What's your swinger status?

[Jamie&Kieth]

YUP we active, but now that school has started the chances that we will get together with our friends is probably over Thanksgiving or when we get together for our annual Christmas Vacation ... makes the get together even more exciting and fun.

[jennjenn]

We aren't active yet because we're still in the talking stages of it all. We met through a swinger's site and know we both want to do this but we also know that we have the potential to be way more than swing partners. We want to know each other all the way first, be secure in our commitment level to each other, and then slowly introduce swinging into our relationship. I'm not sure how long this will take but it's exciting talking and learning about it facelick !

[The Big A]

Woo Hoo!!! We've just played around before but this weekend we finally found the right, sexy couple and things clicked and we went full swap.....It was fantastic!!!!

[bourbonnchristi]

Currently taking a break...

[fun4Ds]

we swing when life and the opertunity allows. its been kind latley

[kinkykoupleinny]

We are new members here, and are very active in the swinging lifestyle... if anyone here in close to Lindenhurst, ny, and want to get active with us, hjust drop us a line.

[OttawaCuple]

I was an active swinger, both with a former partner and as a single female, for a number of years before meeting my husband. He's never swung before.

We are planning to swing as a couple, but he's worried he won't be able to handle seeing me with another man. Neither of us have any problem with him being with another woman but we both agree it wouldn't be fair for him to be playing with a woman and then turn into a green-eyed monster if I took a similar interest in another man, so we are taking baby steps and talking a lot.


As close as we've come so far is going to Hedonism II in Jamaica, hanging around nude and having some somewhat tame PDAs (in Hedo language, that means public displays of intimate affection) while watching others having their own PDAs. We've officially joined our local swingers' club, but haven't made the leap to actually going.

MrsOttawaCuple

[cj22s]

The Mr. and I decided to actively pursue the lifestyle about a month ago. Since then we have meet a couple that is wonderful. The four of us have decided to make it a regular thing. I guess that makes us active.

[Bad Sandy]

My wonderful, patient hubby has been quietly urging me to consider this for years! I waffle terribly about it! One day I'm thrilled to try and the next I'm petrified it'll ruin our fabulous relationship. We've been to Hedo II and had sex publicly but haven't involved others yet. So although I chose "No, we haven't had the opportunity to become active yet" We've had lots of opportunity, I just haven't said, "Let's do it!"

[LFM2]

I too have one of those wonderful husbands who subtly mentioned the idea of swinging forever ago and I never thought to take him seriously. I know he felt trepidation at mentioning anything to me for fear of rejection, that I wouldn't love him anymore or some other crazy reason. What I never mentioned to him after 22 years of marriage is that I’d had more than my share of fantasies that consisted of another couple or another female in our bed. I had the same fears, and I now realize that I should have known better.

It was one night when we were in the middle of the hottest sex that he mentioned that he joined a swinger’s personals site (SLS) It was then that I knew he was serious.

He works out of town from Monday through Thursday and for four days, I never thought of anything else. I found this site to do a lot of research on swinging, reading every post I could.

We have talked with another couple and are hopefully meeting this upcoming weekend. I really want us to connect, but if we don’t, oh well. We’ve talked till we’re blue about what we want, what we don’t. If neither of us is comfortable, we both walk.

I just love this place!!

[discoandvyper]

Yes, we are active and looking for a cute couple, single female, or rarely a single male...

Inquire within...

[Inanna]

We have talked about swinging but my hubby says we are too busy right now...which is true. We just moved (long distance) and have the kid factor and blah blah yaddie yaddie. I just wonder how we can match up perfectly with another couple. It seems matching up 4 people is much harder than matching up individually. Plus being in the bible belt makes me a little curious about who are at the local get togethers - I guess people like us I also happen to be in the health care field with a lot of exposure to the public - so would I see fellow swingers at my workplace? Maybe... and how would that feel? I like to think all swingers are mature and good natured people, but I know that there are always a few sour apples in any group (well maybe not this web site ) I am excited by the prospect but it will have to be on my back burner of activities - like all the other ones! AAAGH! Life passes so quickly.

[rpu3]

We are active, but consider ourselves new entries to this scene. I (the female half) is the one that's been the "pushing" party, and I'm the one who wrote the profiles, put 'em up, and handle a lot of the correspondence (he sees everything, however, because we do go through it together, and he sees my response before it goes out).

[JDApopka]

Active we are meeting a new found friend tonite and if all goes well a mfm will be happening by 10pm and this one may be one to keep around awhile

[wonhotlady56]

I am new to this board as a single woman. I have a very unique situation on my hands....My late husband and I were swingers for 4-5 years and were actually with very good swinger friends when he had his heart attack last year. It has been a long haul, but I find myself with a new partner, I am very happy emotionally and especially in the bedroom with this new friend of 7 weeks. The situation is that I have told him about my past and he is very cool with it......I have brought it up only on two occasions, and he does seem very curious. He even admitted to a MFM threesome in his 20's. He is 48, I am 49. So do I just go with the flow and hope he wants to try it , the sex is so incredible with just the two of us.....but I feel there is something missing.......any thoughts?