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invites to someone's house/sleeping over

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View Poll Results: how do you feel about entertaining at home?
Do it all the time 70 11.48%
Never (kids at home? or give other reason) 158 25.90%
Only when kids are not home for the evening 173 28.36%
Yes, and guest stay until the next AM 118 19.34%
Yes, but they have to leave after play 91 14.92%
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Old 09-07-2003, 09:59 PM   #16 (permalink)
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We prefer that our swinging players not stay all night that is unless we loose track of time and are still banging on the bedroom wall when the sun cumms up. After we are done with the couple or they with us we love to fuck by ourselfs.
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Old 09-15-2003, 08:15 AM   #17 (permalink)
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This subject falls under the same rules of ours for kids in the house=no fun.

We have had some friends over for the night but usually their kids have come with them as well. We have the rule of if there is the patter of feet home we do not go off to another part of the house and we are just getting together as friends.

When we have known someone for some time we will have tham stay if invited to a cookout or other gathering, if they have a long drive or just too tired.

We feel as though it is just too chancy to being dicovered by a child who might just wake up. The only way we might consider it , would be to lock them in their rooms. <EG> But that would be abuse...
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Old 07-15-2004, 04:39 PM   #18 (permalink)
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We wouldn't have a problem hosting if we get a sitter for the night.
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Old 07-15-2004, 06:27 PM   #19 (permalink)
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We don't entertain at our house at all. 1. we have kids 2. we are looking for a house to buy, so we are renting a house. It is real small & we don't like entertaining b/c of it. But as soon as we buy a house we will definitly entertain at our home!
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Old 07-15-2004, 09:14 PM   #20 (permalink)
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We're childless ones as well, and unfortunatly live in military housing to boot. For those of you who have seen it, well, it's nearly impossible to keep the houses perfect (especially the older houses).

A lot of our friends have kids, so we tend to host here as well. We have a sleeper sofa that anyone is welcome to use, playmates or not, but we're pretty sure that for the most part, the choice of locations is predicated mostly by the kids and if they are old enough to know what is going on.
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Old 07-27-2004, 01:28 PM   #21 (permalink)
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Our child is 19 months, so we'll put her to bed and then play/entertain to our delight. This will change as soon as she starts to get up and walk about during the night...
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Old 07-27-2004, 01:42 PM   #22 (permalink)
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We don't invite others to our house to swing because we have kids at home... all the time. But also because as I've said before, this is our adult playtime away from real life, and OUR house is not an escape.

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Old 07-27-2004, 02:32 PM   #23 (permalink)
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What Dave surprisingly forgets to mention is that while childless and living in impossible to keep spic and span military housing we have several cats. Pet allergies can also be a big factor in deciding whose house to meet in. Even if you lock the pets away and clean the house the allergens are still there.

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Old 01-29-2005, 01:52 PM   #24 (permalink)
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Being part of a private group of friends, our parties almost always end up into the early hours of the next morning, and we just love having the parties at our house.

Obviously don't have kids. I won't stay over night at a couples house which isn't in the regular group - it feels akward and I want my own bed, but when we party with our very close friends - we sometimes only get home on Sunday evening !!
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Old 01-29-2005, 11:36 PM   #25 (permalink)
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We entertain in our home but usually when our kids are away for the night!



We have three children the oldest is 6, and not to long ago we had a bad experience with our good regular friends. We thought they understood that you can't go running around around the house naked even if it is in the middle of the night, but they did not. We do have lock on "our" bedroom door, but the male half of the couple went to the bathroom naked and our oldest woke up to get something to drink. Well, needless to say we almost got busted. I had to intervene as soon as I heard the pitter patter of feet going towards the bathroom LOL. Well we all learned a big lesson that night, no more playing at all with the kids in the house. Not because we have issuses with nudity, but i don't want to have to explain why there is a naked man in the bathroom who is not daddy! ROFL
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Old 01-30-2005, 12:45 AM   #26 (permalink)
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This type of question is why I am designing my own house...
There will really be a "play area" even if it just gets used by Mommy & Daddy...
Seperate outside entrance, and bathroom, only connected to the house via our bedroom... and our bedroom will be at the end opposite the kids. With living room & Kitchen in between. I'd really even like to keep a mini fridge there or build in a (sp?) kitchenette.
Also - I plan on having sound proofing in most of the bedroom walls. If done through MOST of the house, the contractors will only ask if I really want to spend that much to have it done, not "Why are you sopund proofing this room above your bedroom" - AS it is, I will have fun explaining the idea if an upstairs room with no door to the family room.
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Old 02-01-2005, 11:56 AM   #27 (permalink)
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We don't have kids at home. We really enjoy inviting friends over for dinner, etc. (both swinger and non-swinger) We always offer them the option of spending the night, especially if they ahve been drinking. Sometimes they accept sometimes not.
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Old 02-02-2005, 01:11 PM   #28 (permalink)
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We have entertained here before after all the kiddies have went to bed and I don't think I would again while they are actually home,, It's soo much better when I can hear the sounds and not having to hold back all the time,, I really love the idea of Sound proofing the walls, Even just for hubby and myself, think I'll have to look into it
I have no problem entertaining when I can get a sitter for the kids, and usually isn't difficult to do but I try not to do it to often. The thought of someone sleeping over, I would love to sometime lay there in my bed all night wrapped around a luscious beauty but the chance hasn't came up yet.

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Old 02-27-2005, 06:44 PM   #29 (permalink)
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Almost all of our playing is at home or at someone else's home.

We love to entertain, wine and dine our guests, and then we all enjoy the ultimate dessert.
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Old 02-27-2005, 07:03 PM   #30 (permalink)
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We can't invite people over because of the kids. Therefore we would need to be invited to someone's house. We are new to this. We would like to be invited to watch for right now. If anyone in the central Pa area wouldl like to be watched mail me.
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