how and where did you meet your partner?

Mariposa_y_Oso · 01-08-2003, 02:52 PM

We've been together almost 14 years and married for 12 1/2...

Mari and I met when she was a senior in HS and I was a year out of school. I dropped by the school to see some friends (I had been away at college) and I interrupted her drama club rehearsal.

Fortunately, it seems as though she's forgiven me.

Cheers!
~Mike

PS curious24, I'm sorry this doesn't help your situation much. I wouldn't recommend cruising high schools...

BradAndJanet · 01-08-2003, 10:14 PM

J and I met at our 5 year high school reunion. "How's that?", you ask. Well, there were about 700 in our senior class, so it was hard to really know everyone. Now high school wasn't exactly my favorite place, and when the invitation came for the first reunion I wasn't going to go. However, a friend of mine didn't want to go alone and she talked me into going. She ditched me and I ended up at a table with a girl I knew, but didn't much care for, and J, whom I didn't know. To avoid having to talk to the first girl, I started a conversation with J. One thing led to another and here we are 22 years later. We're still friends with the girl who talked me into going and believe me, we thank her often!

-B

bonnie_clyde89 · 01-09-2003, 02:15 AM

we are high school sweethearts, so we met when we were young and foolish..
Ok maybe just young-- were still are foolish!!

ciscosv · 01-09-2003, 09:32 AM

At a mutual friends party.

DragonsLair · 01-09-2003, 10:21 AM

Curious24,

I don't know if any of this has helped you figure out where you can look for someone, but I have enjoyed this topic so much. I love learning how other couples met too.

But one thing should be becoming obvious, there is no one place in particular that people meet. And you usually meet that special person when you're not looking.

Do the things you like to do. That way you're around like minded people. There's bound to be single women doing the same activities. And relax, when the timing is right, she'll come along.

Best of luck.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

Darcy4U · 01-09-2003, 06:14 PM

I just spent 1 hour writing a letter to this question and heard a "goodbye". So all was lost! I met my husband in a bar and instantly in lust. married for 11 years..not all happily. I am a very sexual person and sure doesnt seem to happen at home.I have had more "encounters" that shouldn't be nessesary(?)if he "rammed it home" more often I would have a bigger smile on my face. So yeah, i am one of those single (but married)women you hear about..horny as all get out.

curious24 · 01-09-2003, 07:49 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Mariposa_y_Oso
PS curious24, I'm sorry this doesn't help your situation much. I wouldn't recommend cruising high schools...

haha... that is really funny...

but that's why i never go to the mall (well that and i dislike the mall a lot) but now a days a 13 year old girl can look like she's 20 or older.. it's really scarry..

curious24 · 01-09-2003, 07:51 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by DragonsLair
Curious24,

I don't know if any of this has helped you figure out where you can look for someone, but I have enjoyed this topic so much. I love learning how other couples met too.

But one thing should be becoming obvious, there is no one place in particular that people meet. And you usually meet that special person when you're not looking.

Do the things you like to do. That way you're around like minded people. There's bound to be single women doing the same activities. And relax, when the timing is right, she'll come along.

Best of luck.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

i've really enjoyed hearing about it too! that's one of the reasons why i started the thread..

but i think i'm getting to the point that if i see a woman i would like to talk too.. no matter what she's doing i'm just going to approach her and say hi..

hmmm.. wonder if that would freak a lot of them out? hmmm...

DragonsLair · 01-09-2003, 08:04 PM

Probably not unless you haven't showered for a few days, have a wild look in your eyes and are acting crazy.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

RnKin Fla · 01-09-2003, 08:38 PM

R and I met at a mutual friend's wedding shower. I saw him sitting in a black leather chair and fell instantly in lust.

(With him, not the chair.)

DragonsLair · 01-09-2003, 09:01 PM

lol Thank you for clarifying that one, K.

DragonsLair

He is T. I am A.

NotsoNew · 01-09-2003, 10:58 PM

My husband and I met in 1st grade. Went to school together through a good part of high school and were friends. Lost touch as you often do with high school friends. Anyway, I ran into him again when he was a room mate with a friend of mine and my sister's boyfriend (now husband). This was 10 years out of high school.

Since we met again, have been together 10 years, married almost 7 years. Sometimes the person that you were destined to be with you have known for most of your life...

haswa · 01-10-2003, 12:00 PM

We met in a small cafe in Harvard Square. That's the place you want to try.

Gwendolyn · 01-10-2003, 09:24 PM

My husband and I both worked for the same company in different cities. I went to San Francisco to take a class. He was my instructor. We are both network engineers. I only say this because he wasn't used to having some blonde haired blue eyed knockout (his words) walking into his class. I was staying at my sisters house which is about 30 miles from SF. Of course being the nice guy that he is, (yeah right he wanted to get laid)

he offered to let me stay with him in the city. I took one look and thought "hmmm he looks like fun". I stayed with him and had the best sex I'd had up to that point in my life and decided I should keep him. 4 years later things are still wonderful.

p_cnaz · 01-10-2003, 11:04 PM

We met at a drive in movie 26 years ago....I was there with my sister and a friend and hubby was there with 3 army friends...the movie playing was a horror show and sense hubby doesn't like horror movies he told the other guy's he would agree but they had to park next to a carload of women....lol

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01-08-2003, 02:52 PM	#16 (permalink)
Mariposa_y_Oso Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 76 Location: El Paso, TX Status: Married Couple	We've been together almost 14 years and married for 12 1/2... Mari and I met when she was a senior in HS and I was a year out of school. I dropped by the school to see some friends (I had been away at college) and I interrupted her drama club rehearsal. Fortunately, it seems as though she's forgiven me. Cheers! ~Mike PS curious24, I'm sorry this doesn't help your situation much. I wouldn't recommend cruising high schools... __________________ "Morality is your agreement with yourself to abide by your own rules."

