Is there anything in the lifestyle that worries or scares you?

[telly2]

STD's are the biggest, and meeting someone who lied about thier relationship and become obsessed with one of us.

[nimbis43]

My biggest fear would be the wife falling for someone else and leaving me. Not that I think that would happen but anything is possible.

[dan5619]

I have got to agree with the STD's and men who are too rough. These are both really scary! Having the guy always wear a condom works most of the time, however we were having MFM sex and the guy continued to mess with his dick while it was in my wife. He did this until it broke and of course it was right when he came. That has been over a year ago and she has been tested for STD's so we seemed to have lucked out this time. I stopped everything at that point and made the guy leave. He said "he was sorry and it was just an accident" (ya right)!

We had known this guy for over a year and thought we knew him well enough! But you really never know them until you have them join in. (and maybe never)

It is important to understand that there are many men who want to cum in a women and they will break the condom to do so!!!!

Now that is scary!

PS: Maybe we can come up with a tear/break proof condom and sell it (maybe made out of Kevlar)

[MikeandDawn]

Originally Posted by CyberMWCouple

Is there anything in the lifestyle that worries or scares you?

Lack of discretion on the part of our partner. We don't care for someone who "fucks and tells". So far, we've been lucky.

[TwoLittleBirds]

Rejection!
Oh, and since we're so new to the game, something f*cking up our relationship, which is the most important part of my life.
Mr. LB

[prettylady]

SPIDERS!!! oh what scares me in the lifestyle...hee hee sorry.
for me right now it is the fear of not knowing how I will react to my first time seeing Dog with another women. I have always been comfortable with the idea of the lifestyle right from the beginning.
But you don't know until you try. I feel confident that I will be alright because if I get weird about it I know Dog will say Nope not again for us.
I HATE the unknown, I feel I have little or no control over myself.
Your friend,
Prettylady

[kywife4two]

Someone stealing our camera while taking pictures.

[HappyPeople]

Pregnancy
STDs
A "single" male's wife kicking in our front door.

[rpu3]

STDs.

Being physically unsafe.

Losing my job (not that it should matter, but if they are weird about affairs at my company, think of the fun they could have with this).

I don't care if my dad or mother find out, but I'd worry that my sister and a couple of my friends would "reject" me if they found out.

[flkeyscouple]

I have three worries:

STD's

Being 'outted'.

And because I read a 'horror story' in one of these threads, I am worried about allowing anal intercourse with someone that could get too rough. I love anal with my hubby (as a change - we don't do it all that often) but reading how some guy was so rough the woman ended up with major medical problems - that SCARES me!

Of all of these, I think being 'outted' is my DAILY fear. Maybe not the worst of the three, but the one I worry about more often than the others.

Sarah

[crazycatz]

Stds, getting pregnant (because the only form of birth control i can use are condoms), being rudely rejected, my boyfriend falling for someone else (and I know this can happen outside the swinging world as well...nothing is forever, no matter how much we like to think it is)...getting jealous at an inopportune moment, not enjoying my first MFF.

[rebelnangel]

our biggest worry is std's because you never know.neither of us would do anything without condoms,but there's always a chance.plus one female i thought i knew and could trust started trying to come between us.she would tell her hubby she was going to her mom's and she was going to where my hubby worked.i finally had to put a stop to it after she told a friend that she was gonna split us up and marry my husband after she got him to divorce me.....i told her it wouldn't happen..we have a very strong and deep bond,so i don't worry....

[SouthBond]

Originally Posted by prettylady

SPIDERS!!! oh what scares me in the lifestyle...hee hee sorry.
for me right now it is the fear of not knowing how I will react to my first time seeing Dog with another women. I have always been comfortable with the idea of the lifestyle right from the beginning.
But you don't know until you try. I feel confident that I will be alright because if I get weird about it I know Dog will say Nope not again for us.
I HATE the unknown, I feel I have little or no control over myself.
Your friend,
Prettylady

Oh Pretty Lady, don't be jealous. He loves you. This is a gift that you are giving him. You help pick her out, you approve of her, you be there laying with them, you encourage him, you talk to him, you hold his cock and help him push it into the other woman, become an active part of his fantasy. If you are sitting in the corner and looking mad, it will mess up his mind because he will fear that he is hurting you. I feel certain that it will ignite a deeper passion between the two of you than you have ever known.

[herpob]

no doubt - stds

people lying about not having them, not being honest about their history.

[celtic239]

The last reason for the wife being reluctant to swing - STD's