What intimate acts do you reserve just for you and your partner?

[brightcrue]

I am the same way he can do just about anything as long as a condom is on, but kissing another women is out of the question, that is a romantic love act.
I would never kiss another man nor could another do anal that is only my hubbys but!!!!

[good times]

Originally Posted by 2jersey

We read a profile today where the man said he liked to give oral to women but he did not like to receive oral. That was extremely unusual.

I just recently met a woman at a club that said she just didn't like recieving oral and that I can understand, different strokes, and all that. The part I was curious about though from this post is why one would have a rule of refusing to give oral. No big deal, just curious what the reasoning behind that rule is.

[DBL D]

Good Times?

It must have something to do with intimacy. You wear a condom because you don't trust your partners...so why in the world do oral. It must seem like a direct connection to them, which of course it is. Why use a condom if you are going to do oral?

Another may be that it has to do with being something special between the couple.

Other than really not liking it (probably because no one ever did it right to her/him) they just forgo the pleasure. Problems' solution...we just won't go there.

Male D

[prettylady]

Dog and I are setting our bounderies. I said that there is really no problem with anything YET. I need to be in the situation and see how I react. BUT and this is a big BUT, Dog touches me in a way that I really don't think I could watch him do to another woman. I know, how do you have sex with out touching. It's not that it is....well that certain touch, were he gets lost in just looking and touching. So I guess he can't touch or LOOk at another woman. Just kidding :rollseyes
Your friend,
Prettylady

[twoforone100]

Condoms are a must and Pattie does not do anal. She would let me if the girl is willing. Other than that we are open. Patrick Pattie

[2GirlsGoodBenBa]

Kissing is reserved for the both of us to share with one another including sex without protection if there is such a thing between two women :?

[jama42guns]

For us (we only want a male partner to join) it varies. I have no problem with any contact between my wife and a man she is comfortable with. Actually the more intimate the contact, the more of a turn on it is for me. For her she feels that the barriers come down as she becomes more comfortable. Much like dating.

[kenora_guy]

For me, I put down other. Being a single male on the circuit and what I have now classified myself as bi-adventurous (some may say I'm tri-sexual) I have to say that I am open to almost anything.

Depending on the couple and how well we know each other I may say that rimming her is out, at least at first, although I'd be ok with either both performing it on me (I know it sounds a little strange as I key this but that is my feeling at this point)... And I say that even though I thoroughly enjoy rimming the right woman.

As far as any tong to butt on the other guy, that would be out as I am a Top and have no desire to stimulate his back end.

[kenora_guy]

Correction:

"As far as any tong to butt on the other guy, that would be out as I am a Top and have no desire to stimulate his back end."

Should have read, ...I am NOT a top and have no desire to stimulate his back end.

Sorry for any confusion

[lost_j1]

To me sometimes a long slow deep french kiss can be more intimate then intercourse. Sex is not sex without some kissing and I understand that, but long deep kisses before and after to me is very intimate and would prefer that to be shared between wife and me. No glove no love and I will stand fast for that, too many creepy crawlies out there. Anal is something I find intimate between people, but Iam open to an extent on this one. I also feel that oral is okay, but no cumming in the mouth. That is something I also feel should be shared between a couple as a Intimate thing. I would prefer a guys uses a condom with oral. No condoms is like playing with a loaded gun. How would you feel if your other half came down with some creepy crawly because of unprotected sex? I seen out here about he or she is fixed, but that still does nothing for STD's. I would like to enjoy sex with others and still live see my kids gow old. Like the sex classes gowing up, you are sleeping with everyone else you partners has. STD's might not show up right away and some person or couple could have been with a few couples that month before doing you.

[DBL D]

Personally, I really don't like to kiss unless it is a deep one. The tongue-touching in mid air isn't all that exciting for me. I want to get turned on, and the best way to do that is to do things the way you like to do them with your SO.

Totally understand your concerns about the condom issue. You'll have to come to grips with it sooner or later. I still espouse that swingers are "cleaner than the clergy", so we don't worry about "accidents" much, not like in the beginning of our journey.

Male D

[Rvrtas]

For us? Condoms and no anal for all but each other. Otherwise, we have none of the limits in the poll.

[LFM2]

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey

I also voted "other" because sleeping together (seperate rooms and spending the night with your partner) would be a little uncomfortable for us.

Spoomonkey

Can I have do-overs? I shoulda picked the other for just this reason.

Other than that, I picked two others. No condomless sex. None. That is mostly for the health reasons.

The other I picked is no anal sex. This only applies to half of us though. Even though I LOVE anal sex and Mr. LFM has a cock that was just built for anal sex, I don't want an over-eager partner trying to rip me if half. With that said, I wouldn't mind if his partner wanted him to have anal with her. She'd be in for a treat!

[hiswhooore]

No anal (unless its my BF), its hard for me to wanna put another dudes dick in my mouth, oh and no unprotected sex (unless its with my BF)!

[SuAndBud]

Su only allows Bud to cum in/on her mouth/face. She says it's because in most (not all, but most) porn movies it appears to be used as some sort of final humiliation towards the girl/s. Bud agrees that up until the "money shot", the girls either enjoy or act like they enjoy the sex, but way too often, they have to appear submissive as a guy or guys empty their loads onto their open mouthed upturned faces.

Su likes Bud's cum and enjoys being as slutty as hell with the other partner/s but says it's purely a respect thing.