how and where did you meet your partner?

**TNT** · 06-04-2003, 01:19 PM

Ted and I were both in diapers when we first met.

I know this because my mother told me he was the scrawiness thing she had ever seen (yes, my mother changed my husband's diapers, lol) and if she had known then how much trouble he was going to cause her she would have pinched his head off, lol (she now loves him more than she does me sometimes as she always takes his side in everything). His father told me the first time he ever saw me all I had on was a diaper.

The earilest memory I have of Ted is going to his house when I was 5 or 6 and our mothers telling us to go to the bedroom and play...I came out and told my mother all they had were dump trucks to play with, no dolls at all. She told us to take the trucks outside and play in the dirt, which we did.

It was a few years later we became good friends and have been together ever since. You could definitely say we are lifelong friends and true soulmates.

Teresa

JMR · 06-04-2003, 09:47 PM

We met at work.

I was in a relationship that was quickly going downhill and he had recently been divorced. After work, a bunch of us would go to the bar that was across the street and hang out. We got to know each other better and better. One day, I came into work upset and he noticed. He asked me what was wrong and I told him, but then I had to punch in and get to work. We talked during our break and we had a lot in commen. We both tried our hardest to make our relationships work and we both had a child. About a month later, I got in a huge fight with my son's father, I packed mine and my son's stuff up and we left. I went to his apartment and I have been with him ever since. This was in July of 2000. We got married in April 2001 and we have added an addition to our family in March 2002.

teknurse · 06-08-2003, 12:32 PM

We met at a biker bar. He was with another woman and I asked him to shoot a game of pool with me. He shot the 8 ball in on the break and later he left the bar with me. We were married six months later and will celebrate our 14th anniversary this month. I love him more everyday and believe love at first sight is a wonderful thing.

Yummi · 06-08-2003, 08:07 PM

Okay, this is gonna sound really bad....but my husband was my ex's best friend. Ahem...they are not best friends anymore, but believe it or not, they do still talk occasionally. Anyways, it must have been the right thing to do 'cause we're still together 8 yrs. later w/ two awesome kids!

Roxysbayou · 06-08-2003, 08:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Yummi
Okay, this is gonna sound really bad....but my husband was my ex's best friend. Ahem...they are not best friends anymore, but believe it or not, they do still talk occasionally. Anyways, it must have been the right thing to do 'cause we're still together 8 yrs. later w/ two awesome kids!

Some things are just meant to be.

Chris&Amelia · 06-09-2003, 06:10 AM

We were both in the Army at the time. I was a Combat Medic and she was a Nurse. We were both stationed in Hawaii at the time.

Lorrie · 10-08-2003, 10:08 PM

Via the Internet; on a non-sexual message board. We found we had A LOT in common...so we became a couple. We are best friends and Primary Lovers.

yawanna · 10-08-2003, 10:34 PM

via a swingers' chat room and then in person at a swinger club......he wishes he could tell family that the first night he met me, I said

'here.....hold my shirt' while I stripped it off to go get a body shot

Married 5 months now and dead in love

519Couple · 10-08-2003, 11:10 PM

...at an amusement park. We were both attending something called a "Video Dance Party" - it was the early 80's after all!

She was 13 and I was 16. She looked about 17 or 18 (she was the proverbial early bloomer!), so thinking she was older than me, I wasn't going to bring up our ages. She saw that I had a car, so she KNEW I was older than she was, therefore she didnt want to discuss our age. We dated for 8 months before we told each other how old we were!

Great thread - it really brings back some happy memories!

Miss_Piggy · 10-11-2003, 11:55 AM

I'm with my highschool sweet heart and have been for almost 5 years.

DeesireCpl · 10-16-2003, 05:20 PM

When I first entered the Swinger's Lifestyle I was in a 17 year marriage. Hubby and I met in the music business. We needed some spice and the lifestyle provided that for the both of us however unfortunately our marriage just wasn't right for us to be happy so we separated. Now on the good side I started dating my best friend and confidant /boy toy !! and we have been together ever since we have been thinking about getting serious with each other for sometime now ...we both seem to want to be in this relationship for the long haul. We have been dating for 3 1/2 years. So relationships can work in the lifestyle it's actually 100% harder for us ...because we have to learn how to be a normal dating couple without trying to pick up everyone on a date lmao !!

It's kind of like starting at the end of a movie and working your way back to understand it. The sex is great , openess is there , trust is in place but ....the normal dating takes work ...the movies at the theatre , dinners at restaurants , and hand in hand in the park... takes practice not to through in a couple or hot bi lady !!!

People ask me all the time would I re-marry and yes I would marriage is great ....everyone needs a companion in life to grow old with .....it's all good

I wish all the married lifestyle couples long and happy marriages!!
And to those who met in the lifestyle I know it takes work but hey it's worth it.
Love Deesire

Elusive BiFem · 10-16-2003, 06:00 PM

I really like your analogy, Deesire...

It's kind of like starting at the end of a movie and working your way back to understand it.

