Do you like sex with strangers ?

[hotcpl4fun]

We like to get to know the cpl and usually dont do anything the first time we meet them. We like to get a feel for the cpl to see if they have jealousy issues or are they psycho or something like that....but once everyone agrees and find out that we are all compatible, well then let the begin!

[DeesireCpl]

We prefer to know the couples we play with and like to be more on an exclusive level with a group of people. When we first started out it was sex with strangers and never hear from them again but at that time thats what it was all about for us. Some don't want people to invade their lives except for 1 night of bliss. We dislike bed hoppers and 1 night stands not a nice feeling ever. We find as we get more experience under our belts (garder for me) that we become more pickier then we ever were. We want to know everyone before we just give it up !!!

[txbbbiw]

We like to get to know them a little bit first, to be more certain of diseases, stalker issues, ect. But it is a fantasy of ours to just pick someome up at a club and go for it. If i ever get the nerve up to go to a swinger party, we just might get that chance.

[jcbicouple]

Originally posted by marriedwet
We frequent several clubs & do the "Theater" scene as often as we can. Aside from the clubs, I really enjoy having "mystery" sex in the theaters with guys I don't know. It's also a big turn-on for hubby. He says he loves to watch & is usually the first to CUM I pick & choose because a lot of the guys are really weird or think they are my answer to a good time. Talk about a slob is when a guy just walks up next to you while you're sitting on a sofa & sticks his dick in your face as if this will turn you on....wrong:slam" Best way for me to fuck you is just sit down & let me see what you have. My favorite now is at least 8" & the BEST sex is with the black guys...Wow Be polite guys...you'll be the ones who score in my book

Too bad you two aren't closer: Sounds like we share some similar interests! We love the theater.

[Alura]

Sex with strangers? Sounds like fun! But no, thank you.

Alura

[elelator_cpl]

...it does sound like fun

We love swing clubs for this reason, sex with someone out of the blue, and I love to watch someone else with my GF... it's super sexy.

Now if we can just find a bi swing club where the guys are bi too, that would be awesome!

al&denise

[daindenver]

Interesting - much more interesting to have this gender based because I bet more men answered that sex with a stranger turns them on. I was reading the thread on why single men are treated as they are and I think this poll has the root answer. Men want to think they can approach a woman or couple and expect them to want to have sex without getting to know each other. It is a matter of respect for the other person no matter what you feel. So even though yes I get turned on by the thought of sex with a stranger if the other person feels different it is time to back off!

Ok now that said who wants to have sex - no names please!?!?!?!

[Illicitlovers]

We like to get to know a couple first to see if there is a chemical connection and not just a physical connection........but if i met a sexy women in a bar and she wanted to have sex with me,i think i would through caution to the wind,especially after a couple of drinks lol.............and i am sure the hubby wouldn't mind

-Carole

[DBL D]

Hey everyone,

I was going to start a new thread asking about some of these very issues but have been directed to existing threads so often that I just went to search and put in "Zipless"; and this thread is what I got!.

I remember hearing about "Zipless" when I was about 13 or 14, probably E. Jong in Playboy. Don't ask me how I got the issue. Seemed like alot of fun. Super sexy to find someone who just wanted sex.

The problem comes when you decide that you'd like to do it again (with them).

We just had our 1st exp. with a couple who seemed to just want to have sex and then leave. Literally from our room, without saying goodbye to Fem D (who'd gone to the powder room for a moment. When she came out she asked "where'd they go?")

They told us that they came to that dance and if we wanted to see them again then they'd be there. No e-mail or last names. Maybe, like someone else said, we didn't even get their real first names!

Now the sex was wonderful and they seemed into it but we were left a bit cold when they left. Now I think I understand them more. It was their 1st time after all and they did do a full swap, even though the Mrs. didn't want to kiss :-(.

So we should be happy right? I mean, we want to play the field too, but at least we are willing to accept the fact that we want to know the couples a bit.

I guess it was a little confusing. Anyone else care to give their 2 cents worth about it?

Generally Fem D had thought that we would never be "friends" with any of our fuck buddies, now I think she is comfortable with at least knowing their names & where they're from.

Male D

[lauriern]

Well this is what it's all about. Everything else is yada yada. Unfortunately this is not the 60's and 70's.

[JustAskJulie]

It's really quite interesting to read the differences of opinions on this thread... just goes to show you what a wide variety of swingers there are.

For me it all depends on the person... there are people that I have jumped into bed with barely knowing their first name. Others that I've met where I definately needed to get to know them first. I'm not about just going out and finding random strangers to have sex with... but if the chemistry is there, why waste time?!

[prettylady]

I still fairly new to this (one day I will stop saying that)
but right now I like to at least meet or tea and see if there is something. Now having said that, if there is chemistry with someone I hope I will have to guts to just go with the flow of things.
I'm kind of a chicken at heart.
your friend,
Prettylady

[sweet_tna]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

It's really quite interesting to read the differences of opinions on this thread... just goes to show you what a wide variety of swingers there are.

For me it all depends on the person... there are people that I have jumped into bed with barely knowing their first name. Others that I've met where I definately needed to get to know them first. I'm not about just going out and finding random strangers to have sex with... but if the chemistry is there, why waste time?!

That's pretty much how I feel . . . If the chemitry is right, then let's go for it!

=)

[Tia Vampire]

If we are with a couple on the first date, most likely we were with that couple because they were hot looking and we were horny. Plus the sex is just so so because i'm not willing to do alot of things with a stranger and most of the time we have no interest on ever getting with that couple again. Couples that we acctually try to get to know are the ones that we may have sex with more than once. After you have built a friendship and a trust with each other, you are more willing to do more with each other.

[couple85602]

Actually, we are the opposite from most responses. I generally like to get to know someone...then have fun with a friend. The Missus, on the other hand, has really gotten-off lately thinking about pure, lustful anonymous sex. No names...not even a face.
Her preference...a friend. But stranger sex has fueled some wild love-making lately.

K and D