How many ads?

***JustAskJulie*** · 07-01-2003, 02:55 PM

What's your take on posting ads? Do you stick to just one personal ads site, post your ad and hope for the best? Or do you spread yourself around and post on as many sites as possible figuring that not everyone finds the same sites and you'll have better luck the more you post?

ga_cpl_frknit · 07-01-2003, 04:46 PM

We have a couple ads out there, but we favor SLS. It seems to be the best organized site. There are a few sites that are new, but we get tired of all the pop ups (even with our pop-up killer).

~Tracy

Stacey~

BradAndJanet · 07-01-2003, 05:19 PM

I don't know how to answer

We use two, Swappernet and SLS.

-B

Flori_DAMAN · 07-01-2003, 05:39 PM

I don't advertise anymore at all. I found that most of the people that respond are either from another continent or gay guys.

John

couple5251 · 07-01-2003, 05:42 PM

We are trying just one right now and so far havent had much luck I think that it may be we are looking for soft swing and there just doesn't seem to be anybody

Flori_DAMAN · 07-01-2003, 05:56 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by couple5251
We are trying just one right now and so far havent had much luck I think that it may be we are looking for soft swing and there just doesn't seem to be anybody

Soft swinging is something that most swinging couples avoid. They are usually into it for the really intense stuff. I have found that couples that go to clubs practice it much more often than one would suspect though. ALmost all good clubs have newbies every week and lots of them would enjoy soft swing.

John

ATAK · 07-01-2003, 06:20 PM

I have ads on SLS.com and Swappernet and on Swingfriends. I've just recently joined SF.com because I had the good fortune to meet a few of the people that frequent that site. I am a paid member of that site as well as SLS. I have not checked on swappernet or playfulswingers.com in many weeks after initially putting ads on them. So I think I'll just stick with the two I like the best SLS and SF.com. If someone responds to the other ads, I'll probably never know about it. LOL.

Roxysbayou · 07-01-2003, 06:30 PM

We have a paid membership to SLS and Swappernet, but have tried most of those that are out there. These two are the only ones that had enough people in my area to entice me to pay a fee.

Dani&Drew · 07-01-2003, 07:47 PM

We only have the SLS one, and there's been some response, but I think the clubs would work better if I could lose the shyness

sexypairca · 07-01-2003, 09:24 PM

Oh my goodness, we have a few out there. I really think that I should spend sometime cancelling some of those ads that we placed a couple of years ago. They no longer get response and I would say that the info hasn't been updated very regularly

. I will most definitely keep SLS, on most other sites once your "free trial period" has expired your ad seems to disappear.

Annette

twopeople2 · 07-01-2003, 09:27 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Flori_DAMAN
Soft swinging is something that most swinging couples avoid. They are usually into it for the really intense stuff.

John

Wonder why that is? It sounds appealing to me. I'd like to keep the intense stuff is for my hubby.

We have a paid membership on sls and have had some interest. The other sites don't seem as userfriendly. Still hangin in there!

Flori_DAMAN · 07-01-2003, 11:16 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by twopeople2
Wonder why that is? It sounds appealing to me. I'd like to keep the intense stuff is for my hubby.

We have a paid membership on sls and have had some interest. The other sites don't seem as userfriendly. Still hangin in there!

I think it is due to HBO. Real sex. THe new wave. It has nothing to do with the fact that watching your spouse make out and get nekked and haver oral and or manual stimulation with another isnt exciting, cuz it sure is.

John

cathlar · 07-03-2003, 03:44 PM

Can't answer the poll question... the answer options do not fit. We have had ads on several sites. The best for us were the one on this site (a couple of iterations ago), and sexyads, though this one seemed never to be maintained and we no longer use it. The best is now SLS. We found a large variety of ages, interests, and the free membership is very flexible.

Handyman69 · 07-06-2003, 09:00 PM

We are paid members on Swappernet and non-paying on SLS. Doesn't bother us that we can't view nude pics....if we connect then they will send them anyway.

Rhonda

(Hey Julie .....back for a bit...summer is flying by)

WesternSwing · 07-29-2004, 11:53 PM

We have three. The first ad we ever placed was on AFF, which we have now let our silver membership lapse, and I don't think we'll renew it. In fact we will probably pull our profile from there alltogether.

Then we placed on on Swappernet, which has been pretty good.

Then we found SLS. Which has been the best to-date. We have met a genuine couple we have played with there, and several others that could be good possibilities in the future.

