What's your swinger status?

Sadie · 01-27-2004, 07:10 PM

Not as active as I would like to be...I thought single bi-females were in demand!!! Living in a rural area it's hard finding willing playmates as my number 1 rule is "if you are married and your wife does not know, I am not the person for you".

EternallySingle · 01-28-2004, 10:02 PM

Two couples wrote me to say they weren't interested in meeting to swing but wanted to meet in case they had a party and needed an extra. One wrote the next day (the husband) and asked if I was bi. The other, the wife wrote and said she'd like to meet me while her husband was at work. Both cases were unappealing. So, while I gave up on the idea of actively pursuing for now, spring's coming...

...eventually. Haven't been to Florida or Nevada for a while.

stoutgatte · 07-13-2004, 08:31 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alura

Take along two Viagra pills, Lee, one for you and one for the other guy, just in case. 'Tis better to be safe than soggy.

Mr. Alura

Dito

Although, afaik, you only need 25mg for a normally healthy guy just needing a little confidence (and erection) boost... 1 may be enuff for both...

HotCoupleGnS · 07-13-2004, 09:33 AM

I would have to say we are inactive!

I guess we have taken a break. In the 6 months we have been on a site we have only met 1 couple. That did not work out. We have 2 young kids, so it makes getting out of the house difficult to say the least. But we still talk about it a lot! Hope fully soon we can meet someone online that seems good enough to get a sitter for!

07-13-2004, 09:59 AM

I geuss you could call us Active. last time we swung was last weekend. We have been swinging at least once a month or more since we started to pursue the lifestyle.

07-13-2004, 09:28 PM

Just wanted to clarify what the Mr. wrote...........

Although it's been at least once a month, it's not always with someone new.

ALilOEverything · 07-13-2004, 09:58 PM

We are active

We don't want to make this more than a once a month occasion as we have small kids and still want to make time to do the vanilla activities we also love to do so much

BradAndJanet · 07-13-2004, 10:28 PM

We are active...and heading to our first on-premise club this Friday...

-B

fane · 08-12-2004, 05:41 AM

we have been active since the day we discovered lifestyle 3 years ago and hope to remain for many years to come

St. Augustine · 08-22-2004, 04:19 PM

When we first registered on this Board we were at the talking stage. Reading and responding to a lot of posts and more talking between us.

We went to a Swing Club during that beginning stage to see what it was all about. Mike and I played a bit in the pool with a single female, what is called Soft Swing stuff.

Then a series of most unexpected events occurred and over this past year we haven't been to this Board or any Board. Haven't pursued the Lifestyle at all. Things have begun to turn around for both of us and getting better every day.

Last weekend we went back to that Swing Club had a great time. We decided at the end of the downstairs party to rent a room and join the party above stairs.

A couple joined us in our room and we experienced our first Swing! All I can say about it is that it was amazing. We have been making love a lot since then. We now consider ourselves involved.

We have a date this coming Saturday with the couple we met and looking forward to it.

Mrs Spoomonkey · 08-22-2004, 04:58 PM

I would say we are as active as our schedule permits. We try to make it to the club at least 1-2 times a month and we have lifestyle friends that we get together with as well.

As I said as our schedule permits, unfortunately we haven't been to the club for almost two months but I did get a chance to entertain a couple we are friends with while Mr Spoo was training for his new part time job this week.

We enjoy our friends in the lifestyle and try to do more things with them then our "vanilla friends" (easier for us than most since we have no kids at home to contend with).

Mrs Spoomonkey

eagleindep · 08-22-2004, 06:14 PM

We just starting and trying to become active....

GeorgiaCouple · 09-20-2004, 12:21 PM

We are currently active..had a great time with another couple this weekend.... and currently talking to possiblities.... so I would have to say we are active as hell...hehehhehe

fun_pairTX · 09-20-2004, 01:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Alura

Take along two Viagra pills, Lee, one for you and one for the other guy, just in case. 'Tis better to be safe than soggy.

Mr. Alura

Alura,

You are killin me man......................................

DJTriad · 06-17-2005, 11:52 PM

We are very active with those where the feelings are mutual.

