How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

[SuAndBud]

Su and I harbour a fantasy which will hopefully soon be fulfilled at Cap d'Adge where there are daily "Exhibition Sessions" in a designated area of the sand dunes. During this time, adventurous couples and groups "perform" in front of any of the other naturists who care to watch. The rules, we understand to be quite simple. Any of the voyeurs can join in by starting their own exhibition, too but none of the vouyeurs are allowed to join in with you while you are performing without your express permission.

Although it is possible to post multiple answers, just one for the ladies and one for the gents, please.

For the record, we both voted "No problem (but forget the camera).

[2TexasTornados]

He would love something like that. Exhibitionism is the main motivation for us exploring this lifestyle in the first place.

I don't so much get off on whether or not anyone's looking. I'm in it for just how it feels, not the audience or lack of. That said, I'm coming around to not minding an audience, even though I haven't progressed to the point that having one turns me on.

[spectraschain]

Although it is possible to post multiple answers, just one for the ladies and one for the gents, please.

oops.........sorry.

[havefuninsun]

One of our playmates is a total exhibitionist ... she even hosts a forum and posts pictures for "butterscotch" types (these aren't really vanilla people, but they're not folks she swings with either).

I sometimes get nervous when being watched, but in my fantasy-land, I'm a total super-porn-star.

[Spoomonkey]

I don't mind being watched as evidenced here. Mrs Spoo is a little hesitant to get started sometimes, but gets into being watched pretty quickly.

I have a fantasy of being "directed". While I would never act in a porno, I would love to have a porno fantasy. I'd meet a woman I had never met before - my costar - and we would work out the script before being filmed. I have shared this with Mrs Spoo and she has said she'd love to be the director/camera person.

But - the idea of that getting out beyond us is not sexy at all...

Spoomonkey

[spectraschain]

Oh Spoo.....ya just keep pushin' the right buttons..........

[SuAndBud]

Ha. Good for you Mr & Mrs Spoo.

That takes supreme gutts and confidence!

Funny thing with us is that while we would like to "strut our stuff" in front of others (although it's not a burning issue or anything we just feel we would feel confident to do that and would find it gratifying and exciting to be the inspiration for others to help them lose some of their inhibitions) we find the idea of "dogging" (not sure if you have this in other countries or not) totally unappealing.

That's just a little too anonymous, slutty and downright dangerous as far as we're concerned.

Maybe a good topic for a new thread/poll though.

[SW_PA_Couple]

Originally Posted by SuAndBud

we find the idea of "dogging" (not sure if you have this in other countries or not) totally unappealing.

Correct me if I have this all wrong, but my understanding of "dogging" is putting oneself on display in places where people might be out walking their dogs -- a public park, for example. My understanding also includes that "doggers" are the people doing the watching, not the people exhibiting, and that they are generally out and about at dusk -- just enough light to see that foolishness is going on but not enough light to see what exactly is happening.

Trying to understand European culture,

Michael

[Spoomonkey]

Originally Posted by spectraschain

Oh Spoo.....ya just keep pushin' the right buttons..........

I'm a button pushing fool

Spoomonkey

[sexsexsex]

the more the merrier

[SuAndBud]

Originally Posted by SW_PA_Couple

Correct me if I have this all wrong, but my understanding of "dogging" is putting oneself on display in places where people might be out walking their dogs -- a public park, for example. My understanding also includes that "doggers" are the people doing the watching, not the people exhibiting, and that they are generally out and about at dusk -- just enough light to see that foolishness is going on but not enough light to see what exactly is happening.

Trying to understand European culture,

Michael

Not in the UK. Over here, Dogging works thus:

If you are a "dogger" you meet up (usually in your car) at a place frequented by other doggers. Once there, you put a show on of having sex in front of the other doggers (those having exhibitionist sex) and the many voyeurs who congregate there to see the action. Some doggers even invite complete strangers/voyeurs to join in by allowing and even encouraging them to have sex (usually confined to oral or vaginal - though not always- and invariably with the female member of their company).

Photography (whilst not not generally allowed is impossible to prevent) often occurs as this is all done out in the open and with no rules or rule enforcers present.

It is a completely exhibitionistic type of affair that is pretty much out of control.

Not our scene, but it obviously fulfills a purpose to those who participate.

[WesternSwing]

I wouldn't say I'm an exhibitionist, but performing in public doesn't bother me in the least bit.

Mr. WS

[des1re06]

We're both exhibitionists and perform regularly in front of a group of strangers at clubs. No camera or video unless at our house party and all agree.

Mrs. D

[AlaskanGrown]

Exhibitionists if the mood is right. Our record is fucking in a swing in front of 15 or so people at a house party.

[Tybee Swing]

When the mood is right and the spirit moves us, we can be very exhibitionistic together at a club or house party. The first time we discovered this about ourselves, it was mind-blowing for us. We never would have thought we'd have liked it so much, because we're both fairly camera shy. (We're still very camera shy in the Lifestyle and don't want other people taking pics of us on their cameras.) But, camera-free, we can get very wild in front of people.