Do you like sex with strangers ?

eddypasifa · 08-01-2003, 10:31 PM

Who likes this? I get off on having sex with total strangers. I don't need to know any names or have any relation to them at all. My ideal attitude is: If you want sex, find me a place to get down and let's fuck.

windsor4fun2 · 08-02-2003, 01:31 AM

We have found that the sex is better with people that we know. This is just our preference. Others may feel differently, but each to their own.

Jesse

Additude · 08-02-2003, 06:46 AM

Yhea,

Well your a single male also. I think all single males, well most of them anyway, are like that.

On second thought, that just might be true for most males in general

eddypasifa · 08-02-2003, 07:08 AM

Yeah, you're right. Most guys I know are like that. It's the women that need to get to know each other first

vevaycple · 08-02-2003, 08:11 AM

We like to chat and/or talk with a new couple on the phone first a few times . We then arrange a meets and greets only meeting. Although, we have been known to play on a first date if things go real well.

Elusive BiFem · 08-02-2003, 09:17 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by eddypasifa
Yeah, you're right. Most guys I know are like that. It's the women that need to get to know each other first

Well, I guess you're right. I'm a woman and I like to get to know people first.

That being said...there were a couple of experiences in my much, much, much....and even a few more "much's" ... younger years. Memories.... -EBF

EternallySingle · 08-02-2003, 01:11 PM

When I was younger anonymous sex wasn't just a thrill, it was most of the sex I had. Did I mention I used to be in not one but four different bands?

It was exciting...in my 20s. Now, since I don't have time to just cruise around looking for sex, I'd rather have sex with someone I know I enjoy talking to about anything. Besides, you never know what someone might actually like if you don't get to know them first.

schamp · 08-02-2003, 02:07 PM

When I was only responsible for myself it wasnt something I thought about, just enjoyed myself.
Now responsible for my kids I cant trust a stranger . There are diseases, stalkers, pschyos, that Im not willing to chance my family.
I can remember a few close calls in my wild days but nothing major. Of course I lived in a small town of 12,000.

JMR · 08-02-2003, 08:19 PM

we need to know people before we mess around. but hey thats just us. We do like to watch other people we dont know have sex though.

thump29 · 08-02-2003, 11:22 PM

We want to know the person before we have sex with them. I know that I wouldnt think of having sex with somebody I didnt even know, but that is me. My hubby wants to know them too before we have sex.

wrnakedru · 08-03-2003, 12:05 AM

"Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place". - Jerry Seinfeld

I'm thinking perhaps that may say it best for you, since you are single. Although there may be occasions in all of our pasts when "anonymous" fit the need of the moment.

But I think you will find most couples want to know enough about their prospective partners to feel good about who they're sharing their bodies with, and in knowing who is being "allowed into" their relationship.

PAULnCarmen · 08-04-2003, 05:44 PM

We enjoy clubs the best. We often visit a local on premise which has 5 open rooms. Most rooms fit 4-5 couples at a time. We usually go up to the room with another couple or we meet them up later. After Carmen has had her fill of dancing. Usually by the time we reach the rooms its packed and we always end up playing with everybody up there. Then we ask there names.

Handyman69 · 08-04-2003, 07:20 PM

Our first response was know the people first. That has been the rule from day one.....but then comes the on premise clubs (which we have not been too).

the judge is out on that decision....

Rhonda

**good times** · 08-04-2003, 10:21 PM

with us I just need a willing partner, my wife needs to get to know the person first. So together we have to get to know a couple before we get to the swapping part.

R

Brit_Pair · 08-05-2003, 06:45 AM

We like to know a little about the people we play with, even if it's only to form the most rudimentary of connections. That said, since the two forms of sex [known/unknown partner(s)] probably push different buttons, then there's doubtless room for both forms in a person's/couples sexlife. We can certainly envisage scenarios where the anonymity factor would up the arousal stakes considerably (e.g. a dark room at an on-premise club, or perhaps a grope box).

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View Poll Results: Do you like sex with strangers
Yes, the thought of having sex with random strangers makes me horny	183	51.69%
No, I must get to know the person first	88	24.86%
I need to know their name at least, then we can fuck.	63	17.80%
I don't know what I feel about it	20	5.65%
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08-01-2003, 10:31 PM	#1 (permalink)
eddypasifa Active Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 38 Location: San Francisco, CA Status: Single Male	Do you like sex with strangers ? Who likes this? I get off on having sex with total strangers. I don't need to know any names or have any relation to them at all. My ideal attitude is: If you want sex, find me a place to get down and let's fuck.

