out two kids comes knockin, me or the mrs. gets up and deals with it, which this has never actually happened. Our kids sleep very well we are lucky, but no way would i have a girl in some other part of the house and risk the chance of getting caught

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View Poll Results: How do you feel about swinging with kids in the house?
I won't swing with kids in the house (mine or someone else's)	209	56.03%
I would as long as the kids are asleep.	66	17.69%
I don't like the idea but I've done it.	72	19.30%
As long as it's not my kids!	15	4.02%
Other	11	2.95%
Voters: 373. You may not vote on this poll

02-04-2008, 02:51 PM	#76 (permalink)
shiftagain Registered Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 5 Location: Edmonton	Re: Swinging with Kids in the House we have two kids, one 4 and the other 1. We wouldnt swing with them in the house simply because we like to sleep in after a good night. hehe. But I find it hard to understand the judgment comming from some members here. I thought of all groups this would not be a judgmental group. All situations are different and deserve respect IMO.

06-23-2008, 12:51 PM	#77 (permalink)
xplor69 Registered User Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2 Location: Louisiana Status: Single Female SLS Name:xplor69	Re: Swinging with Kids in the House I would not be comfortable with my kids or someone else's in the house while "playtime" was going on. That said, I have no problems with my children being around my friends who are in the lifestyle. It leaves out the curiosity of wondering who I'm meeting and why I don't bring them around, especially for my 14 year old. Quite a few have children of their own and are intelligent/respectful enough to know there is a time and place for everything.

06-23-2008, 01:48 PM	#79 (permalink)
theflamekasters I dont like sex, do you?? Join Date: Jun 2008 Posts: 150 Location: Texas Status: married SLS Name:theflamekasters	Re: Swinging with Kids in the House We dont play with the kids home, with one exception, with a single female. We always lock our door, even if it is jsut the mrs and i playing. So if one of out two kids comes knockin, me or the mrs. gets up and deals with it, which this has never actually happened. Our kids sleep very well we are lucky, but no way would i have a girl in some other part of the house and risk the chance of getting caught __________________ BOHICA (bend over here it comes again)

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