Where was the first time?

gsmusic · 08-10-2004, 04:43 PM

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Originally Posted by Roxysbayou

That sounds awesome! One of my biggest fantasies is about one of my husbands good friends..he he. Sometimes I just want to grab him and rock the boat a little...lol. Hubby is definitely up for it, but I don't know how the friend would react. It might be a little weird for him. But then again....

That is a big fantasy of ours. I would love to see her just take charge of the situation. As far as it being a friend or not, for some reason a friend just seems more comfortable.

I would love to go make some drinks, or go to the restroom, and come back to see her giving the guy a handjob or head.

The element of surprise is a big turn on as well, but I think that in reality it would probably be a mistake to try anything without talking about it with the other person(s) first.

innerspace · 08-10-2004, 04:51 PM

The first time for myself and my then girlfriend was at a club in midtown Manhattan. The club was located only a few blocks from our apartment. It made for a very short commute home!

gsmusic · 08-10-2004, 04:56 PM

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Originally Posted by marriedwet

Our first time was in the theater. One couple near us was horny too, so us guys started to undress the girls a bit. Anyway, one thing led to another. We all got naked while the crowd watched as we swapped. Afterwards the girls did a few of the guys while we watched them. HOT!!!! facelick

Please excuse me if I am being rude by asking details. Feel absolutely free not to answer!

Was this an adult movie theater in the central fl/tampa bay area? I have heard that some of these places are open to this, and for some reason it seems like it might be more fun for us to check one out and observe before we go to a "swing-club".

At this place, is it actually ok with management for you to "go at it" or do they just kind of "look the other way?"

Just curious!

Pepper & Drew · 08-10-2004, 08:02 PM

We were one of the ones who answered "other". Our first experience was at a resort while we were on vacation. It was great because instead of deciding whether or not to invite people back to your house, we were in rooms at the resort. This couple was experienced, and invited us back to their room. It was a nice way to get eased into the lifestyle.

HDrider · 10-01-2004, 12:17 PM

I answered hotel.

It was our 1st swinging experience. We had discussed, re-discussed and discussed this more and finally agreed we were up for some fun. We were on vacation in Daytona Beach. She began talking to a complete stranger at a bar. He was a young Afro-American and had a very funny sense of humor. She leaned over asked me, "how about him?" We each smiled, I was asked to pose the question to this guy. I asked him, he laughed. He thought I was joking with him. We finally ended up back at our hotel, room 934, and fucked for at least 3 hours. We were all new so all didn't go well. He balked (went completely limp) when we told him she wanted and was ready for her 1st DP, it was funny actually. He got dressed and left shortly thereafter.

We had a great time and did learn from the experience.

akamgaxoxo · 10-01-2004, 04:04 PM

Our first time...hehe....we met this gentleman on line, chatted for a couple weeks to feel out how we liked him...I spoke with him on the phone a few times..and everytime I melted! LOL...we met him in a "vanilla bar" for drinks and dancing and a little flirty fun..but before you know it we were all asking about going to a hotel room nearby and well the rest is history!

da2ofusgb · 10-02-2004, 10:39 AM

We did it at our place, we had no intention of swinging or swapping that night. As a matter of fact it did not even enter our minds at the time because neither one of us couples were actually swingers.......lol, in the sense of what we do now.

What actually happened is, we all went to an x-rated drive in when they still had them in the area of where we use to live in da great Upper Peninsula of Mi. Well it started to rain so hard that the drive in was shut down that evening so we just went back to our place to do a little partying, the next thing ya know we are all in bed and having a great ole time....lol..........

Peace...
Ed

WesternSwing · 10-02-2004, 02:17 PM

We met a couple at a party we were intersted in. A few weeks later we all met at a casino/hotel. Rented a suite with a 4-person jacuzzi. Had dinner. Gambled and drank. Went back to room. Played strip poker and drank some more. Hot-tubbed for awhile. Then "Lights, camera, action!"

Mr. WS

mwsw4ever · 10-03-2004, 10:40 PM

Our first time was at their house on their footon.I hope i spelled that right.I never knew what a footon was till that night.It was like instant play bed,Whoppee.We are looking for our own now.

ALilOEverything · 10-04-2004, 09:51 AM

Our first time was in our house in the room where we can hang our swing. Ahhhhhhhh, the memories

MV325 · 11-21-2004, 11:21 AM

Our first time was at their house. A warm evening at the pool which turned into a hot night. First time for both couples.

DBStPete · 11-21-2004, 01:13 PM

I answered "other", because our first MFM was in my bedroom at my parent's house, before we were married. Ok, so we were precocious.

nhcpl1968 · 03-20-2005, 08:14 PM

Our house wifes long time friend spend the night all started with wife and her friend with some bi fun then joined me in bed for a great 3some

Illicitlovers · 03-21-2005, 12:41 PM

our first full swap was in a hotel that we rented....we have been talking to a couple for over a month and finally met.......we only rented the motel for ourselves because we didn't want to drive home but we really hit ti off and one thing led to another and we all landed back at our hotel room for a late night snack

autumn528 · 03-21-2005, 01:53 PM

Well....Actually, it was with my wife and her girlfriend, but now that wife is the ex-wife and the girlfriend is my wife. Loooonnnggg story.

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View Poll Results: Where was the first time you swapped?
At their house.	241	28.83%
At our house.	203	24.28%
At a hotel/motel.	190	22.73%
At a club.	115	13.76%
Somewhere else / other.	87	10.41%
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08-10-2004, 04:51 PM	#32 (permalink)
innerspace Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 98 Location: New York, New York Status: single male	Re: Where was the first time? The first time for myself and my then girlfriend was at a club in midtown Manhattan. The club was located only a few blocks from our apartment. It made for a very short commute home!

