Racial Diversity in the lifestyle

[Daddy'sGirl]

Do you find that people of color tend to be more sexually inhibited and secretive of thier freakiness?

[Hoot]

I too am a married female w/a man of color as a lover. And, may i say, i do believe that they can be, but, not always. Could it be their culture? I do not know. I have not explored this. If you have any advice on this subject, i am very open minded, & would love to hear it.

Hoot

[MissKat]

Here in Australia swinging is very much a 'white' scene with the only real diversity coming from European singles and couples. We don't really have the racial mix of other countries so that isn't overly surprising. I would say though, that anyone outside of the norm would have a definite exotic cache and probably find themselves extremely popular.

[Additude]

We are a white male and asian female couple and the only real "Notta" is that she says she is not interested in swinging with an asian male....

[2GirlsGoodBenBa]

Originally Posted by Daddy'sGirl

Do you find that people of color tend to be more sexually inhibited and secretive of their freakiness?

This is a huge stereotype that I'm (Bad Girl) slightly annoyed with being associated with black people. We've been approached by several people with them hinting at wanting to sleep with a black woman because they think that we are oversexed and would give them the ride of their lives. That's quite insulting! And, we reject someone if they approach us in such a manner. We are actually a little reluctant to venture too much out into different groups and clubs because of race and our relationship. We tend to stay within our local Metropolitan area because we feel with the diversity here we shouldn't run into too many issues concerning our relationship and especially our race. We attended a private party where we felt that our race/same sex relationship shunned us from the general group of people and I'm sure the fact that we were the youngest pair there didn't make the situation any better. It always seemed when we were trying to involve ourselves with everyone they were ready to file out to another area of the house. So, we're always looking for some good people who can overlook these superficial things But, at the one club we went to in Washington, DC we found that the crowd was very racially diverse and had a great time and want to check out the scene in NYC because we heard the crowds there were great too.

[Amorcouple]

Hi we are new here but decided to answer this question.
If we seem crude we are sorry, but since the question is asked we will answer.

She does not want any black guys. She gets hit on all the time and they act like they are the biggest pimps/players, and when she says she is not interested they do not respect her. She is sad that she has to catogorize all black men into this field, but since she feels that it is rare to find one that does not think that they are the macks, she says she will just stay away from them, and not waste time. Now for Indian guys she is picky (Yes she is Indian herself) any other ethnicity she is fine with. It all starts with what is in between the ears, then class/personality, then body.

He is really not looking for any white or black girls, let me rephrase this North American white or black girls. (Sorry no disrespect to any readers) He prefers exotic females or white/black females from other countries. He loves Latina and Asian women (he is Latino himself).

This is talking all about sexuall experience, but we are not racist. We hang out and party with all races, but when it comes to stimulating the main sex organ (the brain) this is our preference.

And once again there is no disrespect involved in this answer.

Thank you for your time

[KajiKurai]

We're an inter-racial couple. She's Caucasian and I'm African-American/Puerto Rican/with a touch of something else (likely French or Brit). We don't make race part of our decision at all. It's just never a thought. Never has been for either of us. It's someone's personality that will get our attention and be the final factor in our decisions. Works for us, so we're happy.

[playtime4two]

it really comes down to a matter of choice. why label us as racists when we make a choice as to what turns us on? if we are obligated to accept all into our sexual pleasure, suddenly the "no means no" rule carries no weight at all. choice is one of the pillars of swinging. lets try to keep it from crumbling down.

[Amanda69]

Toronto is a very racially diverse area and many of the clubs show this in their membership.

For us it depends on attraction, so race really doesn't come into it...it is who they are mentally and physically that adds up to the whole package.

Just ask the guy who danced in the men's only last weekend at our club who(on a dare) I went up to and nibbled on his chest and helped him take down his pants...wow was he hot.....

Thank goodness "variety is the spice of life." There is always something for all of us...

[uksexymona]

I personally prefer mixed race swingers clubs and I go there especially to find a big cock black men to fuck me while my husband watches.I am very hooked on big black cocks and my husband knows that and he helped me a lot finding me the right swingers clubs where I can find my fuck buddys.
Usually I don't fuck with white guys unless his cock is super huge and he is young and tall blond with blue eyes.I prefer black guys and their cocks are the best for me so I consider my self interracial and I am proud of that and I don't care what other couples say about it.It is me who enjoy it and therefore it is me who cares.
Most of blacks in swingers clubs are single men and I seldom see black couples in there but that is OK with me as I am always looking for black men to fuck me and they are always available in the swingers clubs we visit.

[joecaldor]

I wouldn't want my white women fucking a black man, but I have fucked many black women in the past and wouldn't mind do it it again. I do prefer white women most of the time, but I do seem to attract lots of good looking black women in my travels.

There is a lot more white men fucking black women than you know. Because of society white men keep these relationships hidden so for various reasons. Especially if your an Italian male. But I know there are many Italian males having sex with black women...they just keep it hidden and don't talk about it.

I have a few black female fuck buddies in various cities and I am not the only one. Black women are very faithfull and loyal if you treat them good.

[uksexymona]

Originally Posted by joecaldor

I wouldn't want my women fucking a black man, but I have fucked many black women in the past and wouldn't mind do it it again. I do prefer white women most of the time, but I do seem to attract lots of good looking black women in my travels. I still have a few that I keep in contact with as fuck buddies.

Don't you think it is unfair? You allow your self to fuck black women but deny this for your wife..............what's worng if she fucks black men as you did fuck black women?

[joecaldor]

What's wrong with me not allowing my girl to fuck black men, is that it would be a turn off for me. I would never be able to make love to her again...that's just the way it is...i grew up in the hood and had many friends of different races.

I love black women, so I need a black women every once in a while...I can't help it as my first sexual experience was with a black women.

[uksexymona]

................but what if she told you that she wants to be fucked by a black guy,would you allow her or deny her request?

[hermano]

Originally Posted by joecaldor

What's wrong with me not allowing my girl to fuck black men, is that it would be a turn off for me. I would never be able to make love to her again...that's just the way it is...i grew up in the hood and had many friends of different races.

I love black women, so I need a black women every once in a while...I can't help it as my first sexual experience was with a black women.

have you ever ask your girl would she like to fuck a black guy, to see what she might say. and your fuck buddies the black ones, do they know you are just a fuck buddy. if you keepi n touch with them,, you might perfer the black ones. i quote you,, you can not help it,, what does that mean exactly.