Age Differences within Couples

havefuninsun · 12-13-2006, 01:06 PM

Mr. Fun is 6 years older than me ... the man I was with before Mr. Fun is 9 years older; my ex husband and I were within months of each other. Overall, I have always been more attracted to older-than-me men -- I'm sure Freud would have a field day with that one. However, a play partner of mine is 10 years my junior, so I like my youngin's too ...

I'm with Tybee -- "age" isn't a number as much as an attitude, a look -- but I think folks close to my 'rents age would have to be off limits (and I may think that too once my son is of legal age ... bleah ....)

daisy girl · 12-13-2006, 11:05 PM

For swing partners, I prefer older men.

This is very interesting considering I look younger than my age (34). LOL

sexcupid · 12-13-2006, 11:05 PM

Jeff is 14 years older than I am. I'm 28, he's 42.

My ex-husband was 8 years older than me (we got married when I was 20).

Personally I've always had older boyfriends, the first serious one was 5 years older than me. Even now that I'm a little bit older, I still usually have been with men older than me (ranging from 5-17 years older). Not that I actually ask for ID or anything...."Sorry, you must be at least 5 years older than me or more to ride...next!"

Only have had a few my age or within a couple of years. Just has never been my thing. Not that I would throw away a good thing with someone closer to my age, but I have found someone that makes me happy and that's all I'm looking for.

BorisNatasha · 12-13-2006, 11:39 PM

Natasha is 5 years older than me. At 31, I am always the baby in the group when we play with another couple.

I am also the first man that N ever considered dating that was younger than her. It is customary in her home country for the man to be at least 5 years older. She finally broke that rule and found the love of her life.

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NCcuriouscpl · 12-14-2006, 06:47 AM

To us, age is a frame of mind. It is WHAT the couple FEELS about themselves! We are both the same age.....lol, I'm 3 months older than MrNCCurious and of course he jokingly calls me the 'older woman'! We have played with couples much younger than us, much older and also in the same age group.

Everyone is different, and all were unique experiences. For some reason....we don't see age in people, just people!

MsNCCurious........

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View Poll Results: How much of an age gap?
We are the same age.	34	11.11%
1-2 Years	80	26.14%
2-3 Years	43	14.05%
4-5 Years	41	13.40%
6-7 Years	29	9.48%
8-9 Years	26	8.50%
10-11 Years	17	5.56%
12-13 Years	8	2.61%
14-15 Years	11	3.59%
More than 15 Years	17	5.56%
Voters: 306. You may not vote on this poll

12-13-2006, 01:06 PM	#46 (permalink)
havefuninsun insert witty banter here Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1,190 Location: Virginia Status: Couple SLS Name:havefuninsun	Re: Is it just me? Mr. Fun is 6 years older than me ... the man I was with before Mr. Fun is 9 years older; my ex husband and I were within months of each other. Overall, I have always been more attracted to older-than-me men -- I'm sure Freud would have a field day with that one. However, a play partner of mine is 10 years my junior, so I like my youngin's too ... I'm with Tybee -- "age" isn't a number as much as an attitude, a look -- but I think folks close to my 'rents age would have to be off limits (and I may think that too once my son is of legal age ... bleah ....)

12-13-2006, 11:05 PM	#47 (permalink)
daisy girl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 264 Location: Virginia Status: married female SLS Name:porttasters	Re: Is it just me? For swing partners, I prefer older men. This is very interesting considering I look younger than my age (34). LOL

12-13-2006, 11:05 PM	#48 (permalink)
sexcupid Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 875 Location: San Antonio Status: couple/f SLS Name:sexcupid Blog Entries: 3	Re: Is it just me? Jeff is 14 years older than I am. I'm 28, he's 42. My ex-husband was 8 years older than me (we got married when I was 20). Personally I've always had older boyfriends, the first serious one was 5 years older than me. Even now that I'm a little bit older, I still usually have been with men older than me (ranging from 5-17 years older). Not that I actually ask for ID or anything...."Sorry, you must be at least 5 years older than me or more to ride...next!" Only have had a few my age or within a couple of years. Just has never been my thing. Not that I would throw away a good thing with someone closer to my age, but I have found someone that makes me happy and that's all I'm looking for.

12-13-2006, 11:39 PM	#49 (permalink)
BorisNatasha Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 185 Location: Denver, CO Status: Couple	Re: Is it just me? Natasha is 5 years older than me. At 31, I am always the baby in the group when we play with another couple. I am also the first man that N ever considered dating that was younger than her. It is customary in her home country for the man to be at least 5 years older. She finally broke that rule and found the love of her life. B __________________ Sex is like air. It's really not that important unless you aren't getting any.

12-14-2006, 06:47 AM	#50 (permalink)
NCcuriouscpl Active Member Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 36 Location: Concord, NC Status: Couple SLS Name:FantaseaCpl	Re: Is it just me? To us, age is a frame of mind. It is WHAT the couple FEELS about themselves! We are both the same age.....lol, I'm 3 months older than MrNCCurious and of course he jokingly calls me the 'older woman'! We have played with couples much younger than us, much older and also in the same age group. Everyone is different, and all were unique experiences. For some reason....we don't see age in people, just people! MsNCCurious........

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