Swinging Frequency Satisfaction?

BradAndJanet · 04-04-2003, 07:22 PM

MIbbwcpl had this to say in another thread...

Quote:

Originally posted by MIbbwcpl
...Definetly not as often as we'd like. ...

Actually, they beat me to my 'follow-on' question (

, too many news conferences these days!)

Is it as often as you would like? Less? More?

Do you have a difference in opinion with your partner on this, and if so, how do you address it?

-B

OhioCouple · 04-04-2003, 07:32 PM

Well, pencil me in as brain dead. Is what as often as we would like? Sex?

Mrs. O

naughty A · 04-04-2003, 07:48 PM

swinging

do you swing as much as you want to or are you unable to find partners to swing with or can't get a sitter or whatever.

Do you swing as much as you'd like, less than, was more than an option???

OhioCouple · 04-04-2003, 07:58 PM

Naughty A,

I suppose I am still confused. What thread is this quote referring too? Perhaps it is a thread that I missed somewhere or can't remember the original topic.....

Mrs. O

BradAndJanet · 04-04-2003, 07:59 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by naughty A
swinging

do you swing as much as you want to or are you unable to find partners to swing with or can't get a sitter or whatever.

Do you swing as much as you'd like, less than, was more than an option???

Yes, that's right, swinging. Sorry, I wasn't too clear, was I? I changed it to "Swinging Frequency Satisfaction" instead, does that seem better?

-B

BradAndJanet · 04-04-2003, 08:15 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BradAndJanet
Yes, that's right, swinging. Sorry, I wasn't too clear, was I? I changed it to "Swinging Frequency Satisfaction" instead, does that seem better?

-B

Shoot, I can't change what I want to. Sorry.

-B

BradAndJanet · 04-04-2003, 08:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by OhioCouple
Naughty A,

I suppose I am still confused. What thread is this quote referring too? Perhaps it is a thread that I missed somewhere or can't remember the original topic.....

Lori

I was referring to How often do you swing?

Oh, what a mess

I'm glad it's Friday....

-B

Roxysbayou · 04-04-2003, 11:20 PM

We definitely don't swing as often as we would like to. We used to be troubled by that, but at the same time we look forward to the time when we will be able to pursue it more. As far as meeting people. We chat with so many, but have only met a few. We have also met a few at clubs. I do find it difficult sometimes to find a couple where all is compatible.

***JustAskJulie*** · 04-06-2003, 04:21 PM

I'll try to help here and changed the question on the survey to reflect what it should have been.... and hopefully keep from having any more confusion on what this poll is about...lol

Bubblicious · 04-14-2003, 03:07 PM

Less than we'd like to

Mainly due to our remote location and distance of traveling.
Also limited amount of weekend off work.

Bubbliciuos other 1/2

rjsmilesalot · 04-14-2003, 08:11 PM

At our local swing club is where we have been meeting most our swing couples so far. It seems that everytime we attend we meet new couples and sometimes one will invite us either upstairs to a play-room or contact us later to invite to their home or a stay at a hotel. So far, we are partying with other swingers every weekend and actually having sex every other weekend with another couple. We are enjoying it so much that we would like to have something going on every weekend. You get addicted to this sort of stuff

Some of the people who are club members and live in close proximity have been setting up get togethers Friday nights at a local Sports bar and grill. This happens on the fridays that our club is not open.
Our only real problem is possibly missing out on opportunities because we have not yet figured out what those silent signals are that interested couples try to send you. All we understand so far is the verbal or written invite. I guess once we've been doing this longer, we will have figured it out...at least I hope so...don't want to miss out on some great sex

Ramona

BradAndJanet · 04-14-2003, 08:19 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by rjsmilesalot
At our local swing club is where we have been meeting most our swing couples so far. It seems that everytime we attend we meet new couples and sometimes one will invite us either upstairs to a play-room or contact us later to invite to their home or a stay at a hotel. So far, we are partying with other swingers every weekend and actually having sex every other weekend with another couple. We are enjoying it so much that we would like to have something going on every weekend. You get addicted to this sort of stuff
Some of the people who are club members and live in close proximity have been setting up get togethers Friday nights at a local Sports bar and grill. This happens on the fridays that our club is not open.
Our only real problem is possibly missing out on opportunities because we have not yet figured out what those silent signals are that interested couples try to send you. All we understand so far is the verbal or written invite. I guess once we've been doing this longer, we will have figured it out...at least I hope so...don't want to miss out on some great sex
Ramona

rjsmilesalot...and now we know why

Couldn't resist that one!

Sounds like you two are having a great time. I'm jealous

, but I'm glad for you! Judging from the replies so far, I'm probably not the only jealous one either. Not unexpected, mind you. I mean, who wouldn't want more sex?

Which brings us to the two people who are swinging too much. How about letting us know why you feel that way? I'm curious.