08-10-2004, 08:02 PM	#34 (permalink)
Pepper & Drew Mmmmm...tasty! Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 1,021 Location: Hurricane Alley Status: Couple SLS Name:alhedonists	Re: Where was the first time? We were one of the ones who answered "other". Our first experience was at a resort while we were on vacation. It was great because instead of deciding whether or not to invite people back to your house, we were in rooms at the resort. This couple was experienced, and invited us back to their room. It was a nice way to get eased into the lifestyle. __________________ "Swinging is a lot like riding a Harley, ...for those who understand, no explanation is necessary; for those who don't, no explanation is possible." --Mr. Alura

10-01-2004, 12:17 PM	#35 (permalink)
HDrider Active Member Join Date: Aug 2004 Posts: 12 Location: GA Status: Couple	Re: Where was the first time? I answered hotel. It was our 1st swinging experience. We had discussed, re-discussed and discussed this more and finally agreed we were up for some fun. We were on vacation in Daytona Beach. She began talking to a complete stranger at a bar. He was a young Afro-American and had a very funny sense of humor. She leaned over asked me, "how about him?" We each smiled, I was asked to pose the question to this guy. I asked him, he laughed. He thought I was joking with him. We finally ended up back at our hotel, room 934, and fucked for at least 3 hours. We were all new so all didn't go well. He balked (went completely limp) when we told him she wanted and was ready for her 1st DP, it was funny actually. He got dressed and left shortly thereafter. We had a great time and did learn from the experience. __________________ Guns kill people like spoons made Rosie O'Donnell fat

10-01-2004, 04:04 PM	#36 (permalink)
akamgaxoxo Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 221 Location: Maryland	Re: Where was the first time? Our first time...hehe....we met this gentleman on line, chatted for a couple weeks to feel out how we liked him...I spoke with him on the phone a few times..and everytime I melted! LOL...we met him in a "vanilla bar" for drinks and dancing and a little flirty fun..but before you know it we were all asking about going to a hotel room nearby and well the rest is history!

10-02-2004, 10:39 AM	#37 (permalink)
da2ofusgb Here to Stay Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 42 Location: Green bay, Wi Status: couple SLS Name:da2ofusgb	Re: Where was the first time? We did it at our place, we had no intention of swinging or swapping that night. As a matter of fact it did not even enter our minds at the time because neither one of us couples were actually swingers.......lol, in the sense of what we do now. What actually happened is, we all went to an x-rated drive in when they still had them in the area of where we use to live in da great Upper Peninsula of Mi. Well it started to rain so hard that the drive in was shut down that evening so we just went back to our place to do a little partying, the next thing ya know we are all in bed and having a great ole time....lol.......... Peace... Ed

10-02-2004, 02:17 PM	#38 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,824 Location: Utah Status: Male half of married couple	Re: Where was the first time? We met a couple at a party we were intersted in. A few weeks later we all met at a casino/hotel. Rented a suite with a 4-person jacuzzi. Had dinner. Gambled and drank. Went back to room. Played strip poker and drank some more. Hot-tubbed for awhile. Then "Lights, camera, action!" Mr. WS __________________ "God created sex. Priests created marriage." ~ Voltaire

10-03-2004, 10:40 PM	#39 (permalink)
mwsw4ever Here to Stay Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 61 Location: erie,pa Status: couple SLS Name:mwsw4	Re: Where was the first time? Our first time was at their house on their footon.I hope i spelled that right.I never knew what a footon was till that night.It was like instant play bed,Whoppee.We are looking for our own now.

10-04-2004, 09:51 AM	#40 (permalink)
ALilOEverything A Little Of Everything Join Date: May 2004 Posts: 1,472 Location: Michigan Status: Couple	Re: Where was the first time? Our first time was in our house in the room where we can hang our swing. Ahhhhhhhh, the memories __________________ ~Lilo

11-21-2004, 11:21 AM	#41 (permalink)
MV325 Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2004 Posts: 24 Location: Botswana	Re: Where was the first time? Our first time was at their house. A warm evening at the pool which turned into a hot night. First time for both couples.

11-21-2004, 01:13 PM	#42 (permalink)
DBStPete Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2004 Posts: 81 Location: St. Pete. Florida Status: Married 31 yr SLS Name:DBStPete	Re: Where was the first time? I answered "other", because our first MFM was in my bedroom at my parent's house, before we were married. Ok, so we were precocious. __________________ What's in your head? What's in your heart? What's between your legs? Let's get down to brass tacks here! - B

03-20-2005, 08:14 PM	#43 (permalink)
nhcpl1968 Club Owner Join Date: Jan 2005 Posts: 121 Location: newhampshire Status: couple SLS Name:nhcpl1968	Re: Where was the first time? Our house wifes long time friend spend the night all started with wife and her friend with some bi fun then joined me in bed for a great 3some

03-21-2005, 12:41 PM	#44 (permalink)
Illicitlovers Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 24 Location: Ontario,Canada Status: Couple	Re: Where was the first time? our first full swap was in a hotel that we rented....we have been talking to a couple for over a month and finally met.......we only rented the motel for ourselves because we didn't want to drive home but we really hit ti off and one thing led to another and we all landed back at our hotel room for a late night snack

03-21-2005, 01:53 PM	#45 (permalink)
autumn528 Here to Stay Join Date: May 2003 Posts: 61 Location: nj Status: couple	Re: Where was the first time? Well....Actually, it was with my wife and her girlfriend, but now that wife is the ex-wife and the girlfriend is my wife. Loooonnnggg story.

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