Racial Diversity in the lifestyle

[M1F2KTJ]

I voted that we are willing to swing with any race. I don't know what the big deal is. We consider personality first. ( I was going to leave it at that but as I thought more ...) ... Assholes come in all colors, big dicks and little dicks come in all colors.

[polo_10]

We live in the surburban Detroit area... and started swinging 4 yrs ago and came to find out quickly that there is a line drawn when it comes to Diversity...in our are there are several majority white clubs and we were fine with that our sponsors were White/Male and his wife was from Panama..but after several visits we always left the club feeling unwanted as if we were a plague..Now far as attraction goes my wife is mixed and model and myself a clean cut physically fit Black male. Our biggest complaint has been the stand-offish that seems to come because of our race and yes we have reached out plenty of times. Then we explored clubs in the urban city (Majority Black) and found that we were Welcome, but their membership consist of body shapes that were unattractive to us (with the exception of a few)..So I reasoned that race plays a part as much as what's attractive to you as a couple.

[landr2b]

After reading through most of the other post here, we'd agree that we first look for personnality rather than color. There has to be chemistry with everyone no matter their color.

[Slicdic4u]

We don't feel race is an issue! we have been with Blacks,Native American,Asian,Hispanic,& a couple from Vietnam.So what's the issue here?? Sex or Color????

[SecretAsianMan]

I've never thought of "race" as being much of an issue for me ... however, I've noticed that in my particular area (Southern California) MOST of the swingers I've encountered area are white, with a fair representation of blacks & hispanics/latin-americans as well.

There are very few other asians that I've encountered (and even fewer asian males) - so that I'm actually a bit of a unique person in most of the groups I've interacted with.

There was one time, quite recently that I ran into a couple whom I had met at a party about four or five years ago - they remembered me quite clearly and called me by name. I had no clue who they were (of course, the fact that they were both now about 100+ lbs less than when I first met them probably didn't help me any)

[jgal]

Personality is the big thing for us. We need to click as people first and then we can be more than friends! race and age are nothing to us

[lardub]

With us it isn't race but attitude and well body image, we are both turned on by certain bodies and not so by others regardless of ethnic back ground. Their has to be a chemical mixture there or play doesn't happen. It all comes down to attitude and desire, if they have a bad attitude we have no desire.

[Tina and Bob]

Swinging experience has opened up a more open and less opinionated view on cultural or race driven differences amongst us all. I had only been with caucasian men before swinging. Bob encouraged me to diversify not only in my sexual freedom, but in the races I play with. I have now played with many African American men and some Hispanic men and women and one of my regular single male friends is African American. We are fortunate that we live in a culturally/racially diverse area of the country where being with a black man in public is not out of the norm.

[Numex]

Originally Posted by Greg & Sheryl

Conversely, it seems like many black women don’t even want to perform oral sex. Greg attended a historically black college in the 1980’s and couldn’t even buy a blowjob from many of the coeds there! These results from a study at the University of Arkansas (Sexuality) seem to confirm this aversion:

Frequency of Oral-genital Stimulation:
1. 75% of white women report performing oral sex; 78% of white women report receiving oral sex.
2. 34% of black women report performing oral sex; 49% of black women report receiving oral sex.

That surprises me. I'm a white guy and the best bj's I have ever gotten were from the two black women i dated years apart. Most white women give a little unenthusiastic oral as forepaly but then stop. The black women knew what they were doing and keep doing it until I would cum if thats what i wanted. And they would swallow, the only white woman that did that for me is my wife. They were also happy to get licked, in addition to and not instead of fucking. No one in this ever suggested anal, so I cant say about that. So i found it quite good, i hope they remember me with good memories too.

[Tina and Bob]

In defense of the other white women here, I can say that I've seen many white women give excellent BJ"s, of course I was not on the receiving end, but have been told that my technique is excellent. I lick and suck testicles, lick the shaft and stroke it while sucking and can deep throat most any guy. If cumming in my mouth and me swallowing is what floats your boat I am all for it, but don't forget that I want to be pleased my way as well, it is not a one way street.

[Numex]

Originally Posted by Tina and Bob

In defense of the other white women here, I can say that I've seen many white women give excellent BJ"s.

After being with my wife there is no need to defend white women to me. She will do it to completion and swollow. When i asked her, my wife (white) said that she had been with 8 black guys, that for 5 she thinks she was their first white pussy. My wife said that they were all grateful for bjs, especially that she would swallow, although she preferred them not to cum because she preferred regular sex instead so she could cum good too. One guy she remembers particularly well was obsessed with her silky white girl hair, loved to play with it while she blew him, and liked her soft pussy hair too. She accomodated him by letting her pussy hair grow for a while. So maybe it's just that overall black people don't do oral sex a lot.