01-08-2003, 10:14 PM	#17 (permalink)
BradAndJanet Only slightly cracked... Join Date: Jul 2001 Posts: 7,071 Location: Seattle Status: Married Couple	J and I met at our 5 year high school reunion. "How's that?", you ask. Well, there were about 700 in our senior class, so it was hard to really know everyone. Now high school wasn't exactly my favorite place, and when the invitation came for the first reunion I wasn't going to go. However, a friend of mine didn't want to go alone and she talked me into going. She ditched me and I ended up at a table with a girl I knew, but didn't much care for, and J, whom I didn't know. To avoid having to talk to the first girl, I started a conversation with J. One thing led to another and here we are 22 years later. We're still friends with the girl who talked me into going and believe me, we thank her often! -B __________________ "If you tell the truth, you don't have to remember anything." - Mark Twain All about us...

01-09-2003, 09:32 AM	#19 (permalink)
ciscosv Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2002 Posts: 750 Location: Redford, Michigan Status: Married Couple	At a mutual friends party. __________________ M&M Melts in your mouth, not in your hand

01-09-2003, 10:21 AM	#20 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	Great topic Curious24, I don't know if any of this has helped you figure out where you can look for someone, but I have enjoyed this topic so much. I love learning how other couples met too. But one thing should be becoming obvious, there is no one place in particular that people meet. And you usually meet that special person when you're not looking. Do the things you like to do. That way you're around like minded people. There's bound to be single women doing the same activities. And relax, when the timing is right, she'll come along. Best of luck. DragonsLair He is T. I am A.

01-09-2003, 02:15 AM	#18 (permalink)
bonnie_clyde89 Active Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 11 Location: Portland, Oregon Status: Couple	we are high school sweethearts, so we met when we were young and foolish.. Ok maybe just young-- were still are foolish!!

01-09-2003, 06:14 PM	#21 (permalink)
Darcy4U Registered Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 3 Location: fort wayne Status: female	I just spent 1 hour writing a letter to this question and heard a "goodbye". So all was lost! I met my husband in a bar and instantly in lust. married for 11 years..not all happily. I am a very sexual person and sure doesnt seem to happen at home.I have had more "encounters" that shouldn't be nessesary(?)if he "rammed it home" more often I would have a bigger smile on my face. So yeah, i am one of those single (but married)women you hear about..horny as all get out.

01-09-2003, 08:04 PM	#24 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	Probably not unless you haven't showered for a few days, have a wild look in your eyes and are acting crazy. DragonsLair He is T. I am A.

01-09-2003, 08:38 PM	#25 (permalink)
RnKin Fla Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2002 Posts: 201 Location: North Florida Status: Couple	R and I met at a mutual friend's wedding shower. I saw him sitting in a black leather chair and fell instantly in lust. (With him, not the chair.) __________________ We like to do things a little differently...

01-09-2003, 09:01 PM	#26 (permalink)
DragonsLair Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2001 Posts: 1,020 Location: Cleveland, OH Status: Married Couple	lol Thank you for clarifying that one, K. DragonsLair He is T. I am A.

01-09-2003, 10:58 PM	#27 (permalink)
NotsoNew Active Member Join Date: Aug 2002 Posts: 392 Location: MD Status: Couple SLS Name:newbies123	My husband and I met in 1st grade. Went to school together through a good part of high school and were friends. Lost touch as you often do with high school friends. Anyway, I ran into him again when he was a room mate with a friend of mine and my sister's boyfriend (now husband). This was 10 years out of high school. Since we met again, have been together 10 years, married almost 7 years. Sometimes the person that you were destined to be with you have known for most of your life...

01-10-2003, 12:00 PM	#28 (permalink)
haswa Registered Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 8 Location: D.C., NYC, & San Diego Status: couple	We met in a small cafe in Harvard Square. That's the place you want to try.

01-10-2003, 09:24 PM	#29 (permalink)
Gwendolyn Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 50 Location: Las Vegas Status: M. Female	My husband and I both worked for the same company in different cities. I went to San Francisco to take a class. He was my instructor. We are both network engineers. I only say this because he wasn't used to having some blonde haired blue eyed knockout (his words) walking into his class. I was staying at my sisters house which is about 30 miles from SF. Of course being the nice guy that he is, (yeah right he wanted to get laid) he offered to let me stay with him in the city. I took one look and thought "hmmm he looks like fun". I stayed with him and had the best sex I'd had up to that point in my life and decided I should keep him. 4 years later things are still wonderful.

01-10-2003, 11:04 PM	#30 (permalink)
p_cnaz Active Member Join Date: Jan 2003 Posts: 33 Location: Flagstaff, AZ Status: couple	We met at a drive in movie 26 years ago....I was there with my sister and a friend and hubby was there with 3 army friends...the movie playing was a horror show and sense hubby doesn't like horror movies he told the other guy's he would agree but they had to park next to a carload of women....lol __________________ P&C

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