Would you like a MFM 3some that is NOT within a 4some?

[Vjklander]

Originally posted by customhardtail
We have a single friend that we play with on occations...my hubby is usually the instigator... He knows I love to suck one while I'm being fucked by the other.

We also have had MFM within a foursome.

It's all good!

We concur 100%, though I prefer a soft tail myself.
J

[Vjklander]

Originally posted by Maus-Katz
We were just talking about this at dinner this evening... I had thought about the FMF thing but had never really given any consideration to the MFM thing before... Sounds like it could be fun, I'm pretty open to a new experience...

L (the other half who hasn't posted until tonight...)

open is good.
J

[Vjklander]

Originally posted by ready2pla
That is where the male partners are wrong they don't think there will be a woman there for them too enjoy. Unless your threesomes are with three guys you will have one very happy and appreciative lady for you too enjoy. If you could pick one lady too make very happy sexually wouldn't you pick your partner.
Now I am not talking about inviting a guy over and you go sit in the corner while he nails your wife to the bed!!! Jump in there and help him out that is what she is wanting. Two men paying attention too her. Find out by talking if she would like one in her mouth while she is getting pounded good. And if she is like my wife she my just jump for a chance at a DP.

Every point here is absolutely true for us too. We are equally happy with any combo really. Each has its own attributes. For a lone female, my wife will merrily take on as many males as want a go and leave them all exhausted. Personally, I can satisfy two females easily, as long as its not more than once a week or so. Since Mrs Vjk is bi, I do have some help in that regard.
To each his own, but I think any male who won't share his wife with another male is missing out on a lot of fun.
J

[awider2000]

Being a single male I can't cast my vote but I can say this is very encouraging. It would seem that single male swingers are not quite the bane of the lifestyle as some would lead to believe. It also would seem there is more; well maybe demand is not the right word here but you get my drift than some would like to think. I do know the online sites are a big hassel for couples and there are a lot of guys on there who say they are single but have a S.O.. would be nice if there were someway to weed through all that but, that is a drawback of the net. I continue to meet couples from online that want a single male swing partner for threesome and im hoping I found just the right couple but time will tell it out. Good to see a poll like this.
Have a great day,
Mike

[EternallySingle]

Originally posted by awider2000
Being a single male I can't cast my vote but I can say this is very encouraging. It would seem that single male swingers are not quite the bane of the lifestyle as some would lead to believe. It also would seem there is more; well maybe demand is not the right word here but you get my drift than some would like to think. I do know the online sites are a big hassel for couples and there are a lot of guys on there who say they are single but have a S.O.. would be nice if there were someway to weed through all that but, that is a drawback of the net. I continue to meet couples from online that want a single male swing partner for threesome and im hoping I found just the right couple but time will tell it out. Good to see a poll like this.
Have a great day,
Mike

There have always been couples looking only for single men to join them. There are also a few (very few, I think I've met the only five ) single females actively involved in swinging that want to meet a man for dating and eventually to swing with. The problem for those women and couples is finding out who is real and who is just looking to get laid quickly. The solution is to meet people in real life without relying solely on the internet, but that is difficult with single men because there is generally only one place to meet them...on internet ad sites.

[JBirdsxs2]

I have always felt like I'm odd or maybe just weird, but It excites me to share my wife with another guy. I really enjoy seeing her in the throws of passion. What I like is for both of us to please her for example... each guy kissing and massaging her breast, rotating oral on her, while one guy penetrates her the other guy massage her and kiss and massage her breast. To further clarify as long as she is happy and being pleased I am happy too. A good MFM to me is as good or better than any foursome. I would not stand back and watch or send her off all by herself. In my mind that would be cheating. BTW I dont have a problem with her kissing the other guy either.

[ready2pla]

That is how I feel I love seeing her in going wild with pleasure when she has a great time I have a great time. I love watching her face when our male playmate enter's her vagina or ass the look of pure hot pleasure on her face. We have had many four sums many times and don't get me wrong they are great but if you want to see a woman in real heaven give her two very horny guy's in a bed and see if you can drive her wild with extasy and I don't mean the pills. Give her what she wants guys anything you won't regreat it!!!

[sandk]

I would have to agree. While we are still some what new to the lifestyle, there is nothing more pleasing to me than to watch my SO finding pure pleasure and ultimate enjoyment by being attended to by two of us at the same time. Knowing she is in the ultimate pleasure zone is a mental high for me. Not saying that some day I would not enjoy trying a MFF but we will see what happens. For now, I find great pleasure in participating and watching her enjoyment of a MFM.

S of S&K (the male 1/2)

[lauriern]

How many women have had a MFM not involving your husband or partner? Either he watched or was aware but not present?

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by lauriern

How many women have had a MFM not involving your husband or partner? Either he watched or was aware but not present?

Not me, but my hubby has recently approached me with this idea.

I'll let you know how it turns out.

[TNT]

Originally Posted by lauriern

How many women have had a MFM not involving your husband or partner? Either he watched or was aware but not present?

Ummm...been there done that, more than once and hope to do it again.

Teresa

Oh, Ted was there watching and he hopes to do it again too.

[curiousagain]

Working with a large group of women for many years I have been privey to many conversations and discussions that I otherwise might not have been. At least where I work it seems to me more than 70% of the women admit their number one sex fantasy is a MFM. The second is to be with another female and third is a FMF. So many of these women say this but follow it with "I would never do it though, because it would make me feel like a slut" This of course, is social conditioning, moral training etc. The point I am trying to make is that so many women want to do these things on a basic sexual level.

[MV325]

M is all for MFM. F interested in trying. Still seeking right M.

[DBStPete]

We had our first MFM when we were 17, I think. Ok, we were precocious.

We haven't really had all that many since (31st anniversary Friday). Finding good men is not at all easy.

But it's absolutely my fave. Two guys to pay attention to her, satisfy her, drive her wild; it doesn't get any better. See, I'm funny; the higher she gets, the higher I get. I can cum by myself anytime. But doing that contact-high-sex thing with your life partner - whew!

So, single guys, yeah, we want you. But you have to be a good 'un. Reading threads here can tell you just how to do that.

[Denver2some]

We answered #1, because we've already had some MFMs with single guys. We love them! As a female, I enjoy having the undivided attention of two males. And hubby likes being able to watch and participate with me, without having to also be entertaining the other lady at the same time.

Partly because of these preferences, when we are with couples we just swap rather than also trying to do MFM and FMF combinations.