Would you want to swing single?

sweet_tna · 03-18-2008, 11:50 PM

If someting happened to Mr. Sweet, I'd have WAY too much on my mind (like rasing two kids on my own) to care all that much about swinging, or sex in general.

Once I got to the point of being ready to "get back in the game", if a couple I knew and trusted invited me to join them, I might consider it. But to swing solo . . . I doubt it.

=)

NumbskullsX2 · 03-19-2008, 01:36 PM

I would have NO desire to swing as a single female. It's true I like sex, but I also like the company of men too much to be just a booty call. I would probly do what my single friends do, which is have a small group of maybe 3 to 5 people that I could call whenever I wanted some company for the evening. I'm sure I could find one or 2 that would take me to a club if I still wanted to do that, but I doubt I would.

des1re06 · 03-19-2008, 02:39 PM

Yes, if something happened to our spouses.

mangycat · 03-29-2008, 05:18 PM

i swing as a single i found my last long term relationship swinging she was a sngle female that was with a couple i swing with and they called me up to come over and party with all of them we hit it off and we started kinda a booty call thig (she would call me and i would run to see her )this went on for awile i really liked her but i knew i had to keep it on the casual side (i was starting to fall for her)but one day i said on the phone that i liked her more than i should and she was sweet and said she was flattered long story short we decided to be exclusive and we dated moved in together and loved for three years it was great she got a great job out of state and i have comitments so we talk and still have feelings but have to be apart so shes playing the field in north carilina and im comimg back to swinging so yes to alone

cubnamy1995 · 03-30-2008, 05:08 AM

If anything ever happened to Amy, I don't even think I could ever have sex again. And coming from a man, that is something. She is my soulmate, and I just don't think I could enjoy that kind of intimacy again if she were gone.

No, I would not swing single.

cocpl2007 · 03-30-2008, 07:00 AM

Several years ago this opportunity actually happened. While I would have, without any hesitation, answered this poll Yes I would continue. That did not happen. There was no doubt in my mind that I would continue to swing.

I did not swing.

Mrs Co would not continue if we were no longer a couple.

wyattearp45 · 03-30-2008, 08:56 AM

i am swinging singel with my work i dont have time for a partner and to be trutful i am not go with the comment thing life short play naked

Chicup · 03-31-2008, 01:07 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by wyattearp45

i am swinging singel with my work i dont have time for a partner and to be trutful i am not go with the comment thing life short play naked

Might wanna change your SLS profile than Tex.

avid · 03-31-2008, 10:56 AM

I could see myself playing single if I could stay within the group we already play with. They are the best bunch of solid people, and I wouldn't hesitate to stay with them. I know they would have the utmost respect for me.

That being said, I think it would take a lot of courage to play single, and I'd have to fight the loneliness.

personal416 · 03-31-2008, 11:57 AM

Since it can be a chore to sort out the good single males, I'd feel sorry for single males entering the mix after being much better accepted previously as part of a couple.

9innorfolk · 03-31-2008, 02:03 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by personal416

Since it can be a chore to sort out the good single males, I'd feel sorry for single males entering the mix after being much better accepted previously as part of a couple.

Exactly. I know how a single male is viewed. So unless I already had a particular group that was familiar with me and would understand my situation, the answer would probably be no, but not by choice. I recognize the difficulty in trying to do it single so I'd rather find someone first, just to make the atmosphere easier.

**LFM2** · 03-31-2008, 02:04 PM

If something happened to Dave (god forbid) I could probably swing single after a few years of recovery. Depends on how old I am. If I'm 80, I think I'd just pass on the whole swinging thing.

personal416 · 03-31-2008, 03:08 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by LFM2

If something happened to Dave (god forbid) I could probably swing single after a few years of recovery. Depends on how old I am. If I'm 80, I think I'd just pass on the whole swinging thing.

What?!? ..and not sit in the corner and shout out advice? For shame!!!

