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  1. 1. What makes a proper blow job?

    • lick it
      397
    • deep throat it
      515
    • suck it
      434
    • gobble it
      186
    • sloober it (lots of spit)
      276
    • suck and go up and down
      659
    • just knobble it
      104
    • suck the tip only
      171
    • kiss shaft with lips
      267
    • use the tounge while sucking.
      719


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So you like to give head, you like to get head. What is it that does it for you? Sure some people suck like they are trying to suck your blood out and some lick. Some suck and lick. Some just knobble at it. (Knobble: to just put in your mouth and go up and down usually a novice will do this).

 

I want to know how your blowjob is done? Are you a gobbler, slobberer, licker, or sucker? Do you only focus on the tip (that’s a no in my book) or do you suck the shaft with your lips and tongue.

 

Let’s find out and vote on the poll.

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All of the above. Really, I think I suck and bob and lick at the same time. LOL. I definitely use my tongue quite a bit. I used to think that I had mastered the art until reading some of the stuff on this board. I like to get the balls in on the action too.

 

Roxy- (who must be in rare form today)

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I do a combination of what's listed, but what I mainly do is lick and use my tongue while sucking gently. I do pay special attention to his balls as well. When it's said and done, I swallow. facelick ;)

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Okay, let me just say I have NEVER had a complaint about my blowjob giving qualities. :D The only thing I don't/can't do (YET!) is deepthroating, and I work on that every day. ;)

 

Also, can't leave out the balls. I usually massage them while giving a blow job, and sometimes I'll suck them.

 

I've been known to wake up before the alarm clock and give Stacey that "special wake up call". :bj:;)

 

~Tracy~

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lately I (D) have been fasinated by ladies who deep throat. J has a friend (I'm still trying to talk her into it) that J tells me is the queen of BJ's and Deep Throating...

 

Let me just say I'm obsessed with this girl. J gives a great blow job...she just isn't a deep throat girl...I don't know why I've lately been so into it...:rolleyes: well yea I do;) the same reason I'm into alot of things...Cause I like it!

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Don't I have a say in all this?

 

Just a piece of meat. That's all I am.

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I start off licking and kissing the tip. Then I suck it down. I suck while using my tongue, swirling it around the shaft. Occasionally I will come back up and suck only on the head and dip my tongue into the hole, before returning back to the shaft for more sucky /licky.

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Originally posted by Roxysbayou

All of the above. Really, I think I suck and bob and lick at the same time. LOL. I definitely use my tongue quite a bit. I used to think that I had mastered the art until reading some of the stuff on this board. I like to get the balls in on the action too.

 

Roxy- (who must be in rare form today)

 

:kissface:

 

I'm with Roxy.

 

:kissface:

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Really, I think I suck and bob and lick at the same time. LOL. I definitely use my tongue quite a bit. I used to think that I had mastered the art until reading some of the stuff on this board. I like to get the balls in on the action too

I gotta say Roxie, that sounds like you've hit about all the points on the checklist, of course I don't believe I could give a masters degree with just a correspondence course, you'd have to actually attend a class or two for a true judgment on technique. ;)

 

 

I start off licking and kissing the tip. Then I suck it down. I suck while using my tongue, swirling it around the shaft. Occasionally I will come back up and suck only on the head and dip my tongue into the hole, before returning back to the shaft for more sucky /licky

Lots of style points Julie, for throwing in a twist (swirling tongue), high degree of difficulty.

 

 

I've been known to wake up before the alarm clock and give Stacey that "special wake up call".

Tracey, I love the early morning wake-up, nothing better than a great little "morning woodpecker" tapping out a tune as your eyes start to open. And, you hone your skills daily! That Stacey is one lucky guy.

 

 

I do a combination of what's listed, but what I mainly do is lick and use my tongue while sucking gently. I do pay special attention to his balls as well. When it's said and done, I swallow.

Finishes with a flourish and she sticks the dismount! A perfect 10 for Mrs. CornwallSwing from the California judge!

