Promiscuity and Swinging

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by prettylady

Our beer makes you braver then your silly American beer.

I guess Americans don't need beer to be brave

Spoomonkey

[ohash01]

Originally Posted by prettylady
Our beer makes you braver then your silly American beer.

Originally Posted by Spoomonkey
I guess Americans don't need beer to be brave

I considered telling Prettylady that I don't think I had a beer that whole night - they were passing around little test tubes of something green...but it definately wasn't beer. But I didn't want to break her sweet little Canadian heart.

[blueguitar]

My hubby had one partner before me. It was basically from the desire to lose his virginity. Not really a 'bad' experience, but not really a good one either. I had one "partner" before him, and that was a very bad experience, which is why "partner" is in quotes. We have been monogamous, and very faithful to each other. The one exception that still counts as very faithful to each other, we had a very accidental drunken threesome last year, which was unexpected and not talked about before hand. Since then, we have started talking about swinging, and are working our way to having our first real swinging experience.

Anywho, I think our lack of experience (we have talked about this) has pushed us towards swinging as a way of experiencing all the things we would normally have missed out on being in a monogamous relationship starting so young. We got together when we were both 17, and we are 22 now.

Thats the story!

[rayjane1955]

Married for 31 years and madly in love. We just decided to swing. We are doing it for the sex, fun, and excitment. We are very open minded people who believe you only have one shot at life. Make the best, cause who knows; there just might not ba a after life.

[Tia Vampire]

After my divorce. I booty called for about a year. So i was a little promiscuious before the life-style. That is one of the reasons i think i was able to adjust the way i have. Still a little shy and nervous at first, but not a prune or closed minded to new ideas.

[firsttimers85]

My husband had one other partner before me. We have been together since highschool and until now he has been the only one I have ever been with. (well over 20 years!) We have always fantasized about being with others but never acted upon it until now. It has brought excitement back into our once mundane sex life. We have both desired trying new things and so far both enjoying it immensely. We are very new to the lifestyle but are eager to experience more. Both wish we had done this years ago. Never knew what we were missing!