Do you like sex with strangers ?

[sensalicious]

........who called it the "Zipless Fuck" versus the "deep and meaningful relationship."

For us, each encounter lies somewhere on a continuum between one and the other.

and sometimes on the edge.

or perhaps a grope box

OOOoooooooohhh.......flamethrow can I try one?

Brit Pair, do I have to come to the UK?? or could you describe it?

dee ahn

[Brit_Pair]

dee ahn,

the UK is a very welcoming place (for the most part), so of course you're free to visit. But to save you unnecessary air fares, a grope box (as I understand it) is a solid construct (box) that a person enters, usually in an upright position. Positioned in various strategic points around the box are hand-sized holes, that can be used by those on the outside to reach in and touch/caress the occupant's body. Of course, the occupant has no idea who is outside, nor whose hands are touching him/her.

The boxes are a feature of some clubs here in the UK and on the continent.

[roadkingklp]

Hey - Who really cares what their name is. Most swingers do not use their real names anyway. After an introduction a little exchange of verbalization, then go find a bedroom and have at it.
My ex-G.F. Carolyn- A.K.A. "Nymph" only cared that the other person had a tongue, Cock or Pussy, and was ready to party. She was a Gang-Banging in the Ass kind of Whore. She even called her-self an "ASS-FUCKING-WHORE".
Also in reality my ex-wife Faye, needed to get to know the people before she would consent to getting it on, so it really just depends on each individual's interests and needs which need to be followed and addressed.

[eddypasifa]

Originally posted by roadkingklp

My ex-G.F. Carolyn- A.K.A. "Nymph" only cared that the other person had a tongue, Cock or Pussy, and was ready to party. She was a Gang-Banging in the Ass kind of Whore. She even called her-self an "ASS-FUCKING-WHORE".

You were one lucky guy! I am jealous! I would marry your exgf in a heartbeat!

[travelman]

This is a tough one. I'm going to play it safe and say i'm split down the middle on this...But what about this fact.

What if you meet a couple(strangers) go back to your room and engage in sexual activities.

...Then they become really really good friends?

[WildFlower]

I say if you met them and they were strangers and became really good friends that would be great. Every new person you meet is a stranger until you get to know them. I would rather be friends with the people I swing with than doing it with a stranger whom I could easily forget and then be embarrassed if we ever had a chance meeting again out in public and I had no recollection of them.

[mde 4764]

My wife and I have a limited amount of time to play due to my work. So developing a friendship first can be a problem. We are fine with meeting someone for drinks or dinner and then playing on the first meeting.

[Pat_38NV]

We have, on rare occasion, let someone pick me up while dancing or something like that, and wind up in a 3way. That and meeting someone in a swing club and being in bed with them a very short time later. While we definitely prefer married couples, the stranger thing definitely has its place.

[incommunicado]

Ironically, I actually have more need for a connection than my wife does. If we were at an on premises club filled with beautiful, naked people, I know it would just take the right person to turn her on. For me, I need looks, personality, warmth... same as if we were dating.

[Greg & Sheryl]

We certainly enjoy the process of getting to know another couple before we play. However, there have been times when we've been in a group room at a house party or swing club and we have found ourselves having sex with others prior to knowing their names! We appreciate all of the friends we have made in the lifestyle, but swinging with strangers can be a lot less complicated.

[Weezie]

We generally like to know a couple first. However, that can vary from a few hours to a few weeks to a few months. We have been known to see that we click with a couple after just having dinner and then gone for it. Sometimes it's fun to be spontanous. We have always kept in close touch with our fast accquaintances afterwards.

[customhardtail]

My husband is the one that likes to get to know someone first.
Me...I'm usually ready and willing

If it's another couple that we are looking to have a friendship with, then yes, we need to get to know them. When we go the club, I just need to know names.

[shagfourr]

Although the idea of having wild sex with a perfect stranger is a very intriguing thought, and has peaked our curiosity, we both prefer to get to know someone a bit, their names are a good start and it varies how long we need to know them, but do prefer to know them. One never knows what will happen in any given situation :P

[Lorrie]

Yes, in fantasy only!

Like someone else said: Too many diseases, psychos, stalkers, etc., out there.

I only have sex with friends--male and female.

That sounds so shallow. You should at least ask for a candy bar first.