 

 

All winners in this group of ladies. Any man privileged enough to cum across their path is lucky indeed. An A+ for all of you! Now, get on out of here and make some guy happy.:cool:

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Sweet Jen,

You know that goes without saying!

 

M&B, you're supposed to wait till they take the bet before you let me win, sheesh.

 

Ok, now about the question at hand or at mouth or ok,

 

I like to start with his non erect (ya know) having him grow in my mouth feels so sexy.

 

If I can wake up in the morning before him and have him wake up finding I've wrapped my lips around his cock, then some small kisses and maybe some nibbles, with lots of hand caresses for his balls, and of course using my tongue to scoop out the extra yummy beginner sauces to coat my lips with.

 

Then after teases like those, I like to slowly roll my mouth downward so that I know what I've got, then let my tongue swirl all around him.

 

Then on the way back up its nice to squeeze his balls just a little and look up into his eyes so that when I get back to the top and sweetly ask him "did I wake you, do you want me to stop?" I'm sure he'll say "please don't.

 

Repeat and repeat -- adding in some extra suction now and then for fun and also remembering to include a few trips from his cock to his balls so that I can lick them clean of any excess moisture that might have rolled their way, plus I love the feeling of his cock resting against my cheek as I'm suckling and kissing his balls. This is also a good time for eye contact.

 

Of course, it is nice to massage his feet while you are licking his balls if you are in a position to do so.

 

I could use some practice and improvement, but I guess I'm a sucker, licker, and kisser type of girl.

 

Mostly though -- I'm an enjoyer.

 

Disclaimer: The guy in this scenario is hypothetical

 

P.S. I love when they say "sweet jen"

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I like to start with his non erect (ya know) having him grow in my mouth feels so sexy

 

I've done this for Stacey also. Actually, I guess I am the only one that's ever done it for him. I do so love the feeling of him growing in my mouth.

 

~Tracy~

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Originally posted by JustAskJulie

I start off licking and kissing the tip. Then I suck it down. I suck while using my tongue, swirling it around the shaft. Occasionally I will come back up and suck only on the head and dip my tongue into the hole, before returning back to the shaft for more sucky /licky.

 

I read this...and a tiny bead of sweat rolled down my forehead...Very well put indeed! :cool:

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I like it when the wife sucks me to an erection. Then some "knobble" and stroking thrown in.

 

I love being blown like a porn star!

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Great reply, I like being sucked like porn star..bravo bravo...I like the old trick of getting me to almost cum then holding back...oh is she always in for a surprise.

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Going to the brink and back a few times will make for a huge messy explosion.

 

As for the deep throat portion, I can't handle it. In other words, my dick gets to hard and cant go down the hatch...:eek: Yowsers!

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RE: The Poll? Definition of blowjob can be streamlined to one word.

 

SWALLOW!! Because anything else is just "head".

 

The poll choices are technical application details only.

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I like to do the whole thing from simply licking it like a tasty ice cream cone, to sucking it nice and deep. I find that I really like to gobble it and make sure that I give their balls a good lick and suck while I'm at it. I love pleaseing my men by giving them the best BJ that I can and I'm always willing to learn more of what it takes to please them, and when they cum I do swollow and then lick them clean.

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I'm definitely a deep-throat girl... I do all the other stuff, especially sucking the balls, but there is nothing quite like having a dick deep in your throat, and listening to the deep guttural moans from the man above you.... Uh huh...

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Oh and I just had my tongue pierced yesterday so I am hoping to add that to my bag of tricks soon!

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Originally posted by JustAskJulie

I start off licking and kissing the tip. Then I suck it down. I suck while using my tongue, swirling it around the shaft. Occasionally I will come back up and suck only on the head and dip my tongue into the hole, before returning back to the shaft for more sucky /licky.

Seems like Mrs B and Julie attended the same School of Cock-Sucking.

