What's your swinger status?

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-08-2004, 03:04 PM

I'm curious to know what the ratio is of active to non-active swingers on this site...... so take the poll.

OhioCouple · 01-08-2004, 04:27 PM

I think we need one more catagory here. One in which the person(s) were active and may not be necessarily taking a break due to relocation (or something of that nature) yet are still actively seeking swinging partners, but haven't met anyone compatible with them yet. Although option 3 can be loosely interpereted as such.

**Alura** · 01-08-2004, 05:16 PM

That's the way we interpreted it, Mrs. O. Of course, opportunity has a lot to do with it. Sometimes you meet special people but circumstances just don't allow play to happen.

Alura

imsnowman · 01-08-2004, 10:36 PM

Dito We actively inactive.

frenzb4sex · 01-08-2004, 10:57 PM

We are active!!!! We had to take a little time off for Lora to have knee surgery, but after about six weeks she is REALLY putting that knee to work<EG>

Tim

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-08-2004, 11:27 PM

Taking a break could be for any reason... basically just meaning that at this particular time you aren't currently active. If you would like to expound on the reason for your break please do.

sexypairca · 01-11-2004, 10:15 AM

We are active in the lifestyle. Sometimes it seems like it has consumed our social calendar and other times I will wonder how long it has been since we have been out.

Annette

sepacouple · 01-12-2004, 06:28 PM

I wondering what the definition of "active" is. Do you have to play with someone other than your spouse or SO once a week, once a month, twice a year or is it more of a frame of mind.

What level of play is required, does it have to involve intercourse with someone other than your spouse or SO to be considered actively swinging or can it just be watching and being watched at a club, which is what we enjoy doing?

I guess there is no such thing as a simple question.

**Alura** · 01-12-2004, 08:31 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sepacouple
I guess there is no such thing as a simple question.

I don't think I've ever seen one on this board, Sepacouple!

Mr. Alura

Vjklander · 01-14-2004, 09:12 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by sepacouple
I wondering what the definition of "active" is. Do you have to play with someone other than your spouse or SO once a week, once a month, twice a year or is it more of a frame of mind.

What level of play is required, does it have to involve intercourse with someone other than your spouse or SO to be considered actively swinging or can it just be watching and being watched at a club, which is what we enjoy doing?

I guess there is no such thing as a simple question.

Bill ? Bill Clinton ? Is that you? Hot DAMN !!!!
Welcome to the bord!!!
J

artboy · 01-16-2004, 11:56 AM

happily active.....and the way things are going now...10:53 am Alabama time, we may be active tomorrow evening...whoo-hoo.....

hell who knows....maybe I'll get it up this time

heheheheh

Lee

ga_cpl_frknit · 01-17-2004, 06:57 AM

We took a hard-core break and I think we're on our way to a comeback. We're not ready for full swap, yet, but we're definitely in for some soft swap.

It's good to be back.

Tracy 'n Stacey

**Alura** · 01-17-2004, 10:53 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by artboy
happily active.....and the way things are going now...10:53 am Alabama time, we may be active tomorrow evening...whoo-hoo.....

hell who knows....maybe I'll get it up this time

heheheheh

Lee

Take along two Viagra pills, Lee, one for you and one for the other guy, just in case. 'Tis better to be safe than soggy.

Mr. Alura

angihay · 01-21-2004, 07:20 AM

Nice to know so many are active! We have run into so many recently that are curious and unsure. We try to be as understanding and patient as possible though, because how are they going to be experienced if they don't try

trinityinMO · 01-27-2004, 03:03 PM

hello all new member here! we are wanting to become active, just being careful and safe and trying to find someone compatible with us.... haven't found anyone yet...... head bang

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View Poll Results: Are you CURRENTLY Active ....
Yes, we are actively swinging at this time	48	75.00%
No, we have not yet had our first experience	5	7.81%
We were active but are currently taking a break	11	17.19%
I have no desire to be active, I'm just trying to figure out what my partner is talking about	0	0%
Voters: 64. You may not vote on this poll

01-08-2004, 03:04 PM	#1 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,303 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	What's your swinger status? I'm curious to know what the ratio is of active to non-active swingers on this site...... so take the poll. __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

01-08-2004, 04:27 PM	#2 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	I think we need one more catagory here. One in which the person(s) were active and may not be necessarily taking a break due to relocation (or something of that nature) yet are still actively seeking swinging partners, but haven't met anyone compatible with them yet. Although option 3 can be loosely interpereted as such. __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

01-08-2004, 10:57 PM	#5 (permalink)
frenzb4sex Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2003 Posts: 239 Location: Central Illinois Status: Male of Couple SLS Name:frenzb4sex	YEAH BABBEEEEE YEAH! We are active!!!! We had to take a little time off for Lora to have knee surgery, but after about six weeks she is REALLY putting that knee to work<EG> Tim __________________ "I can resist everything except for temptation..."

01-08-2004, 05:16 PM	#3 (permalink)
Alura T-Town Playmates Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,125 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Married to Mrs. Alura	That's the way we interpreted it, Mrs. O. Of course, opportunity has a lot to do with it. Sometimes you meet special people but circumstances just don't allow play to happen. Alura

01-08-2004, 10:36 PM	#4 (permalink)
imsnowman Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 429 Location: TX Status: couple	Dito We actively inactive.

01-08-2004, 11:27 PM	#6 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,303 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Taking a break could be for any reason... basically just meaning that at this particular time you aren't currently active. If you would like to expound on the reason for your break please do. __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

01-11-2004, 10:15 AM	#7 (permalink)
sexypairca Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 670 Location: Windsor, Ontario Status: married couple SLS Name:sexypairca	We are active in the lifestyle. Sometimes it seems like it has consumed our social calendar and other times I will wonder how long it has been since we have been out. Annette __________________ I'm not cheap, but I am on special this week.

01-12-2004, 06:28 PM	#8 (permalink)
sepacouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 108 Location: southeastern PA Status: couple	I wondering what the definition of "active" is. Do you have to play with someone other than your spouse or SO once a week, once a month, twice a year or is it more of a frame of mind. What level of play is required, does it have to involve intercourse with someone other than your spouse or SO to be considered actively swinging or can it just be watching and being watched at a club, which is what we enjoy doing? I guess there is no such thing as a simple question.

01-16-2004, 11:56 AM	#11 (permalink)
artboy Active Member Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 37 Location: Lower Alabama Status: couple SLS Name:artboy	happily active.....and the way things are going now...10:53 am Alabama time, we may be active tomorrow evening...whoo-hoo..... hell who knows....maybe I'll get it up this time heheheheh Lee __________________ Somethings are best just left unsaid..... ;)

01-17-2004, 06:57 AM	#12 (permalink)
ga_cpl_frknit Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 192 Location: Georgia Status: Couple	We're making our way back We took a hard-core break and I think we're on our way to a comeback. We're not ready for full swap, yet, but we're definitely in for some soft swap. It's good to be back. Tracy 'n Stacey __________________ Courage, love, friendship, compassion, and empathy lift us above the simple beasts and define humanity.

01-21-2004, 07:20 AM	#14 (permalink)
angihay Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 124 Location: michigan Status: couple	Nice to know so many are active! We have run into so many recently that are curious and unsure. We try to be as understanding and patient as possible though, because how are they going to be experienced if they don't try

01-27-2004, 03:03 PM	#15 (permalink)
trinityinMO Registered Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 5 Location: MO Status: couple	hello all new member here! we are wanting to become active, just being careful and safe and trying to find someone compatible with us.... haven't found anyone yet...... head bang

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