Mr. WS

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View Poll Results: How many ads sites do you post your ad on?
Just one! I have a favorite and I stick with them cuz they are the best!	85	51.20%
As many as I can find, I'm trying to increase my odds of finding good matches.	57	34.34%
None, I don't do ads - or I just reply to everyone else's	24	14.46%
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07-01-2003, 02:55 PM	#1 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 21,508 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 53	How many ads? What's your take on posting ads? Do you stick to just one personal ads site, post your ad and hope for the best? Or do you spread yourself around and post on as many sites as possible figuring that not everyone finds the same sites and you'll have better luck the more you post? __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

07-01-2003, 04:46 PM	#2 (permalink)
ga_cpl_frknit Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 192 Location: Georgia Status: Couple	We have a couple ads out there, but we favor SLS. It seems to be the best organized site. There are a few sites that are new, but we get tired of all the pop ups (even with our pop-up killer). ~Tracy Stacey~ __________________ Courage, love, friendship, compassion, and empathy lift us above the simple beasts and define humanity.

07-01-2003, 05:19 PM	#3 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	I don't know how to answer We use two, Swappernet and SLS. -B __________________ "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain All about us...

07-01-2003, 05:39 PM	#4 (permalink)
Flori_DAMAN Previously of MichiganCouple Join Date: Apr 2001 Posts: 2,100 Location: Vero Beach Florida Status: Single Male	I don't advertise anymore at all. I found that most of the people that respond are either from another continent or gay guys. John

07-01-2003, 05:42 PM	#5 (permalink)
couple5251 Active Member Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 17 Location: ala. Status: couple married	We are trying just one right now and so far havent had much luck I think that it may be we are looking for soft swing and there just doesn't seem to be anybody

07-01-2003, 06:20 PM	#7 (permalink)
ATAK Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 197 Location: Laurinburg, NC Status: Single Male SLS Name:ATAK	Abstaining from the vote. I have ads on SLS.com and Swappernet and on Swingfriends. I've just recently joined SF.com because I had the good fortune to meet a few of the people that frequent that site. I am a paid member of that site as well as SLS. I have not checked on swappernet or playfulswingers.com in many weeks after initially putting ads on them. So I think I'll just stick with the two I like the best SLS and SF.com. If someone responds to the other ads, I'll probably never know about it. LOL. __________________ If you love her, set her free...if she doesn't come back, she's probably with me.

07-01-2003, 06:30 PM	#8 (permalink)
Roxysbayou Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female SLS Name:likethat	We have a paid membership to SLS and Swappernet, but have tried most of those that are out there. These two are the only ones that had enough people in my area to entice me to pay a fee. __________________ I put the "grrrr" in swinger baby, yeah! --Austin Powers

07-01-2003, 07:47 PM	#9 (permalink)
Dani&Drew Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 105 Location: Lansing, MI	We only have the SLS one, and there's been some response, but I think the clubs would work better if I could lose the shyness

07-01-2003, 09:24 PM	#10 (permalink)
sexypairca Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 670 Location: Windsor, Ontario Status: married couple SLS Name:sexypairca	Oh my goodness, we have a few out there. I really think that I should spend sometime cancelling some of those ads that we placed a couple of years ago. They no longer get response and I would say that the info hasn't been updated very regularly . I will most definitely keep SLS, on most other sites once your "free trial period" has expired your ad seems to disappear. Annette __________________ I'm not cheap, but I am on special this week.

07-03-2003, 03:44 PM	#13 (permalink)
cathlar Registered Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 9 Location: Houston Status: Couple	Can't answer the poll question... the answer options do not fit. We have had ads on several sites. The best for us were the one on this site (a couple of iterations ago), and sexyads, though this one seemed never to be maintained and we no longer use it. The best is now SLS. We found a large variety of ages, interests, and the free membership is very flexible.

07-06-2003, 09:00 PM	#14 (permalink)
Handyman69 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 553 Location: MI..God's country.so we thought. Status: Couple SLS Name:handyman69	We are paid members on Swappernet and non-paying on SLS. Doesn't bother us that we can't view nude pics....if we connect then they will send them anyway. Rhonda (Hey Julie .....back for a bit...summer is flying by)

07-29-2004, 11:53 PM	#15 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,783 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: How many ads? We have three. The first ad we ever placed was on AFF, which we have now let our silver membership lapse, and I don't think we'll renew it. In fact we will probably pull our profile from there alltogether. Then we placed on on Swappernet, which has been pretty good. Then we found SLS. Which has been the best to-date. We have met a genuine couple we have played with there, and several others that could be good possibilities in the future. Mr. WS __________________ “God created sex. Priests created marriage.” ~ Voltaire Our blog: http://biggerlove.wordpress.com/

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