Did You Start Swinging Before Or After You Were In A Committed Relationship?

flkeyscouple · 11-06-2006, 02:28 PM

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Originally Posted by xxoticangel

I lost my virginity at 14 to my boyfriend in a room with several other couples engaged in various sex acts. My best friend actually held my hand and talked me through the entire expierence. All the way through high school my clique never "dated" anyone special. We just all hooked up on Friday and Saturday (and sometimes after school). We would hang out, swim in the summer, go 4-wheeling, etc. then have sex with each other. No body was shy and no body was ever left out. If there was an odd number someone just had a 3sum. Some of my clique actually paired off and married after h.s. all but one couple is divorced. A good friend that I still keep in touch with is still married to one of the guys from the group.

WOW! What high school did you attend? I was sexually active in high school, but NOTHING like this! Actually, I wish I had known then what I know now - except that at that time I hadn't met Roger yet... and I wouldn't want to be active without him!

But wow - what memories you must have!! facelick

Sarah

xxoticangel · 11-06-2006, 03:23 PM

It was a small rural school in northern AL, near TN. It was fun and interesting now that I'm an adult but at the time there was just nothing else to do. We were 60 miles from the closest town of any size and bored. Getting high and drunk and having sex was basically a way to pass the time. One of the guys in my group was 17 and had quit school. He had a job and a two bedroom trailer that everyone hung out at.

Edison Carter · 11-06-2006, 04:00 PM

Susan here--At 30, what began as one-on-one sex with a single friend, evolved into a mfmf foursome with single friends, which involved into fmf and mfm threesomes with the same friends, married friends and more. This lead to sixsome weekends and one really crazy event (see swingersboard.com for the stories) Edison knew that I had sexually experimented before and I was ready to say goodbye to it. Then he said,"I realize this is an important part of your life. Not THE part, but an important part. I may only try it once, but I'll try it." I arranged what would be a weekend sixsome of three men and three women with longtime friends of mine. Edison got a very prompt introduction seeing me stripped down and on all fours in an mfm in short order. Well, in no time at all he was in his own fmf and we never looked back. He took to it like a duck to water.

VanHlebar · 11-06-2006, 04:10 PM

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Originally Posted by Edison Carter

I arranged what would be a weekend sixsome of three men and three women with longtime friends of mine. Edison got a very prompt introduction seeing me stripped down and on all fours in an mfm in short order. Well, in no time at all he was in his own fmf and we never looked back. He took to it like a duck to water.

WOW

I know how I reacted seeing MrsVan for the 1st time with me and another guy...I don't know if I could have handled that as my introduction!

Glad it worked out so well for you guys though..

-Van

Edison Carter · 11-06-2006, 04:17 PM

Well, I had told him about everything, in vast detail, about my group expereinces. I also told him how that particular evening would start and he already knew Michael and Tom as friends of mine. Of course talk is talk, reality is different.

Edison explained it this way,"I look over and there you are being stripped naked, then on all fours and then, quite lovingly I might add, they started fucking you and you were happy, they were really happy and I thought,'yep, that's my happy wife,' I then had sex with two women. It was a good day...."

Tia Vampire · 11-06-2006, 06:33 PM

It was something that the both of us wanted to do, but i didn't want it to be with my fiance. I love him and didn't want to share him with a stranger. His sex drive is way higher than mine, so we both decided it would be a great idea.

ShellyM · 11-06-2006, 06:42 PM

We were married for 15 years when we first talked about swinging.

**Alura** · 11-06-2006, 06:55 PM

In a way, Mrs. Alura and I had our first "swinging experience" on our second date. We met a couple in a restaurant in Germany and were invited back to their apartment. It turned out they were swingers trying to seduce up but we really didn't know each other well enough to jump right into it without talking about it first. We did, however, end up with four naked people on their bed giving each other massages.

In the car, on the way back to Mrs. Alura's apartment, we talked about the idea and found out we both wished we had gone for it and next time we would.

It was about three years and 5,000 miles later that we had sex with another couple.

Mr. Alura

***JustAskJulie*** · 11-11-2008, 01:38 PM

I had a couple of close calls (threesomes that didn't happen) before I was in the committed relationship that eventually introduced me to swinging. The situation that comes to mind I don't think anyone but the guy was really thinking "threesome"... both myself and the other girl wanted the guy.

MrkLin · 11-11-2008, 05:25 PM

We got into it after we had been married for a few years. Next week I'll post the whole story in our blog.