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Yes, we are actively swinging at this time	48	75.00%
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01-28-2004, 10:02 PM	#17 (permalink)
EternallySingle Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 1,035 Location: Michigan Status: Single Male SLS Name:ABSingleMan	What Sadie said...almost Two couples wrote me to say they weren't interested in meeting to swing but wanted to meet in case they had a party and needed an extra. One wrote the next day (the husband) and asked if I was bi. The other, the wife wrote and said she'd like to meet me while her husband was at work. Both cases were unappealing. So, while I gave up on the idea of actively pursuing for now, spring's coming... ...eventually. Haven't been to Florida or Nevada for a while. __________________ "Style is not lusting after somone because they are cool. Style is loving yourself till everyone else does too." Prince

07-13-2004, 09:33 AM	#19 (permalink)
HotCoupleGnS Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 970 Location: Tulsa, OK Status: couple SLS Name:HotCoupleGnS	Re: Swinging Status I would have to say we are inactive! I guess we have taken a break. In the 6 months we have been on a site we have only met 1 couple. That did not work out. We have 2 young kids, so it makes getting out of the house difficult to say the least. But we still talk about it a lot! Hope fully soon we can meet someone online that seems good enough to get a sitter for!

07-13-2004, 09:59 AM	#20 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	Mr here I geuss you could call us Active. last time we swung was last weekend. We have been swinging at least once a month or more since we started to pursue the lifestyle.

01-27-2004, 07:10 PM	#16 (permalink)
Sadie Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 118 Location: Minnesota Status: Female / S	Not as active as I would like to be...I thought single bi-females were in demand!!! Living in a rural area it's hard finding willing playmates as my number 1 rule is "if you are married and your wife does not know, I am not the person for you".

07-13-2004, 09:28 PM	#21 (permalink)
Mr&Mrs-naughty Posts: n/a	MRs here- Just wanted to clarify what the Mr. wrote........... Although it's been at least once a month, it's not always with someone new.

07-13-2004, 09:58 PM	#22 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,472 Location: Michigan Status: Couple	Re: Swinging Status We are active We don't want to make this more than a once a month occasion as we have small kids and still want to make time to do the vanilla activities we also love to do so much __________________ ~Lilo

07-13-2004, 10:28 PM	#23 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	Re: Swinging Status We are active...and heading to our first on-premise club this Friday... -B __________________ "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain All about us...

08-12-2004, 05:41 AM	#24 (permalink)
fane Active Member Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 11 Location: Danmark Status: couple	Re: Swinging Status we have been active since the day we discovered lifestyle 3 years ago and hope to remain for many years to come

08-22-2004, 04:19 PM	#25 (permalink)
St. Augustine Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 266 Location: St. Augustine, FL Status: Couple	Re: Swinging Status When we first registered on this Board we were at the talking stage. Reading and responding to a lot of posts and more talking between us. We went to a Swing Club during that beginning stage to see what it was all about. Mike and I played a bit in the pool with a single female, what is called Soft Swing stuff. Then a series of most unexpected events occurred and over this past year we haven't been to this Board or any Board. Haven't pursued the Lifestyle at all. Things have begun to turn around for both of us and getting better every day. Last weekend we went back to that Swing Club had a great time. We decided at the end of the downstairs party to rent a room and join the party above stairs. A couple joined us in our room and we experienced our first Swing! All I can say about it is that it was amazing. We have been making love a lot since then. We now consider ourselves involved. We have a date this coming Saturday with the couple we met and looking forward to it. __________________ sex is probably updatedb; locate; talk; date; cd; unzip; strip; look; touch; finger; head; mount; fsck; more; yes; yes; umount; make clean; sleep;

08-22-2004, 04:58 PM	#26 (permalink)
Mrs Spoomonkey Disney!All rides are open Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 1,755 Location: Ohio Status: Married SLS Name:spoomonkey	Re: Swinging Status I would say we are as active as our schedule permits. We try to make it to the club at least 1-2 times a month and we have lifestyle friends that we get together with as well. As I said as our schedule permits, unfortunately we haven't been to the club for almost two months but I did get a chance to entertain a couple we are friends with while Mr Spoo was training for his new part time job this week. We enjoy our friends in the lifestyle and try to do more things with them then our "vanilla friends" (easier for us than most since we have no kids at home to contend with). Mrs Spoomonkey __________________ Love is friendship set aflame

08-22-2004, 06:14 PM	#27 (permalink)
eagleindep Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 22 Location: Arkansas Status: Couple	Re: Swinging Status We just starting and trying to become active....

09-20-2004, 12:21 PM	#28 (permalink)
GeorgiaCouple Active Member Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 48 Location: Columbus Georgia Status: couple/S. Females/M. Females/ S. Males/M. Males SLS Name:cpl_n_ga2004	Re: Swinging Status We are currently active..had a great time with another couple this weekend.... and currently talking to possiblities.... so I would have to say we are active as hell...hehehhehe

06-17-2005, 11:52 PM	#30 (permalink)
DJTriad Active Member Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Central Michigan Status: Couple	Re: Swinging Status We are very active with those where the feelings are mutual.

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