08-02-2003, 06:46 AM	#3 (permalink)
Additude Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 310 Location: OBX-NC	Yhea, Well your a single male also. I think all single males, well most of them anyway, are like that. On second thought, that just might be true for most males in general __________________ If you want something you have never had before, you must do something you have never done before.

08-02-2003, 08:11 AM	#5 (permalink)
vevaycple Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 18 Location: Vevay IN. Status: couple	We like to chat and/or talk with a new couple on the phone first a few times . We then arrange a meets and greets only meeting. Although, we have been known to play on a first date if things go real well. __________________ "We say grace and we say maam, if you aint into that we don't give a damn."

08-02-2003, 01:31 AM	#2 (permalink)
windsor4fun2 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 371 Location: Windsor, Ontario Status: M half of Couple	We have found that the sex is better with people that we know. This is just our preference. Others may feel differently, but each to their own. Jesse

08-02-2003, 07:08 AM	#4 (permalink)
eddypasifa Active Member Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 38 Location: San Francisco, CA Status: Single Male	Yeah, you're right. Most guys I know are like that. It's the women that need to get to know each other first

08-02-2003, 01:11 PM	#7 (permalink)
EternallySingle Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 1,035 Location: Michigan Status: Single Male SLS Name:ABSingleMan	When I was younger anonymous sex wasn't just a thrill, it was most of the sex I had. Did I mention I used to be in not one but four different bands? It was exciting...in my 20s. Now, since I don't have time to just cruise around looking for sex, I'd rather have sex with someone I know I enjoy talking to about anything. Besides, you never know what someone might actually like if you don't get to know them first. __________________ "Style is not lusting after somone because they are cool. Style is loving yourself till everyone else does too." Prince

08-02-2003, 02:07 PM	#8 (permalink)
schamp Active Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 27 Location: wi Status: couplemarried	When I was only responsible for myself it wasnt something I thought about, just enjoyed myself. Now responsible for my kids I cant trust a stranger . There are diseases, stalkers, pschyos, that Im not willing to chance my family. I can remember a few close calls in my wild days but nothing major. Of course I lived in a small town of 12,000.

08-02-2003, 08:19 PM	#9 (permalink)
JMR Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 88 Location: michigan Status: married	we need to know people before we mess around. but hey thats just us. We do like to watch other people we dont know have sex though. __________________ If your gonna Play atleast Play HARD!!!

08-02-2003, 11:22 PM	#10 (permalink)
thump29 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 333 Location: okeechobee, fl Status: couple	We want to know the person before we have sex with them. I know that I wouldnt think of having sex with somebody I didnt even know, but that is me. My hubby wants to know them too before we have sex.

08-03-2003, 12:05 AM	#11 (permalink)
wrnakedru Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2003 Posts: 1,991 Location: Bliss Status: Female	"Women need a reason to have sex, men just need a place". - Jerry Seinfeld I'm thinking perhaps that may say it best for you, since you are single. Although there may be occasions in all of our pasts when "anonymous" fit the need of the moment. But I think you will find most couples want to know enough about their prospective partners to feel good about who they're sharing their bodies with, and in knowing who is being "allowed into" their relationship.

08-04-2003, 05:44 PM	#12 (permalink)
PAULnCarmen Registered Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Glastonbury, Connecticut Status: Couple	We enjoy clubs the best. We often visit a local on premise which has 5 open rooms. Most rooms fit 4-5 couples at a time. We usually go up to the room with another couple or we meet them up later. After Carmen has had her fill of dancing. Usually by the time we reach the rooms its packed and we always end up playing with everybody up there. Then we ask there names.

08-04-2003, 07:20 PM	#13 (permalink)
Handyman69 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 553 Location: MI..God's country.so we thought. Status: Couple SLS Name:handyman69	Our first response was know the people first. That has been the rule from day one.....but then comes the on premise clubs (which we have not been too). the judge is out on that decision.... Rhonda

08-04-2003, 10:21 PM	#14 (permalink)
good times Mod Squad Member Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 6,415 Location: Reno, Nevada Status: Married to Mrs Good Times SLS Name:randp	with us I just need a willing partner, my wife needs to get to know the person first. So together we have to get to know a couple before we get to the swapping part. R

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Brit_Pair Active Member Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 3,635 Location: UK Status: Couple	We like to know a little about the people we play with, even if it's only to form the most rudimentary of connections. That said, since the two forms of sex [known/unknown partner(s)] probably push different buttons, then there's doubtless room for both forms in a person's/couples sexlife. We can certainly envisage scenarios where the anonymity factor would up the arousal stakes considerably (e.g. a dark room at an on-premise club, or perhaps a grope box).

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