Swinging with Singles and/or Couples

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-21-2003, 02:42 PM

Do you swing just with couples? Just with singles or both?

If you only swing with couples have you ever tried singles? Why did you decide they weren't for you?

Same question if you only swing with singles... have you ever tried couples? And if so, why did you decide they weren't for you?

OhioCouple · 01-21-2003, 03:06 PM

I had to answer this with the last option. We are still new and haven't decided yet.

We have swung with couples, but have in the past been looking for a single that would be compatible with us.

Our original plan was to begin with a FMF, but we all know how that goes. So our encounters have been limited to couples so far.

As we have progressed it is now both of our desires to have an MFM. The key is finding the right person and so far we haven't been successful.

For any of you that have the preference of MFM, (I am not talking about couples splitting off to do such, I mean a single male, no spouse, no attachments) please share your secrets as to how you find the person that is compatible with you. This is a long sought after fantasy of mine and now my husband shares it too.

Lori

Handyman69 · 01-21-2003, 05:30 PM

We also picked the last option. We are on the same line as the OhioCouple, as so far have only ventured into the couples.

We are considering looking for a single ,as the more we read..the more it sounds inviting. Time, talk and finding the right person will be our next move.

Rhonda

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-21-2003, 05:34 PM

In response to the last two posts I added another option. Does this "So far we have only been with couples but may consider singles in the future" adequately convey your feelings?

Handyman69 · 01-21-2003, 05:53 PM

Thanks Julie,

But now can we revote? I think this hit the head on the nail. You know 8 months ago we said, no way only couples ,but both of us are now saying "Well, why not try"

Rhonda

John's thought is.....

With experience brings knowledge, and with knowledge brings new ideas.

OhioCouple · 01-21-2003, 05:58 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BostonDLT
How? What do you mean, Lori?

Not sure what you are asking Boston. Can you be more specific?

Also, Julie, yes, the last option would have been one that we would have immediately chosen. That more accurately describes our postion.

Can we revote or are we limited to just expressing our views here?

Lori

***JustAskJulie*** · 01-21-2003, 05:59 PM

Unfortunately, we can't change the past... but at least anyone else who comes in will have the option

Gwendolyn · 01-24-2003, 01:19 AM

This is such a good question. How do you find a single that you can actually swing with. The only singles I have met have been guys. Most of them I have talked to for 5 minutes and went umm.....no. That proverbial single woman usually doesn't exist. So how do we meet that single person that would be acceptable?

Flori_DAMAN · 01-24-2003, 01:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Gwendolyn
This is such a good question. How do you find a single that you can actually swing with. The only singles I have met have been guys. Most of them I have talked to for 5 minutes and went umm.....no. That proverbial single woman usually doesn't exist. So how do we meet that single person that would be acceptable?

You need to give it time. There are many of us. They need to understand the lifestyle. They need to understand themselves.
You need to realize you won't get everything you want.

I mean it may be a guy like me.....im 45, unattached....hung like a horse, good looking and really into the lifestyle....

but Im not exactly a knock your socks off type of guy. I don't turn heads when people walk by me. I am 45, smoke, average build, balding...and a bit outspoken....

Now thats just me...there are millions of people just like me...except some of them arent balding...some talk like they own ceasars palace....some dont smoke...

You need to play the numbers.

Your from vegas you should know that...lol. Just give it time. It took me and my partners an average of one year to find a single guy.

John.

Gwendolyn · 01-24-2003, 01:54 AM

I mean it may be a guy like me.....im 45, unattached....hung like a horse, good looking and really into the lifestyle....

So how do I figure out they are hung like a horse?:evil:

Flori_DAMAN · 01-24-2003, 07:18 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Gwendolyn
I mean it may be a guy like me.....im 45, unattached....hung like a horse, good looking and really into the lifestyle....

So how do I figure out they are hung like a horse?:evil:

I have posted almost 500 times on this board and this is the first time i mentioned that. Most guys that are hung don't really brag about it. IN fact I never do. I only mentioned it because it was fitting and I have felt a bit underwhelmed lately. ANyhow....you will find that if you want a guy thats hung then look for adds that advertise it. And demand pictures....I cant imagine saying it without being able to back it up. Most guys I don't think will say that. I always tell people I'm 8 inches....then they are surprised with the extra inch as a matter of fact.....THat makes 9 in case anyone didnt add it right.....as a matter of fact if you measure it from the top its 11, but thats just semantics.

Ya know its really amazing about how hung a guy is. All of my true love partners of course prefer well hung guys. But when we swang do you know who they liked the best? Guys with any size dick but good social and physical talent.

Now, I'd like to consider myself as both....because its nice to have the best of both worlds...but I just can't compete with some guys. Some guys can charm the pants off a girl before I can introduce myself.

For the gals that like big dicks...I just wish I could leave mine hanging out there. Daamn the laws anyhow.............JOHN

Gwendolyn · 01-25-2003, 07:21 PM

flori_daman I totally agree. Guys that are hung usually say nothing about it. In fact this guy I played with for a while always talked about how small he was. The first time we played I burst out laughing. He was humongous. A little more than I could handle actually.

I just had to say something back to the hung like a horse comment.

It doesn't really matter to me as long as the guy knows what he's doing.

**Alura** · 01-25-2003, 07:45 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Gwendolyn

I just had to say something back to the hung like a horse comment.

