What type of music do you prefer during sex

[4sum]

Originally posted by BostonDLT
I'm sure there are examples of rock, pop, country, and R&B music that could get you all worked up...and others that just don't cut it, right?

True! It all depends on what kind of mood you're in. The problem with most music recorded in the past 40 years is that the majority of it has been aimed at the radio audience. To us sex needs to me more than 3:40 with a fade!

That said there's plenty of less mainstream R&B and Techno mixes that will give you that good ole gut pounding pile driving jackhammer sex beat.

But for slow sweet hip gyrating, groin grinding tease and taste sex, it's very tough to find something more appropriate than a good classical piece of.....ah....music!

[ATAK]

True! It all depends on what kind of mood you're in. The problem with most music recorded in the past 40 years is that the majority of it has been aimed at the radio audience. To us sex needs to me more than 3:40 with a fade!

Very well put. Many of the better R&B bump & grind, hip gyrating, wiggle butt, throw it on me music has been remixed into longer mixes for just that reason. I have an "off the hook" 10 minute version of sex me by R. Kelly. But I find that after a little while, I'm ready to hear something different anyway. I'd rather not listen to the same piece of music for 2 hours....

[4sum]

Originally posted by ATAK
I find that after a little while, I'm ready to hear something different anyway. I'd rather not listen to the same piece of music for 2 hours....

I agree in some respects. But only insofar as you're taking the modern musical paradigm and projecting it on stuff that was written a hundred or more years ago.

Most modern music has two or three distinct....er....movements. Verse, Chorus, and Bridge, and they cycle in a pattern with an essentially consistent beat. Verse Chorus Verse Chorus Bridge Chorus Chorus Fade is one pretty common song format. Essentially it's song formats like that which have dominated the art and business of music since the first part of the last century.

Most GOOD Classical pieces have much longer movements that have tempo and time changes between them that can be a lot of fun for your partner if you know where they are and you're good with your bow. So instead of 10 to 15 seperate and disjointed songs (and don't you just hate those albums that have good fuck songs wedge between abomnially bad ones), you have a constant and varying palette of sound and rhythm. Play her like a Viola, Cowboy!....at least until the Aldante.

[LoveInColor]

I love having Smooth Jazz playing, especially with candlelight.

Mary

[ATAK]

Believe me, I'm not knocking your taste in music a bit, I love classical but as a professional DJ with lots of cool software at my disposal, I can create a single mp3 or .cda track containing 12-15 great bump & grind songs, creating a 45 minute track of sex for the ears....LOL Have I mentioned lately that I LOVE my job? To each his/her own. I'm kickin' it to R.Kelly, K. Sweat and the other aforementioned artists...

[LoveInColor]

I'm glad classical has been mentioned, there are several good pieces of music that is very romantic. One must also realize that men and women differ on the type of turn-on music.

It seems to me that gentlemen, usually will try to accomodate a lady's musical taste, in order to seduce her. Like my husband has told me, he loves ZZ Top, but he knows David Sanborn, Grover Washington, Jr, Art Porter and others eases me into the mood of hot lovemaking. He knows it won't be long and I'll be blowing his "sax."

[ATAK]

Like my husband has told me, he loves ZZ Top, but he knows David Sanborn, Grover Washington, Jr, Art Porter and others eases me into the mood of hot lovemaking. He knows it won't be long and I'll be blowing his "sax."

Jazz is also a very sensual genre of music. David Sanborn is an excellent example of very laid back, sensual music. I think Jazz and R&B run very close to each other in this category. Thanks for pointing out Jazz as a great source of love-music.

[Buck]

Barry White-my wife and I both like his music during sex.

[Alura]

I like Johnnie Mathis. Mr. Alura knows if I put him on the bedroom stereo at bedtime I'm not planning to sleep. He also knows that if he puts Johnnie on I'll stay awake.

Mrs. Alura

[JustAskJulie]

Does anyone remember what movie it was where the guy was trying to have sex to "Inna Godda Davida"... and last the full length of the song? Hell maybe it wasn'ta movie.. maybe it was a guy I knew once....LMAO

[vorphlak]

i read once"inna gada davita" was jus' a drunk ironbutterfly singing "in the garden of eden baby" kinda funny he was that wasted but anyhoo....good sex music in my opinion...tori amos...bjork....portishead...depeche mode.

[Brit_Pair]

For us, it's about the flow of the music. You can have sexually suggestive - even explicit - lyrics, but without a tune and/or rhythm that complements the mood, what use are they?

As with so many things, it comes down to the individual's taste. Examples of the sort of music we might play during a sensual evening include:

Who's That Girl? Eurythmics
Naked in the Rain Blue Pearl
Baby did a bad, bad thing Chris Isaak
Feeling Good Nina Simone

Genre is largely irrelevant: mood is everything.

[Flori_DAMAN]

If I were a musician I would create a rap song with a country beat.

They call me lovva (twang),
cuz im yo nigga (twang)
lotsa rivas (translation rivers), makes me quivas
cuz Im yo mainstream (twang)
and I know I can paddla thru your floods dat I
Make dem,
Cus I take dem,
If you love dem then get yo booty right up in dem.
better tell yo man den,
cuz im on dem (twang).
Just use my paddle (twang) cuz Im on yo saddle (double twang)


Maybe not
john.

[LadyandLordAro]

I prefer blues..new age..if I have music on..
The clock radio has blown speakers because I dont wake too easily
Floyd is good too..I need a dirty woman always does it for deb

But at home folks..tell the truth...

put the tv on the weather channel cuz its not distracting..

and fuck by the light of the tv

I think both my kids were concieved by carsonlight.

[Vjklander]

Dang, are y'all having sex or trying to sleep??????

We use Metallica's S&M album. For the first 22 years of our relationship it was Led Zeppelins soundtrack version of Dazed and Confused. besides being continuous music, I find they have a variety of composition so I can pace myself by the music. You want 2 minutes of wham bam thank you mam, fine, if you want 110 minutes of serious sexual stimulation ... go Metallica !!!!!!
J