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View Poll Results: Would you swing as a single?
I would swing as a single	124	57.41%
I would look for a new partner first.	23	10.65%
I would not continue to swing if I did not have a partner	31	14.35%
I have no idea what I would do.	34	15.74%
Other (please post)	4	1.85%
Voters: 216. You may not vote on this poll

03-18-2008, 11:50 PM	#31 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,930 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: Would you want to swing single? If someting happened to Mr. Sweet, I'd have WAY too much on my mind (like rasing two kids on my own) to care all that much about swinging, or sex in general. Once I got to the point of being ready to "get back in the game", if a couple I knew and trusted invited me to join them, I might consider it. But to swing solo . . . I doubt it. =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

03-19-2008, 01:36 PM	#32 (permalink)
NumbskullsX2 Has Left the Building Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 204 Location: Columbus, OH Status: Couple	Re: Would you want to swing single? I would have NO desire to swing as a single female. It's true I like sex, but I also like the company of men too much to be just a booty call. I would probly do what my single friends do, which is have a small group of maybe 3 to 5 people that I could call whenever I wanted some company for the evening. I'm sure I could find one or 2 that would take me to a club if I still wanted to do that, but I doubt I would.

03-19-2008, 02:39 PM	#33 (permalink)
des1re06 Great Times 1 Year Exp. Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 1,080 Location: East TN Status: Couple SLS Name:Des1re06	Re: Would you want to swing single? Yes, if something happened to our spouses.

03-29-2008, 05:18 PM	#34 (permalink)
mangycat Registered Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 3 Location: minnesota Status: single male	Re: Would you want to swing single? i swing as a single i found my last long term relationship swinging she was a sngle female that was with a couple i swing with and they called me up to come over and party with all of them we hit it off and we started kinda a booty call thig (she would call me and i would run to see her )this went on for awile i really liked her but i knew i had to keep it on the casual side (i was starting to fall for her)but one day i said on the phone that i liked her more than i should and she was sweet and said she was flattered long story short we decided to be exclusive and we dated moved in together and loved for three years it was great she got a great job out of state and i have comitments so we talk and still have feelings but have to be apart so shes playing the field in north carilina and im comimg back to swinging so yes to alone

03-30-2008, 05:08 AM	#35 (permalink)
cubnamy1995 Amateur Naked Acrobats Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 541 Location: East TX Status: Couple SLS Name:cubnamy1995 Blog Entries: 12	Re: Would you want to swing single? If anything ever happened to Amy, I don't even think I could ever have sex again. And coming from a man, that is something. She is my soulmate, and I just don't think I could enjoy that kind of intimacy again if she were gone. No, I would not swing single. __________________ *Aspiring Amateur Pornstars*

03-30-2008, 07:00 AM	#36 (permalink)
cocpl2007 Here to play Join Date: Jun 2007 Posts: 289 Location: Colorado Status: Couple SLS Name:cocpl2007	Re: Would you want to swing single? Several years ago this opportunity actually happened. While I would have, without any hesitation, answered this poll Yes I would continue. That did not happen. There was no doubt in my mind that I would continue to swing. I did not swing. Mrs Co would not continue if we were no longer a couple.

03-30-2008, 08:56 AM	#37 (permalink)
wyattearp45 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2008 Posts: 2 Location: meansville ga Status: singel male SLS Name:wyattearp45	Re: Would you want to swing single? i am swinging singel with my work i dont have time for a partner and to be trutful i am not go with the comment thing life short play naked

03-31-2008, 10:56 AM	#39 (permalink)
avid Open to the Universe Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 286 Location: Oshawa, ON Status: Female part of MFM triad	Re: Would you want to swing single? I could see myself playing single if I could stay within the group we already play with. They are the best bunch of solid people, and I wouldn't hesitate to stay with them. I know they would have the utmost respect for me. That being said, I think it would take a lot of courage to play single, and I'd have to fight the loneliness.

03-31-2008, 11:57 AM	#40 (permalink)
personal416 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 101 Location: Cincinnati Status: couple SLS Name:personal416	Re: Would you want to swing single? Since it can be a chore to sort out the good single males, I'd feel sorry for single males entering the mix after being much better accepted previously as part of a couple.

03-31-2008, 02:04 PM	#42 (permalink)
LFM2 Happy Fall, Y'all!! Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,850 Location: State of Confusion Status: Couple SLS Name:LFM2 Blog Entries: 4	Re: Would you want to swing single? If something happened to Dave (god forbid) I could probably swing single after a few years of recovery. Depends on how old I am. If I'm 80, I think I'd just pass on the whole swinging thing. __________________ "One half of the world cannot understand the pleasures of the other." Jane Austen

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