What intimate acts do you reserve just for you and your partner?

[cupl4fun]

"We don't do anal with anyone but each other, nor do we play without condoms."

Ditto for us. Not because the acts are just for us though, but for fear of disease. As long as our hearts are each others our bodies are open for business.

[cupl4fun]

We also have to be in the same room. Not an intimacy thing though just a need to protect the wife.

[herpob]

Originally Posted by herpob

Oral / Anal has been our special act and anal play on him. We sort of go with the mood of how hot we are as to what we give into unless it was preplanned. Anal excites both of us and we are not opposed to it with people we trust sooooo......

We definitely reserve the L word for each other, no doubt about that one, we care for others but do not love them in a marriage sense.

We also only massage one another. Sex is one thing but intimacy outside of sex is a no no for us.

I know I mentioned some sexual acts being more intimate than others in another of my posts.

Don't think me two-faced.

There are always more personal moments than others what I am talking about is the emotional acts that get included.

Massage for example is extremely intimate and "special for us" when we talk or relax under our mate's hands. And then there is the sexual massaging of someone else's scrotum while sucking them off or massaging them anally, intimate in a "you better know them and trust them" way but not tenderly like my husband.

With other people it is mostly always physical pleasure, the emotional pleasure usually comes from watching one another being pleased, the emotions are always sexual.

As far as sex in among our couples we do a lot of condom free sex. So far everyone has stayed true and honest (as best we know) and clean. I hope we always all respect the cleanliness for the other's benefits. Condom free among people you trust allows for a bit more flavored "kink" is you ask me.

[3sumff]

Excuse me everyone for being a little blunt. Her swallowing my cum and our love for each other...duh! Everything else is just sex!

[jnjswingcpl]

Wow, great thread...

For us, at least me (him) I would have to say getting off inside the woman. Getting off inside vaginally is something that my wife and I have discussed, and I'm just not okay with. For some reason, that part actually makes me feel sick to my stomach. Sex without condoms is okay with a couple we know to be disease free, but if he's going to get off, he has to pull out. And, because I do not agree with one-sided rules and coupled with the fear of the other female getting pregnant, I would not consider getting off inside anyone but my wife.

The saying of "I love you" by anyone to someone they are not married to in a swinger setting is another thing that we don't feel entirely comfortable with.

[steve as is]

Originally Posted by Chris&Amelia

I don't. For some, kissing is considered a very romantic and intimate act. Amelia has no problems if I have sex with a another woman, or even go down on her, but I better not kiss her while I'm doing it!

we are the same the wife can have sex with mfm but the kissing part is restricted a bit

[newbieswinger]

i hadn't thought about having anything prohibited. i love to kiss so i don't want that off bounds. i think sex w/out condom will be off limites. i'll bring this up to B later