I've thought and tried to say this same thing on many occasions...talking about becoming friends as well as swing partners...and never could find the right words to explain. Mind if I borrow them?

- EBF

AlaskaFunCpl · 10-16-2003, 07:43 PM

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Originally posted by RnLinohio
Finally he decided to ask my dad f he could marry me (I was 17 and the baby of the family). Well my parents said yes (mom said they only said yes, because if they hadn't, i would have found a way to do it anyways). L always said that if they would have told him no, he would have waited until they said yes. We have been Married 13 yrs and 1 month tomorrow, and i couldn't think of it any other way. Robin

Robin,
This is such a cool story, not because it's awesome but because it will basically be MY STORY in 3 more years

Hubby and I were high school sweeties, he joined the military convienced the military woud send him back to his love *ahem, me!* in NC. I grew up an army brat and knew better. Got done with Basic and found out he was getting stationed in TX. He came home after basic and he asked my parents to marry me. I was 17 and in the 11th grade. We got married on October 20, 1993 and will celebrate 10 years of marriage in just 4 days!!! We've had some rough spots but we're still together and totally in love! He moved to TX 2 days after we got married (some other training for the military) I went back to high school. I was sick one day and went to the office to "check out" they said they'd have to call my parents. I had already moved out (before we got married) and was living with a friend and her family and told them I was married and that they didn't need to call my parents. They said state law required them to call my hubby, I gave them the number and said ok, but when he gets on the line I wanna say hi too. They noticed it was long distance and excused me from school.

I'm not sure which was more fun...everyone guessing when "the baby was due" (when I WASN'T pregnant!) or telling the principal I wanted to talk on the school's phone bill

We actually didn't have kids for over 2 years (to everyones amazement!!) and would drive from TX to NC (home for us) for just a 3 day weekend because we were young, in love and home sick and our TINY box of a car would only cost us 50.00 in gas ROUND TRIP

AHHH memories!!

angihay · 10-17-2003, 05:39 AM

Ours is sort of a unique story, we think anyway. When I was 8 mths pregnant I moved with my family to another area. The father of the baby had taken off months before I was 19 years old. I decided to put an ad in our local newspaper in the personals to meet friends ect. in the area. I wasn't kinding myself thinking who was going to want to date an 8th month preganant 19 year old with an obvious history here lol. One of the guys who answered the ad I almost didn't answer back, had met alot of jerks only wanting sex which i obviously didn't need much at that point. Then I decided what the hell and called him back. Turns out he lived to streets away from me. He was actually in the delivery room when my child was born. We married 10 months later. Been together 10 years now and it's going great.

DeesireCpl · 10-17-2003, 08:40 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Elusive BiFem
I really like your analogy, Deesire...

It's kind of like starting at the end of a movie and working your way back to understand it.

I've thought and tried to say this same thing on many occasions...talking about becoming friends as well as swing partners...and never could find the right words to explain. Mind if I borrow them?

- EBF

Yes hun please do and I am glad you appreciate my analogy!!

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06-04-2003, 01:19 PM	#91 (permalink)
TNT Julie's Helper Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 4,187 Location: baker, fl, usa Status: couple SLS Name:tblonde312 Blog Entries: 31	Ted and I were both in diapers when we first met. I know this because my mother told me he was the scrawiness thing she had ever seen (yes, my mother changed my husband's diapers, lol) and if she had known then how much trouble he was going to cause her she would have pinched his head off, lol (she now loves him more than she does me sometimes as she always takes his side in everything). His father told me the first time he ever saw me all I had on was a diaper. The earilest memory I have of Ted is going to his house when I was 5 or 6 and our mothers telling us to go to the bedroom and play...I came out and told my mother all they had were dump trucks to play with, no dolls at all. She told us to take the trucks outside and play in the dirt, which we did. It was a few years later we became good friends and have been together ever since. You could definitely say we are lifelong friends and true soulmates. Teresa __________________ Ted and Teresa No lifetime is enough unless you live it in such a way as to make it enough.

06-04-2003, 09:47 PM	#92 (permalink)
JMR Here to Stay Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 88 Location: michigan Status: married	We met at work. I was in a relationship that was quickly going downhill and he had recently been divorced. After work, a bunch of us would go to the bar that was across the street and hang out. We got to know each other better and better. One day, I came into work upset and he noticed. He asked me what was wrong and I told him, but then I had to punch in and get to work. We talked during our break and we had a lot in commen. We both tried our hardest to make our relationships work and we both had a child. About a month later, I got in a huge fight with my son's father, I packed mine and my son's stuff up and we left. I went to his apartment and I have been with him ever since. This was in July of 2000. We got married in April 2001 and we have added an addition to our family in March 2002. __________________ If your gonna Play atleast Play HARD!!!

06-09-2003, 06:10 AM	#96 (permalink)
Chris&Amelia Don't poke an eye out! Join Date: Aug 2001 Posts: 1,441 Location: Pennsylvania - The Poconos Status: The C of C&A SLS Name:PA_Panache	We were both in the Army at the time. I was a Combat Medic and she was a Nurse. We were both stationed in Hawaii at the time. __________________ "May God be with you."

