Is your spouse your best lover? ever

[DBL D]

Originally Posted by ViSexual

...But, come to think of it, my wife has the best tasting anus of any woman I've ever been with. Now, number two is sure close to her though! In fact, I wouldn't mind have number two and my wife side by side for a real 'taste' comparison!

Just a tip...sniff your arm between sampling(s)...it'll reset your palate. (Beer Judge Trick) You're killin' me!

Male D

[Trixie1966]

Without a doubt, YES. Mr. is amazing at EVERYTHING and no man I play with, past, present or future will ever compare. Ever. He is number one, my soulmate, my forever.

Mrs. Trixie

[sereneiders]

I wonder what about the opposite question. Let's suppose your spouse is your best lover.Then, if you ever find a better lover... Wherer you relationship would be?

Because as swingers, we should admit that either we may be able to find out a "better lover" sooner or later, or that our conception of "better lover" is biased by the love we feel for our spouses... and even, that were being "politically right" whith our answer.

Mmmmm food for tought, I guess.

[Trixie1966]

I'd have to say that even if I found someone who was better at sex, that is all it will ever be with the other person is just sex. Intimacy and all the other things that go along with it (the sharing of our lives, our history, our future, etc) is part of what makes sex with the one I love so great. Just my thoughts and not everyone may feel the same.

Mrs. Trixie

[CarAsia]

My wife is the best lover I've ever had!
I had many lovers before I met my wife and I always had great sex with all of them. But being that more open and honest (from both sides) with my wife it has taken our sex life to a whole other level which is deeper and more meaningful. Thus making both of us much better lovers for each other.

Cheers,
Carasia
sexxy_carasia@yahoo.com

[Tia Vampire]

You all have heard the song "dangerously in love with you" That is the way i feel about my fiance. He makes me feel whole and there would never be another like him. YES! YES! YES! best lover i have ever had.

[VolupVal]

Yes, Yes, YES! He is incredible and makes me feel like no other has ever, or likely will ever make me feel.

My husband on the other hand has been honest with me and, that as incredible as our sex is, there was one before me that blew his mind. It doesn't bother me much as I have her to thank for teaching him so many of the skills that drive me wild. That and I know for an absolute fact that he loves me more than he's ever loved another and that makes the sex between us the best either of us has ever had.

[petra6998]

No my husband is not the best. After 12 years of being together and having teach him much, he still isn't quite there. Don't get me wrong we have great sex, but it could go so much further. Even with suggestions it doesn't come close. I don't know if he feels I am or not, but I don't think it would bother me either way.

[ShellyM]

I can honestly tell you that yes, Jay is by far the best lover I have ever had. By FAAAAR. No lover has come even close. Now that is a hard question though in fairness. There is no way that a woman who has known Jay for 3 hours knows how to please him like I do after 17 years of knowing his body. Same for men with me. But yes, Jay knows my body and can cause it to do things that still suprise me.

[Cerberus]

she is my desire all the time

[sweet_tna]

Absolutely, Mr. Sweet is the best lover I've ever had. That I haven't had a lot of others is irrelevant, because there is a level of intimacy between us that no one else could touch.

As for the best sex I've ever had, he was involved there, too. If someday, I should ever be lucky enough to have an encounter to top that one, I'd still be going home w/him at the end of the night/next morning. And as far as I'm concerned, that's all that matters.

~Mrs. Sweet =)

[WeMayTryIt]

Originally Posted by graygo98

...The difference (quite apart from the added spice of our emotional connection) is the fact that she just plain and simple enjoys sex. With the emphasis on "joy".

Now pretty much everyone likes sex, and it usually feels really good I'm sure. But this is an order of magnitude different. She just loves what she is doing and it shows through so loud and clear that she seems to glow. And that is the most powerful aphrodisiac I can imagine. It just rocks my world, makes me feel like the best lover in the universe. And, she has the same effect on others, believe me.

I could have written this word for word. Thanks for doing all the work for me graygo98!

[love2dp]

nope, but she still makes me cum so thats fine with me.

[couplers]

From the sexual standpoint, my husband David, and my lover, Red, please me in wonderfully complementary ways. David is mechanical in his approach (he says he loves me a hundred times a day, but never says it during sex), can go on forever, has a thick dick, and likes to do it from behind. I can fantasize or talk about anything with him, including the good sex I get from Red. Red is romantic during sex, has a long, slender dick (so we occasionally go anal), and likes me on top. But Red doesn't like to hear anything of me or him being with anyone else. Both will lick me as much as I want, David prefers my clit, Red likes to put his tongue in my vagina.
What would hubby say about me? I'm a competitive girl and would like the challenge of trying to top a "better" sex partner he had. The only thing he said was "It's all good, but I like the variety." Bummer! I can always be better, but I can't be variety.

[magichands804]

I would have to say that my wife is the best that I have ever had. There is that love factor that I don't have with any other playmates. I think that everyone's wife or husband is the best lover for there partner. When I a having sex with them, I just try to be the second best lover.