-B

rjsmilesalot · 04-14-2003, 11:25 PM

I guess we have not made it to that place yet. That is swinging too much, that is. We have barely blasted off the launching pad on this swinging lifestyle so I'm not sure we can answer your question yet. We are trying to listen to our kids wants as far as our attention goes. So far so good. However, the kids are flat out jealous of all the fun us “old folks” are having. They and the world around them seem to think that we should find a rocking chair somewhere and be content with that sort of activity. However, I think I’m in my second adolescence but doing it right this time. He He. We will keep you posted as to our progress since we are going to LSO Las Vegas in August this year. I think we will hit stride about then.

Have fun and play until you drop.

The guy half of rjsmilesalot.

Michcouple · 04-15-2003, 05:39 PM

To me we swing enough.

To my partner we don't swing enough.

So I would say were somewhere in the middle.

velbuzz · 04-19-2003, 05:29 PM

It would be interesting to see the poll segregated by male responders and female responders.
Bill

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04-04-2003, 07:32 PM	#2 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	Well, pencil me in as brain dead. Is what as often as we would like? Sex? Mrs. O
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04-04-2003, 07:58 PM	#4 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,619 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	Naughty A, I suppose I am still confused. What thread is this quote referring too? Perhaps it is a thread that I missed somewhere or can't remember the original topic..... Mrs. O
	__________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

04-04-2003, 11:20 PM	#8 (permalink)
Roxysbayou Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 1,376 Location: Louisiana Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:likethat	We definitely don't swing as often as we would like to. We used to be troubled by that, but at the same time we look forward to the time when we will be able to pursue it more. As far as meeting people. We chat with so many, but have only met a few. We have also met a few at clubs. I do find it difficult sometimes to find a couple where all is compatible.
	__________________ I put the "grrrr" in swinger baby, yeah! --Austin Powers

04-04-2003, 07:48 PM	#3 (permalink)
naughty A Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2003 Posts: 997 Location: windsor ontario Status: couple - female half	swinging do you swing as much as you want to or are you unable to find partners to swing with or can't get a sitter or whatever. Do you swing as much as you'd like, less than, was more than an option???

04-06-2003, 04:21 PM	#9 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 29,294 Location: In my House Status: Female Swing Lifestyle Name:swingersboard	I'll try to help here and changed the question on the survey to reflect what it should have been.... and hopefully keep from having any more confusion on what this poll is about...lol
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04-14-2003, 03:07 PM	#10 (permalink)
Bubblicious Active Member Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 32 Location: U.P. Michigan Status: Couple	Less than we'd like to Mainly due to our remote location and distance of traveling. Also limited amount of weekend off work. Bubbliciuos other 1/2
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04-14-2003, 08:11 PM	#11 (permalink)
rjsmilesalot Registered Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Washington State Status: Couple	Re: Frequency of swinging At our local swing club is where we have been meeting most our swing couples so far. It seems that everytime we attend we meet new couples and sometimes one will invite us either upstairs to a play-room or contact us later to invite to their home or a stay at a hotel. So far, we are partying with other swingers every weekend and actually having sex every other weekend with another couple. We are enjoying it so much that we would like to have something going on every weekend. You get addicted to this sort of stuff Some of the people who are club members and live in close proximity have been setting up get togethers Friday nights at a local Sports bar and grill. This happens on the fridays that our club is not open. Our only real problem is possibly missing out on opportunities because we have not yet figured out what those silent signals are that interested couples try to send you. All we understand so far is the verbal or written invite. I guess once we've been doing this longer, we will have figured it out...at least I hope so...don't want to miss out on some great sex Ramona
	__________________ rj :)

04-14-2003, 11:25 PM	#13 (permalink)
rjsmilesalot Registered Join Date: Feb 2003 Posts: 5 Location: Washington State Status: Couple	Swinging too much. I guess we have not made it to that place yet. That is swinging too much, that is. We have barely blasted off the launching pad on this swinging lifestyle so I'm not sure we can answer your question yet. We are trying to listen to our kids wants as far as our attention goes. So far so good. However, the kids are flat out jealous of all the fun us “old folks” are having. They and the world around them seem to think that we should find a rocking chair somewhere and be content with that sort of activity. However, I think I’m in my second adolescence but doing it right this time. He He. We will keep you posted as to our progress since we are going to LSO Las Vegas in August this year. I think we will hit stride about then. Have fun and play until you drop. The guy half of rjsmilesalot.
	__________________ rj :)

04-15-2003, 05:39 PM	#14 (permalink)
Michcouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 845 Location: Michigan Status: couple	Depends on who you ask To me we swing enough. To my partner we don't swing enough. So I would say were somewhere in the middle.

04-19-2003, 05:29 PM	#15 (permalink)
velbuzz Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 325 Location: Bradford County, PA Status: MWC 59/56 Swing Lifestyle Name:velbuzz	depends on who you ask It would be interesting to see the poll segregated by male responders and female responders. Bill

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