How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)?

***JustAskJulie*** · 10-07-2007, 01:02 AM

This is something that we both agree on. We don't mind and audience what we both hate is distractions. IOW, if you are going to watch, watch... but don't hang out and have a discussion or pop in and out of the room.

Personally, I'd prefer to be in a room where everyone is actively playing... but if you aren't going to actively play at least keep your mouth shut and stay put.

**TNT** · 10-07-2007, 08:47 AM

Our thoughts on this are no lookie loos. If you have no intention of playing we are not the free porn show. I like Vegas Lee's hospitality suite rules at the Lifestyle conventions that you must be naked to enter the suite. That really cuts down on the tourists.

Ted

sexcupid · 10-07-2007, 11:55 AM

This may sound contradictory given my other posts...but I love being watched, or even the thought of being watched (ie: we go to the big play room at the club and start having at it). But only with my boyfriend.

If I am with a swing partner, I prefer separate room so I can concentrate on what we are doing.

With that being said, if Jeff and I are having sex with other people watching, I probably won't have an orgasm (just like with same room sex)...it is distracting, but it's still very hot to me.

It's one of the reasons we like going to the lake and getting naked, I like to be looked at some times.

Jeff likes looking and to a lesser extent being looked at, however...he is his own best advertisement when we go to the playroom and are still going and going after other groups have played, taken a break and come back to the room for round 2.

Maria

Tia Vampire · 10-07-2007, 02:02 PM

We don't mind being watched, but no camberas.

Like last post, we don't mind being watched when it is just him and I, but in a group, just the people that are involved in the group will do. Just like Julie, we don't need the background shuffling or comments.

ShellyM · 10-07-2007, 02:26 PM

Im not an exhibitionist at all by nature. Sometimes I get a wild hair up my behind (or perhaps its the red wine lol) and I'll be this way...but typically I'm more of a private person. I will open up 10 times faster if I am in a more private setting than in public. Shelly

sweettn · 10-09-2007, 08:56 AM

I'm an exhibitionist, and he is most definitely a voyeur. So far my "audience" has only been him, so I don't know for sure if I'm comfortable with others "just watching" yet... if they were in the mix I probably wouldn't mind. And we have no problem with pictures and videos being taken.

prettylady · 11-04-2007, 01:53 PM

Dog has mentioned a few times recently that he would like to be watched by a group of people while we did the nasty. Can't say I am putting up too much of a fuss

Your friend,
Prettylady

sweet_tna · 11-04-2007, 08:59 PM

While I don't mind if others watch us, I don't get off on it, per se. And I 'd really prefer that the audience didn't sit there fully dressed discussing my "noises"--it's really distracting.

Do we like to watch? Fair is fair: if I'm watching, it's only the occasional glance while I'm otherwise occupied.

~Mrs. Sweet =)

htscpl · 11-07-2007, 05:00 PM

Hey, being watched is part of the fun! We like being watched almost as much as we like to watch!

Spoomonkey · 11-07-2007, 10:35 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by prettylady

Dog has mentioned a few times recently that he would like to be watched by a group of people while we did the nasty. Can't say I am putting up too much of a fuss

I'm guessing you could find a very willing audience

Spoomonkey

PublicBJ · 01-24-2008, 12:00 PM

We've done this a few times, out in some clubs in Vegas. Not huge crowds around us, as that would be a little intimidating, but a few people around us. Most memorable was all-star weekend last year, where I "manned the bobsled" down on the bottom floor of the Green Door. Plenty of looky loos there.

It's definately been a fantasy of mine, and the wife gets a bit turned on by it. (I don't think she ever thought she would be, but has found it to be.)

curious_2for2 · 01-24-2008, 07:39 PM

We don't mind being watched, but please be polite. We've had the experience of couples around us, dressed, watching us and having some non-LS conversations. We're not interested in your dog, or what you had for dinner last week, or what your best friend said at work. I 've used the line... "move along please, nothing to see here".

OTOH, we really enjoy watching another couple or moresome in the group room. The sights, sounds and aroma of ardor are distinct turn ons that add to the pleasures of the experience. Ya get what ya give!