10-08-2003, 10:08 PM	#97 (permalink)
Lorrie Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 282 Location: Manhattan, NY USA Status: Cock Sucking/Cum Swallowing Expert	Via the Internet; on a non-sexual message board. We found we had A LOT in common...so we became a couple. We are best friends and Primary Lovers. __________________ Lorrie Flash If it feels right--DO IT. "The unexamined life is not worth living." -- Socrates (469-399 B.C.)

06-08-2003, 12:32 PM	#93 (permalink)
teknurse Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2003 Posts: 125 Location: Lancaster, PA Status: Couple	We met at a biker bar. He was with another woman and I asked him to shoot a game of pool with me. He shot the 8 ball in on the break and later he left the bar with me. We were married six months later and will celebrate our 14th anniversary this month. I love him more everyday and believe love at first sight is a wonderful thing.

06-08-2003, 08:07 PM	#94 (permalink)
Yummi Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2002 Posts: 113 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: M.Female	Okay, this is gonna sound really bad....but my husband was my ex's best friend. Ahem...they are not best friends anymore, but believe it or not, they do still talk occasionally. Anyways, it must have been the right thing to do 'cause we're still together 8 yrs. later w/ two awesome kids!

10-08-2003, 10:34 PM	#98 (permalink)
yawanna Has Left the Building Join Date: Jul 2003 Posts: 1,176 Location: Canada Status: married female	via a swingers' chat room and then in person at a swinger club......he wishes he could tell family that the first night he met me, I said 'here.....hold my shirt' while I stripped it off to go get a body shot Married 5 months now and dead in love

10-08-2003, 11:10 PM	#99 (permalink)
519Couple Active Member Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 43 Location: Vancouver, BC Status: Couple	Where did we meet? ...at an amusement park. We were both attending something called a "Video Dance Party" - it was the early 80's after all! She was 13 and I was 16. She looked about 17 or 18 (she was the proverbial early bloomer!), so thinking she was older than me, I wasn't going to bring up our ages. She saw that I had a car, so she KNEW I was older than she was, therefore she didnt want to discuss our age. We dated for 8 months before we told each other how old we were! Great thread - it really brings back some happy memories!

10-11-2003, 11:55 AM	#100 (permalink)
Miss_Piggy mildly abnormal Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 1,404 Location: Sometimes Canada Status: I'm with Kermit Blog Entries: 2	I'm with my highschool sweet heart and have been for almost 5 years. __________________ I feel that a woman doesn't have to be called 'Ms.' in order to be a woman of her own making. I believe 'Miss' allows moi to be a woman, and my karate can get me anything else

10-16-2003, 05:20 PM	#101 (permalink)
DeesireCpl Flamer/Banned Join Date: Oct 2003 Posts: 78 Location: Can. Status: us	Lifestyle Couple When I first entered the Swinger's Lifestyle I was in a 17 year marriage. Hubby and I met in the music business. We needed some spice and the lifestyle provided that for the both of us however unfortunately our marriage just wasn't right for us to be happy so we separated. Now on the good side I started dating my best friend and confidant /boy toy !! and we have been together ever since we have been thinking about getting serious with each other for sometime now ...we both seem to want to be in this relationship for the long haul. We have been dating for 3 1/2 years. So relationships can work in the lifestyle it's actually 100% harder for us ...because we have to learn how to be a normal dating couple without trying to pick up everyone on a date lmao !! It's kind of like starting at the end of a movie and working your way back to understand it. The sex is great , openess is there , trust is in place but ....the normal dating takes work ...the movies at the theatre , dinners at restaurants , and hand in hand in the park... takes practice not to through in a couple or hot bi lady !!! People ask me all the time would I re-marry and yes I would marriage is great ....everyone needs a companion in life to grow old with .....it's all good I wish all the married lifestyle couples long and happy marriages!! And to those who met in the lifestyle I know it takes work but hey it's worth it. Love Deesire

10-16-2003, 06:00 PM	#102 (permalink)
Elusive BiFem Active Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 3,400 Location: Texas Status: Single Female	I really like your analogy, Deesire... It's kind of like starting at the end of a movie and working your way back to understand it. I've thought and tried to say this same thing on many occasions...talking about becoming friends as well as swing partners...and never could find the right words to explain. Mind if I borrow them? - EBF

10-17-2003, 05:39 AM	#104 (permalink)
angihay Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 124 Location: michigan Status: couple	Ours is sort of a unique story, we think anyway. When I was 8 mths pregnant I moved with my family to another area. The father of the baby had taken off months before I was 19 years old. I decided to put an ad in our local newspaper in the personals to meet friends ect. in the area. I wasn't kinding myself thinking who was going to want to date an 8th month preganant 19 year old with an obvious history here lol. One of the guys who answered the ad I almost didn't answer back, had met alot of jerks only wanting sex which i obviously didn't need much at that point. Then I decided what the hell and called him back. Turns out he lived to streets away from me. He was actually in the delivery room when my child was born. We married 10 months later. Been together 10 years now and it's going great.

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