What Makes You Hot

[sinc]

I TRY THIS AGAIN . WHICH ONE MAKES YOU MORE HOT FOR SOMEONE MORE OFTEN

[list][*]A HOT BODY AND FACE[*]A KILLER PERSONALITY[*] SOMETHING ELSE. WHAT/



WHICH ONE OF THESE DRAWS YOU TO ANOTHER PERSON SEXUALLY .

[sportync]

It's really hard to put a name on the quality that I find exciting. There are women who are drop-dead georgous, really pretty, strikingly beautiful, cute as a button, and all the things in between, but some women that I've met that would probably be classified as rather plain in the looks department, were just sexy as hell. It was something in their look or attitude that seemed to indicate that they were ready, willing and very able to take you places you've never been before, and that they would enjoy the ride just as much as you. Nice, silky hair and a soft, smooth complexion are definate turn-ons to me. But then again, so is a really nice butt or a perky, up-turned, rosy-nippled pair of young breasts! Sportync

Women who flaunt their sensuality are the most attractive to me. I particularly like women in their 50s who have incredible sex appeal. I find barbie types revolting. I don't like skinny neither. Classic 1950's type body is just right.

Canuckboy

[Flori_DAMAN]

A pulse is mandatory.

Age, weight and looks fall equally below the pulse meter.

Primarily, a couple that is at least comfortable with the lifestyle is important.

I have met first time swingers that you "just know" are meant to be there, and many that have been swinging for a number of years that you just know shouldn't be there.

Physical chemistry is a must for us. Ken's and Barbie's usually end up together, not the type that necessarily look like that; but the type that carry themselves like they are unapproachable.

Most party's have several like that and they seem to have fun hanging with each other, and more power to them.

Also, a lot of seemingly "normal", or overweight, unnatractive couples seem to find each other too.

Everyone has their own redeeming values. I have had sex with people that I would never have had dreamed of having sex with, just because I'm in the lifestyle,( I mean I would call them super models), and also some that I would never have dated if single.

But a pulse is mandatory. John.

[Regularguy]

well...now that you asked! lol

I have trouble stating I have a really nice face when I think I am just average looking although i have really straight white teeth and a nice smile with nice eyes.

As to the personality, one of the things i was told the other day is one of the things attractive about my personality is I am really nive looking but don't act like it. Go figure......

I have been told repeatedly I have a really nice, lean and clean muscular body, and in fairness i cannot disagree there....

I am just fine with people whose faces are just average....just give me a nice smile and a warm laugh on a trim, warm woman and I love it....

[youngish56]

Canuckboy-

Just wanted to take advantage of your reference to "classic 50's body" to mention that Marilyn Monroe would not have been considered "steak" today, but I'd still have been willing to eat a yard of her shit just to see where it came from.

I will now go back to my conservative gentlemanly alter-ego.lol

[youngish56]

Michigancouple-

That requirement of a pulse seems more appropriate for the frozen north. With the warm temperatures of your new home here in Florida, you can hardly tell the difference.lol

I suspect you usually have very high standards for appearance but since your wife has been up north, the "little head" is convincing the "big head" to be less choosy. LOL

Keep warm and we'll try to get together when your wife returns.

[Flori_DAMAN]

LOL,

I'm dreaming of a wet christmas.

I had to discontinue my PPV. Just the ecstasy channel was costing more than my car insurance....and now that you mention it that old lady that walks by here wearing orange pants, a green shirt, a yellow hat pushing the shopping cart full of her daily street collections has been looking awfully hot lately....oh well I'm sure things will cum around soon. Thanks for the kind words and we will take you up on that offer John.

[bimrdcpl]

We have been chatting with a quite a few different people through instant messengers and I tell you what, We dont care if your drop dead georgeous, if you cant hold a conversation and at least make us smile your not in. I can not believe the amount of people out there that think we want to jump into bed with them because there such and such age and are in the gym everyday for 4 hours, but dont know the first thing about getting to know the other couple they are going to be sharing an intimate moment with.

We have also come across people who are not great looking kinda average but were totally hot to us because they had a sense of humor and talked to us. And talk to us about other things than just what we want to do in bed.

So I guess you could say that a killer personality is what is key for us.

Dawn

[Lorrie]

ALWAYS PERSONALITY

[crestviewcpl2]

If I could have a drop dead gorgeous face and body I'd give up every one of the brain cells I was born with. Being told your nice, or smart sucks when you'd rather be beautiful. Seems like the blessed are quicker to say it doesn't matter but then they've never NOT had it. Statistics even show beautiful people have better jobs and more opportunity. I'm sure its that way in the lifestyle also. (any philanthropic plastic surgeons out there I wanna be Sandra Bullock!

[eagleindep]

I get turned on from people who's ok to the eyes(not necessary Ken and Barb) but what's inside that make you feel like they are talking to you not about others and carry a reasonable conversation that's not in left field, and can make you smile. They don't seem to be waiting for a better deal. Personality is it and have a pulse(or you go to jail).

[inbeachcouple]

I kinda look at it as a balancing scale. On one side you have looks, and the other is personality. Someone that looks good but kant carrie awn a con-ver-sation and ain't be too gooder a thinker is a turnoff, but an intelligent, articulate, down to earth with a sense of humor type, that looks like she lives in the roots of an ugly tree isn't gonna do it either. Other than balancing it out, I think there's ALOT in the eyes. Some people just have this spark in their eyes, that , well, ........ gotta go for a bit....

[OhioCouple]

Definitely personality for me!

Mrs. O

[Vespertine]

Originally Posted by OhioCouple

Definitely personality for me!

Mrs. O

Dito to Mrs. O's answer.
Personality is a MUST for me. I can't get physically intimate with someone that doesn't mentally stimulate me. A nice smile and expressive eyes help too!