C2for2

VanHlebar · 01-25-2008, 05:13 PM

We don't mind being watched and actually one of our local clubs that we goto the main play area is really more of a public play loft than anything else. It has around 10-12 beds upstairs and it is all open. You can only go up there if you are a couple or a single lady and you must be naked if you go up.

We play up there almost every time we are at the club. Either just MrsVan and I or with another couple. At this club I actually can't think of a time where we have used any of the play rooms. With this setup it is usually ok because everyone else is up there playing also or has been and are finished and just enjoying the show. For the most part everyone has always been quiet and respectful while in the loft.

Now we have been to a couple of other clubs and this was not the case. I agree with Julie here, if I am in a public play area and you want to watch fine, but be polite about it. One time MrsVan and I where at a club and we where playing with a single guy in the public area. The place we had choose was kind of a tent and it had the "bug netting" up around it. Here we are all having a great time and two couples walk by and stop right in front of our tent. One guy looks at us then says to his buddy in a super loud voice

'Now see, you don't get to see that at your local pub down the street do ya?!"

I was like HELLO!!!! What an ass....

-Van

Trace Ekies · 01-27-2008, 10:48 AM

We love it. Watch, don't watch, we don't care. We just like the charge that comes from doing the wild thing with others in attendance.

We are always sure of the environment though. We wouldn't want children or someone who might not enjoy our hobby to get an eyeful.

prettylady · 01-28-2008, 07:23 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by prettylady

Dog has mentioned a few times recently that he would like to be watched by a group of people while we did the nasty. Can't say I am putting up too much of a fuss

Your friend,
Prettylady

We tried doing the nasty in a window room at a club recently.
Lets just say sometimes fantasy is better then reality.
WHY DO PEOPLE NEED TO NARRATE WHAT THEY ARE SEEING!!
Your friend,
Prettylady

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10-07-2007, 01:02 AM	#16 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,250 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? This is something that we both agree on. We don't mind and audience what we both hate is distractions. IOW, if you are going to watch, watch... but don't hang out and have a discussion or pop in and out of the room. Personally, I'd prefer to be in a room where everyone is actively playing... but if you aren't going to actively play at least keep your mouth shut and stay put.

10-07-2007, 08:47 AM	#17 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,187 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple SLS Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 31	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? Our thoughts on this are no lookie loos. If you have no intention of playing we are not the free porn show. I like Vegas Lee's hospitality suite rules at the Lifestyle conventions that you must be naked to enter the suite. That really cuts down on the tourists. Ted __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

10-07-2007, 11:55 AM	#18 (permalink)
sexcupid Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 875 Location: San Antonio Status: couple/f SLS Name:sexcupid Blog Entries: 3	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? This may sound contradictory given my other posts...but I love being watched, or even the thought of being watched (ie: we go to the big play room at the club and start having at it). But only with my boyfriend. If I am with a swing partner, I prefer separate room so I can concentrate on what we are doing. With that being said, if Jeff and I are having sex with other people watching, I probably won't have an orgasm (just like with same room sex)...it is distracting, but it's still very hot to me. It's one of the reasons we like going to the lake and getting naked, I like to be looked at some times. Jeff likes looking and to a lesser extent being looked at, however...he is his own best advertisement when we go to the playroom and are still going and going after other groups have played, taken a break and come back to the room for round 2. Maria

10-07-2007, 02:02 PM	#19 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 767 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? We don't mind being watched, but no camberas. Like last post, we don't mind being watched when it is just him and I, but in a group, just the people that are involved in the group will do. Just like Julie, we don't need the background shuffling or comments.

10-07-2007, 02:26 PM	#20 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? Im not an exhibitionist at all by nature. Sometimes I get a wild hair up my behind (or perhaps its the red wine lol) and I'll be this way...but typically I'm more of a private person. I will open up 10 times faster if I am in a more private setting than in public. Shelly __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

10-09-2007, 08:56 AM	#21 (permalink)
sweettn Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 16 Location: Johnson City, Tennessee Status: Couple	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? I'm an exhibitionist, and he is most definitely a voyeur. So far my "audience" has only been him, so I don't know for sure if I'm comfortable with others "just watching" yet... if they were in the mix I probably wouldn't mind. And we have no problem with pictures and videos being taken.