It doesn't really matter to me as long as the guy knows what he's doing.

What does a guy who "knows what he is doing," do, Gwendolyn?

Mr. Alura

***JustAskJulie*** · 04-29-2004, 01:13 PM

Ok, easy question so I put it in a poll. Do you swing with/ are you interested in swinging with single males? Single Females? Couples? You can choose as many as apply. Inquiring minds want to know.

Triumphs · 04-29-2004, 01:21 PM

Kewl, first vote... Anyway, we are interested in all of them. I wish there was a way to give them a priority, but I guess that'll show in the poll results. As for us, the current priority is:

1) Couples
2) Single Females
3) Single Males

The latter 2 may change from time to time, as we explore this more. We definately want to play with couples mostly, because then no one gets left out, and there's extra partners if one of us is left unsatisfied...

Good question/poll Julie,

TriumphGuy

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View Poll Results: Which do you swing with
We swing only with singles	7	4.52%
We swing only with couples	33	21.29%
We swing with both couples & singles	75	48.39%
We are still new to this and haven't decided yet.	24	15.48%
So far we have only been with couples but may consider a single in the future	16	10.32%
Voters: 155. You may not vote on this poll

01-21-2003, 02:42 PM	#1 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,250 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Swinging with Singles and/or Couples Do you swing just with couples? Just with singles or both? If you only swing with couples have you ever tried singles? Why did you decide they weren't for you? Same question if you only swing with singles... have you ever tried couples? And if so, why did you decide they weren't for you? __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

01-21-2003, 03:06 PM	#2 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	I had to answer this with the last option. We are still new and haven't decided yet. We have swung with couples, but have in the past been looking for a single that would be compatible with us. Our original plan was to begin with a FMF, but we all know how that goes. So our encounters have been limited to couples so far. As we have progressed it is now both of our desires to have an MFM. The key is finding the right person and so far we haven't been successful. For any of you that have the preference of MFM, (I am not talking about couples splitting off to do such, I mean a single male, no spouse, no attachments) please share your secrets as to how you find the person that is compatible with you. This is a long sought after fantasy of mine and now my husband shares it too. Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

01-21-2003, 05:34 PM	#4 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,250 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	In response to the last two posts I added another option. Does this "So far we have only been with couples but may consider singles in the future" adequately convey your feelings? __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

01-21-2003, 05:30 PM	#3 (permalink)
Handyman69 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 553 Location: MI..God's country.so we thought. Status: Couple SLS Name:handyman69	We also picked the last option. We are on the same line as the OhioCouple, as so far have only ventured into the couples. We are considering looking for a single ,as the more we read..the more it sounds inviting. Time, talk and finding the right person will be our next move. Rhonda

01-21-2003, 05:53 PM	#5 (permalink)
Handyman69 Here to Stay Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 553 Location: MI..God's country.so we thought. Status: Couple SLS Name:handyman69	Thanks Julie, But now can we revote? I think this hit the head on the nail. You know 8 months ago we said, no way only couples ,but both of us are now saying "Well, why not try" Rhonda John's thought is..... With experience brings knowledge, and with knowledge brings new ideas.

01-21-2003, 05:59 PM	#7 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,250 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Unfortunately, we can't change the past... but at least anyone else who comes in will have the option __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

01-24-2003, 01:19 AM	#8 (permalink)
Gwendolyn Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 50 Location: Las Vegas Status: M. Female	This is such a good question. How do you find a single that you can actually swing with. The only singles I have met have been guys. Most of them I have talked to for 5 minutes and went umm.....no. That proverbial single woman usually doesn't exist. So how do we meet that single person that would be acceptable?

01-24-2003, 01:54 AM	#10 (permalink)
Gwendolyn Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 50 Location: Las Vegas Status: M. Female	I mean it may be a guy like me.....im 45, unattached....hung like a horse, good looking and really into the lifestyle.... So how do I figure out they are hung like a horse?:evil: Last edited by Gwendolyn : 01-24-2003 at 02:31 AM.

01-25-2003, 07:21 PM	#12 (permalink)
Gwendolyn Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 50 Location: Las Vegas Status: M. Female	flori_daman I totally agree. Guys that are hung usually say nothing about it. In fact this guy I played with for a while always talked about how small he was. The first time we played I burst out laughing. He was humongous. A little more than I could handle actually. I just had to say something back to the hung like a horse comment. It doesn't really matter to me as long as the guy knows what he's doing.

04-29-2004, 01:13 PM	#14 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,250 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Do you swing with..... Ok, easy question so I put it in a poll. Do you swing with/ are you interested in swinging with single males? Single Females? Couples? You can choose as many as apply. Inquiring minds want to know. __________________ Julie Owner/ Admin http://www.swingersboard.com

04-29-2004, 01:21 PM	#15 (permalink)
Triumphs Active Member Join Date: Apr 2004 Posts: 29 Location: TX Status: Couple	Kewl, first vote... Anyway, we are interested in all of them. I wish there was a way to give them a priority, but I guess that'll show in the poll results. As for us, the current priority is: 1) Couples 2) Single Females 3) Single Males The latter 2 may change from time to time, as we explore this more. We definately want to play with couples mostly, because then no one gets left out, and there's extra partners if one of us is left unsatisfied... Good question/poll Julie, TriumphGuy __________________ Reporter: So what do you think of western civilization? Ghandi: I think it would be a good idea.

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