Is this your first marriage?

[RnR]

Married once, 47 years March 21 and counting.

[manitobaguygirl]

We've actually discussed this a lot. We, Rich and I have both went through divorce and have talked at legnth about why things different the second time around. In my marriage I was jealous and sensitive, not to mention abusive on both sides and a lot of affairs. Now I am over 30 and wanted to explore my sexuality. So I had a talk with my wonderful and amazing guy and he was all for it and when I brought up the subject of swinging with him he was all for it! The conclusions I've come to is that now I can seperate love and sex and see the reality is what feels good feels good! and real intimacy is the nitty gritty of the relationship it's withstanding time and seeing each other through the bad times and laughing together through the good times. Swinging just enhances what we have. It would be interesting to do a formal study on this subject, many of the couple we swing with are also divorcees... hmmm and yet the poll shows that never divorced people out weight the divorcees.

jo and rich

[missiondificult]

We're living together & will be married soon (I hope he reads this!!!!) When we do, it'll be a 1st marriage for both of us.

[jennandjamesinm]

This will be marriage number 2 for both James and I, on June 25th. I think with both of us being married before helps us see what went wrong with those relationships and makes ours much stronger.

Jenn

[knkyPAcpl]

Married 15 years and currently in the process of a divorce because she felt the need to be with men behind my back while I was out of town. She had done that once before and that is more or less what led us to the lifestyle. We both thought that if we wanted to be with others we should do it together so there would be no secrets. After long discussions we agreed to do nothing behind each other's back and she understood what it did to me to find out she had and what I would do if I found out she did it again. Well I found out. Now I will probably end up staying with the woman we had been sharing for the last 3 years

[JimWActg]

Both my wife and I are on our third marriage.

I was in the lifestyle with all three partners, she has only entered into it after meeting me.

Don't think the lifestyle made or broke any of the marriages.

[evulkitty]

I'll just say this, my first marriage was a swinger relationship too . . .

only somebody forgot to tell me and invite me.

Glad that while I was out serving my country . . . she was at home SERVICING it.

Kitty has helped to make my life SO much better!

[driveajeepnaked]

My cumulative stats:

Ex #1: Acquired two kids

Ex #2: Acquired two cats

Mr. Jeep: Loves the kids, loves the cats, loves me just for me!! I am SOOO lucky to have stumbled across him...

Valarie

[txduo2000]

This is the second marriage for me and the third for hubby. His first marriage was one of those "got the girlfriend pregnant and gotta marry her" deals and they were married for less than a year. The second one, he was married for 11 years til she left him for another man. They actually forayed into swinging a little, only went to a couple of lifestyle clubs. She liked the attention, but got furious if he got any attention at all.

My first marriage lasted almost 10 years and we were together since we were in high school. We never even considered venturing into the lifestyle and he also left me for someone else.

I have a lot more openness with my current husband in this marriage, though we have had many trials and tribulations throughout our 6 years together. But he is the love of my life and I believe I am his. Hopefully we have weathered the toughest of the storms and will be successful. Nothing I want more!

[dingdong69]

I know this is going to bring a new set of questions but here I go, second for me in my previous one we shared the lifestyle MFM,FMF,foursome,long sessions, great relationships the whole thing, it ended after 13 years for unrelated reasons, now on my second my current wife whom I love so much would not even want to hear about it so I have to burried my fantasies and desires deep inside and enjoy hearing from in this wonderful web page.

[JDApopka]

29 Years and counting

[angeel]

This is my second marriage. My hubbys first. I did not swing with the first. My ex went with out me and i did not like it. Tried to get him to include me. Did not work. The next one was not a marriage, but we were partners for 4 yrs. We did not swing, but he introduced me to some 3somes and my first BI experiences. My husband now, was into group sex before our marriage. We have invested 8yrs into our marriage. We built our friendship, trust, security, and love before we even decided this was right or wrong for us. That does not mean that newly married couple don't enjoy swinging right away. Or that new partners do not. I just don't think we could have handled before now. We had discussed swinging before now, but the opportunity never came. I found AFF and joined a group there that did greet n meets. I showed it to him and said we have the opportunity now. Do you want to explore this further. Thats how we got started and we are loving it!

[Daddy'sGirl]

Second marriage.We are newlyweds but have been together for 7 years.My firts marriage was to a minister 10 years older then me...very rigid and restrctive.We didnt even have oral sex.It is great to be with someone who you can feel so free with to express your darkes fantasies.

[lonesomedove341]

This is our first marriage going on 13 years been together for 17 years...

[Britcouple]

Married 30 years this year both been to hell and back on ocassions with each other but love her more than ever.