11-04-2007, 01:53 PM	#22 (permalink)
prettylady anything boys can do.... Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 1,751 Location: Utopia Status: Trouble maker SLS Name:playtoys69 Blog Entries: 1	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? Dog has mentioned a few times recently that he would like to be watched by a group of people while we did the nasty. Can't say I am putting up too much of a fuss Your friend, Prettylady __________________ To love oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance.

11-04-2007, 08:59 PM	#23 (permalink)
sweet_tna Being good is overrated Join Date: Sep 2007 Posts: 2,921 Location: Poconos, PA Status: The boss of Mr. Sweet SLS Name:Sweet_tna	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? While I don't mind if others watch us, I don't get off on it, per se. And I 'd really prefer that the audience didn't sit there fully dressed discussing my "noises"--it's really distracting. Do we like to watch? Fair is fair: if I'm watching, it's only the occasional glance while I'm otherwise occupied. ~Mrs. Sweet =) __________________ I'd rather go to hell for doing something I enjoyed than die wondering what it's like.

11-07-2007, 05:00 PM	#24 (permalink)
htscpl Registered Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 4 Location: Houston Texas Status: Couple	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? Hey, being watched is part of the fun! We like being watched almost as much as we like to watch!

01-24-2008, 12:00 PM	#26 (permalink)
PublicBJ Registered Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 3 Location: USA	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? We've done this a few times, out in some clubs in Vegas. Not huge crowds around us, as that would be a little intimidating, but a few people around us. Most memorable was all-star weekend last year, where I "manned the bobsled" down on the bottom floor of the Green Door. Plenty of looky loos there. It's definately been a fantasy of mine, and the wife gets a bit turned on by it. (I don't think she ever thought she would be, but has found it to be.)

01-24-2008, 07:39 PM	#27 (permalink)
curious_2for2 seeking illusive O's Join Date: Oct 2006 Posts: 17 Location: w. illinois Status: couple	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? We don't mind being watched, but please be polite. We've had the experience of couples around us, dressed, watching us and having some non-LS conversations. We're not interested in your dog, or what you had for dinner last week, or what your best friend said at work. I 've used the line... "move along please, nothing to see here". OTOH, we really enjoy watching another couple or moresome in the group room. The sights, sounds and aroma of ardor are distinct turn ons that add to the pleasures of the experience. Ya get what ya give! C2for2

01-25-2008, 05:13 PM	#28 (permalink)
VanHlebar a.k.a. Stifler Join Date: Jan 2006 Posts: 549 Location: Cincinnati Status: Married Male SLS Name:MrMrsVanHlebar	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? We don't mind being watched and actually one of our local clubs that we goto the main play area is really more of a public play loft than anything else. It has around 10-12 beds upstairs and it is all open. You can only go up there if you are a couple or a single lady and you must be naked if you go up. We play up there almost every time we are at the club. Either just MrsVan and I or with another couple. At this club I actually can't think of a time where we have used any of the play rooms. With this setup it is usually ok because everyone else is up there playing also or has been and are finished and just enjoying the show. For the most part everyone has always been quiet and respectful while in the loft. Now we have been to a couple of other clubs and this was not the case. I agree with Julie here, if I am in a public play area and you want to watch fine, but be polite about it. One time MrsVan and I where at a club and we where playing with a single guy in the public area. The place we had choose was kind of a tent and it had the "bug netting" up around it. Here we are all having a great time and two couples walk by and stop right in front of our tent. One guy looks at us then says to his buddy in a super loud voice 'Now see, you don't get to see that at your local pub down the street do ya?!" I was like HELLO!!!! What an ass.... -Van

01-27-2008, 10:48 AM	#29 (permalink)
Trace Ekies Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 137 Location: Central Florida Status: Couple	Re: How much of an exhibitionist are you (both)? We love it. Watch, don't watch, we don't care. We just like the charge that comes from doing the wild thing with others in attendance. We are always sure of the environment though. We wouldn't want children or someone who might not enjoy our hobby to get an eyeful.

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