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View Poll Results: What did you do first: experiment with group sex or enter a committed relationship?
I/We haven't had our first experience yet.	14	16.87%
My/Our first group sex experience was after I/we had first been in a committed relationship.	51	61.45%
One or both of us experimented with group sex before we entered into our first committed relationship.	18	21.69%
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11-06-2006, 03:23 PM	#17 (permalink)
xxoticangel Hot and Horny in ATL Join Date: Jun 2004 Posts: 362 Location: Atlanta, GA Status: Couple SLS Name:xxoticangel	Re: Did You Start Swinging Before Or After You Were In A Committed Relationship? It was a small rural school in northern AL, near TN. It was fun and interesting now that I'm an adult but at the time there was just nothing else to do. We were 60 miles from the closest town of any size and bored. Getting high and drunk and having sex was basically a way to pass the time. One of the guys in my group was 17 and had quit school. He had a job and a two bedroom trailer that everyone hung out at. __________________ Multiple orgasms are proof that God is a woman.

11-06-2006, 04:00 PM	#18 (permalink)
Edison Carter Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 412 Location: Bloomington, Il Status: Couple SLS Name:EdisonCarter Blog Entries: 1	Re: Did You Start Swinging Before Or After You Were In A Committed Relationship? Susan here--At 30, what began as one-on-one sex with a single friend, evolved into a mfmf foursome with single friends, which involved into fmf and mfm threesomes with the same friends, married friends and more. This lead to sixsome weekends and one really crazy event (see swingersboard.com for the stories) Edison knew that I had sexually experimented before and I was ready to say goodbye to it. Then he said,"I realize this is an important part of your life. Not THE part, but an important part. I may only try it once, but I'll try it." I arranged what would be a weekend sixsome of three men and three women with longtime friends of mine. Edison got a very prompt introduction seeing me stripped down and on all fours in an mfm in short order. Well, in no time at all he was in his own fmf and we never looked back. He took to it like a duck to water.

11-06-2006, 04:17 PM	#20 (permalink)
Edison Carter Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Oct 2005 Posts: 412 Location: Bloomington, Il Status: Couple SLS Name:EdisonCarter Blog Entries: 1	Re: Did You Start Swinging Before Or After You Were In A Committed Relationship? Well, I had told him about everything, in vast detail, about my group expereinces. I also told him how that particular evening would start and he already knew Michael and Tom as friends of mine. Of course talk is talk, reality is different. Edison explained it this way,"I look over and there you are being stripped naked, then on all fours and then, quite lovingly I might add, they started fucking you and you were happy, they were really happy and I thought,'yep, that's my happy wife,' I then had sex with two women. It was a good day...."

11-06-2006, 06:33 PM	#21 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 767 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	Re: Did You Start Swinging Before Or After You Were In A Committed Relationship? It was something that the both of us wanted to do, but i didn't want it to be with my fiance. I love him and didn't want to share him with a stranger. His sex drive is way higher than mine, so we both decided it would be a great idea.

11-06-2006, 06:42 PM	#22 (permalink)
ShellyM Jay's Bumper Buddy Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 2,299 Location: San Marcos, TEXAS Status: On the prowl for man meat SLS Name:lost_j1	Re: Did You Start Swinging Before Or After You Were In A Committed Relationship? We were married for 15 years when we first talked about swinging. __________________ Merry Christmas and a Ho Ho Ho Shelly

11-06-2006, 06:55 PM	#23 (permalink)
Alura T-Town Playmates Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,122 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Married to Mrs. Alura	Re: Did You Start Swinging Before Or After You Were In A Committed Relationship? In a way, Mrs. Alura and I had our first "swinging experience" on our second date. We met a couple in a restaurant in Germany and were invited back to their apartment. It turned out they were swingers trying to seduce up but we really didn't know each other well enough to jump right into it without talking about it first. We did, however, end up with four naked people on their bed giving each other massages. In the car, on the way back to Mrs. Alura's apartment, we talked about the idea and found out we both wished we had gone for it and next time we would. It was about three years and 5,000 miles later that we had sex with another couple. Mr. Alura __________________ "They may call me a rube and a hick, but I'd a lot rather be the man who bought the Brooklyn Bridge than the man who sold it." —Will Rogers

11-11-2008, 01:38 PM	#24 (permalink)
*JustAskJulie* Your Hostess Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 22,250 Location: Alabama Status: Female SLS Name:swingersboard Blog Entries: 59	Re: Did You Start Swinging Before Or After You Were In A Committed Relationship? I had a couple of close calls (threesomes that didn't happen) before I was in the committed relationship that eventually introduced me to swinging. The situation that comes to mind I don't think anyone but the guy was really thinking "threesome"... both myself and the other girl wanted the guy.

11-11-2008, 05:25 PM	#25 (permalink)
MrkLin Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2005 Posts: 178 Location: Northern NV Status: Couple SLS Name:mrklin Blog Entries: 6	Re: Did You Start Swinging Before Or After You Were In A Committed Relationship? We got into it after we had been married for a few years. Next week I'll post the whole story in our blog. __________________ Sometimes we all need to just relax and have a drink...

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