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I used to lick, suck, and knobble all at once. But that was before one of my gf's taught me to deep throat. She's an expert. She helped me get over my gag reflex with logic, anatomy, and lots and lots of practice on a flexible dildo harnessed so the base rested on her clit. :D It was great fun to learn for both of us and, while I'm not as good as her, I can take most men in my mouth from the tip down to the balls and back.

 

And for the record, motherone has it right, there are few things that make me more wet than hearing a guy (or girl wearing a strap on) moan... having them grab fistfuls of my hair... having them pump their whole shaft in and out of my mouth...

 

*purr*

 

Alternately, if you'd seriously like to learn how to deep throat, I suggest getting a nice flexible dildo and a bottle of astroglide. Like the page says, lube is VERY important, especially in the beginning. Practice, practice, practice for at least fifteen minutes a day on the dildo until you're ready for the real thing (It took me about a week before I could make my girlfriend come from the pressure of the dildo on her clit). Then, chances are you won't have to practice for much longer. Men will be lining up at your door to volunteer!

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"all of the above" was left off as an option. I vote for it.

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Okay, let me just say I have NEVER had a complaint about my blowjob giving qualities. :D The only thing I don't/can't do (YET!) is deepthroating, and I work on that every day. ;)

 

I read a story, actually more of a how to, about six months ago. It was about deep throating and how to do it. Seemed plausible and really got my interest. The lady talked about the natural 'gag' reflex and how to overcome it. Since then I just thought I'd see if it worked, and it did.

 

When I bush my teeth I always use my electric toothbrush to also brush my tongue. So, from her advice, I go way back with it until I feel I'm going to gag. Over and over and it finally does subside a little.

 

I've also started eating a banana for breakfast. She suggested a banana. Push it as far back as you can and try to pass that 'gag' point. Then make a swallowing movement with your throat. It really works and I've found that it even feels good to me. My wife hasn't gotten suspicious about me picking just the right bananas lately! LOL! I like them to be just a tad green (firmer) and long and slender.

 

OK ladies, I'm a guy and if I'm willing to try it you can too! And, it just might feel good to you too! I know it will to your men!!!! :)

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I use a combination of all the above. I start off sucking up and down, using my tongue to massage the shaft. I gently caress his balls, I come back to the tip and flick the end of my tongue quickly over the hole, then I glide my lips down over the shaft and take as much as possible. I suck up and down using my tongue again, then very gently pull my teeth across the length of the shaft to the tip. Then begin flicking the end again.I usually end by taking his balls in my mouth and then doing it all over, and over, and.... :facelick:

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I do all. I like, gobble, go up and down. All the way through the throat. Suck it. I have gotten a lot of compliments. Giving head is what I like the most and kissing. I like to play with the dick and have fun.

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During my swinging days almost 30 years ago I remember a lady, part of a couple, who just loved giving blowjobs and swallowing. She was truly an expert and on nights where there was an orgy and sleepover she started the next morning by draining all the men and licking her lips. Said it was good for her complexion and better than OJ to start the day right.

 

Some years later after they moved she was passing through my town and spent the night with me. Within 30 minutes of arriving she was on her knees in the shower giving me a wonderful blow, the water cascading over her as I watched and finally exploded in her mouth. Before she left next morning she made sure I was drained again, and we played a lot during the night.

 

Happy memories.

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OH MY!! This is the greatest post! I'm obsessed with BJs!!!

 

As I said in my introduction I'd find it hard for anyone to be better than the Mrs. in this dept. But I am willing to test everybody! LOL

 

She likes to start before it is erect also, now that is a trick if I know what she is up to. She works it from all the above angles. I like her to keep it in her mouth and use the tongue a lot. I'm not crazy about the just bobbing thing. She also likes to use both hands while working but have to call them off sometimes, to much! She deepthroats and swallows on occasion. I personally like to end it in her not her mouth.

 

I guess I've bragged about her a little to much. A friend of hers was getting married and called and asked her how to give a BJ. Needless to say I was sweating by the time she got off the phone!!!!!!!

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Men I've sucked tell they like all that on the list. Some like a light teasing with teeth. Many want your hand on their dick as an extension of the delights of the mouth.

