invites to someone's house/sleeping over

[ALilOEverything]

We've always enjoyed entertaining whether for vanilla or swinging activities. I prefer it because I still get to sleep in my own bed, I don't sleep as well in a strange bed but I still enjoy sleepovers at other people's homes.

[its_fun_for_us]

The couple we're involved with lives about an hour away -- after going out and playing for a few hours -- who wants to drive!! So its an open invitation as fas as we're concerned...

Mrs Fun

[DaveNSheila]

For us we have teenagers which at times is difficult to plan things around. They are usually gone but like anyone else their plans fall through and so we end up with kids home. We have entertained three times without kids but no overnights. We are figuring when the kids are out of the house then maybe we can. We are also looking at the fact that the kids would try and pull surprise visits which wouldn't be ok but we will have to see. D

[tribbles]

8 indoor/outdoor dogs, 2 cats: indoors
Chickens, ducks: outdoors
Slobs r us as well. I don't have dust bunnies they are dust rhinos And we live in the middle of a dirt field, off a dirt road. Dust anyone?
Since it hasn't stopped us from being happily married >25yrs, we aren't going to get the house neat and clean for swinging. So far we haven't let any play partners come visit 'packrat ranch' but you never know! Although with all the fuzzy critters we have it gives a whole new meaning to the concept of hairballs!

[DBL D]

Fem D is comfy using our boat for meeting couples, but has not decided that our house should be avaliable. Not sure why because she dosen't have a problem going to other peoples homes. We are kinda new to this and are still finding our way...

Si su casa es nosotros casa, entonces nosotros casa es su casa.

Male D

[allycat]

We do this all the time.We usually make an evening of it.Have great sex all night and go out to eat in the morning.

[discreetindcpl]

Its not our first choice (or even second, for that matter!) but we have done it twice so far. Obviously- only when the kids are away-having sleepovers at their friends. Then again, the walls are not
that thick and we are afraid that sometimes all the excited voices and sounds might carry over to our neighbors!

[CuriousInOregon]

Well We have had our First swing experience and Yes it was at home We luckilly do have a 3 story house so We played on the top floor with the doors Locked

[cpl_n_ok]

we don't have kids...but have never had another couple come home with us...we are just private people and it doesnt feel comfortable....this has never been a problem....most of the couples we have met feel more confortable going back to their house for some reason....


usually if we plan on having some fun....we get a hotel room....no problems and we dont have to clean up the mess...

[Jamie&Kieth]

When the kids were young it was easy to have our freinds over for the evening or the night. Now that they are older it has become more difficult.

Our oldest just went off to college and we noticed there will be an evening and a couple of weekends with no kids so we are looking forward to a fun filled sex weekend!!!

[fun4Ds]

oh yes we would rather entertain at home. we like to have cpls over for dinner , great conversation and fun if it goes there. there definatly some advantages to this. altho motells are on our list of things to try. we realise its not convient for some cpls to entertain at their house.

[okidoll]

We don't have chitlins' either so we often invite people over to stay. We have three beds and a hot tub . We've been slowly but surely making our house more swingerific.

[chattyroni]

We love entertaining at our house. We have an awesome hot tub and the bar is always fully stocked. When you add in the darts and the karaoke, we have a total party house. I just wish it was bigger so we could host group parties! We have one daughter and we only entertain here when she is gone for the night. She's not old enough to drive yet, so we don't have to worry about her coming home unexpectedly. She's a very smart kid, and we are very open with her so by the time she is old enough to drive, she'll be old enough to understand why we need our private adult time. We do have a very nosey neighbor, but we are not ashamed of what we do so if she's going to nose around hard enough she'll just get what she deserves! I used to stress about the deep cleaning before people came over, but I got over that and if people don't like to come to my house because of the dust or the pets, I'm not offended at all. We did go to one couples house once and were very suprised that her kids were there when we got there. However, she was fine with it and they went off to bed on the other side of the house and her sister was there to make sure they didn't interrupt us. I felt kind of strange leaving and saying goodbye to the sister - knowing that she knew what we'd been doing, but it was still a fun night.

[WonTheSexLotto]

We'd only do this when the kids are not home (at school or a friend's house -- thanks to our flexible work schedules) and then the other party would leave soon after play. Regardless of where we are, we like to be alone afterward so that we can discuss the experience with each other and have some "couple time". Having a deadline of the kids coming home is a good way to ensure that guests don't stay too long.

[RenoFantasy]

Interesting seeing the different responses here.

We are a couple WITH children. Our daughter is almost 7 and our son is 2. We entertain at our house often, and 90% of the time this involves a sleepover. Thus far we haven't had to answer any questions about it, but I'm sure it won't be long. Generally we have the couple over for dinner and movies (or whatever), and after the kids have been in bed a couple hours we migrate to the bedroom. If the other couple has a child/children around the same age as either of ours, they can opt to have them over for a sleepover with our kids.

We've hit a point in our swinging lives where we've come to prefer quality over quantity. While we like to "fool around" a little bit when we hit the clubs, we actually prefer to NOT have sex with someone we've barely met. We like to take our time and get to know couples, trying to make life-long friends (with benefits). Our profile on SLS is VERY detailed about who we are and what we like to do just for this reason. We plan on being friends, so if you're only interested in our looks, but don't like the us... move on to someone else, please.

Because of this approach we've begun to find the "fuck and flee" method to be a bit too cold for our liking. We've become pretty used to having sleepovers and prefer them whenever possible. This gives us PLENTY of time to chat, chuckle, foreplay, have sex (we don't like the term "fuck"), cuddle, and repeat (if desired). Go to sleep, wake up and get a little in before the kids wake. Of course, we also don't require same room relations at all times. So if the kids wake first and folks are still feelin frisky, half of the play group can "run interferance" while the other half play, then switch out and let the other half play while the first keep the kids occupied.

There I go AGAIN, not knowing when to shut up!

Anyway, we have kids. We do sleepovers. We'll explain it to the kids as best we can when the time comes. We have no intention of deceiving our youngsters.

Anyone up for a sleep over!? Welcome

Matt (& Sarah)