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I love to be deep throated. There's nothing like it! :) But you have to have that right stroking motion with the fingers circling the shaft in front of the lips.

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OK ladies, I'm a guy and if I'm willing to try it you can too! And, it just might feel good to you too! I know it will to your men!!!! :)

Rich

 

Oddly enough, I have never gagged while deepthroating (I mean deep too! :) ), even though I can barely brush my tongue without gagging.

 

The best blow job I have ever had was from a man... actually he is the only one who has ever deep-throated me, took me balls and all. I thought I was going to turn inside out when I came!

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Giving and getting deep-throated is the ultimate. I'm kinda like stupidnewbie: I can barely brush my teeth without gagging but never had a problem deep throating.

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I like it when they just use their mouth and tongue and when you can feel their hair rubbing softly on my naked body.

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Well, haven't had the opportunity, yet, to try deep thoating a real cock..., but I'm getting pretty good with my daily banana! :) I just can't help but wonder what it'd be like to have a cock explode down my throat. :) It's nice to see more guys on this pole!

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Perfect Blowjob = Catherine. Period.

 

(Which should not be misconstrued as suggesting there are no other perfect blowjobs out there)

 

She takes the head into her mouth, her lips sliding over it, keeping in contact with the corona, her fingers curl around the shaft, holding it moderately firmly. Her hand then slides up and down the shaft in time with her lips sliding up and down over the head. Her tongue is always in contact with the underside, sometimes sliding around the head but mostly just sliding underneath over the sensitive part of the glans. Her other hand caresses your balls and teases your anus. She removes her hand from the shaft and takes you deeper into her mouth, the head sliding along the roof of her mouth into her throat so that the sensitive parts of the corona are always in contact with something warm and wet. She continues to suck all the time as she pulls your cock back out of her mouth to the tip and starts all over again. When you start to cum, she holds you in her mouth and continues to suck until you stop throbbing... then she slowly lets you slip out of her mouth.... and swallows...

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I like all of the above. My favorite is going up and down with the mouth and with a hand going up and down on the shaft at the same time. That feels best to me.

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Being one that loves a man in my mouth, I like to do anything and everything I can think of to make it good for him and to prolong the pleasure. The more I give him the better I feel, but when the time is right, I like to hold him in my hands and let the flat of my tongue swirl around on the underside of the head of his cock as my lips just hold him. It really makes him twitch and throb. I hold him tighter if he tries to move, to thrust. I love to have him just feel my tongue...it usually drives him crazy, and really burst.

 

Then as he comes I like to just hold him and let him flow.

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I like to titillate ... that is that I don't focus ALL my concentration on the penis and testicles. I like to tease by pulling off and moving to lick the crease between the thighs and pubic area, gently nibbling down the insides of the thighs, going back to the penis, swirling my tongue around the head, followed by several "shaft swallows", going back to the head, sucking gently at first, then more intensely for a few seconds, moving to the testicles, taking one then the other in my mouth very gently, and repeating the entire process over and over. All the while, if the man likes it, gently tweaking his nipples.

 

It seems to work for me. :D

 

I know that I enjoy the titillation and teasing, and don't want all the focus on my genitalia and/or breasts. I like to have my entire body caressed and fondled and kissed and licked. So, I tend to do what I like myself.

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hmmmm....love all the techniques. But love to suck and lick while playing with his balls.

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Suck and lick, also don't forget the balls. Any touching, licking, or just teasing the anal and sack area lightly with your fingers makes my man blow his stack.

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after years of training, watching porns for better techniques, and then hours and hours of practice, our opinion is that you can always learn new tricks and we never seem to get tired of trying

I'm really glad to see this being discussed. I was recently lamenting that it seems that porn BJs have all degraded into piston-fisted, throat-stabbing, gag-fests. No one really digs that, do they? Ladies, please don't ever consider this dreck as educational material. He'll tell you what he likes, just ask. Practice, practice, practice... Rugburn likee.

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