Would you perform a sexual activity just to please your partner?

[JustMrJ]

I will have to vote with the minority on this. I would not expect her and I would not be expected to 'go through with something' I wasn't really comfortable with just to make her fantasy come true.

She and I have discussions about our fantasies and we know what each of us will and won't do right now.

If another woman wants to do something with me that my wife is uncomfortable with and it's a fantasy of mine, she's alright with that. And... vice-versa.

This rolls back around to that wonderful tool... communication.

[ktimephoenix]

Originally Posted by redeye69

The third thing that i draw the line at is anything illegal. if a partner wanted to experience sex on drugs, wanted to incorporate someone under the age of 18, or whatever, i couldn't do it.

is this the new age of consent in adelade?[/QUOTE]

as far as i know, the actual age of consent is 17, but 18 is definately legal

[cront]

Originally Posted by MrsVan

This is an interesting question...However, I would have to say that I would do almost anything for MrVan facelick ..He knows my limits and what I would be willing to do, however we are in the lifestyle to please each other and if there is something that I can do that would make things more exciting and interesting, you bet I would do it.

MrVan has done so many things for me and to be able to fulfill his fantasies would make happy.

MrsVan

Just want to say that you are pretty attractive ( if that is your photo in your avatar ). I am just really impressed and fascinated by your attractive personality

[Tia Vampire]

Yes, I would do it for my SO. He would like to see me with another woman. I'm alright with it as long as I get to pick her out and she knows and understands that I have limits. I am not willing to eat another woman out or any kind of grinding genital together. Now that is something I will not do for him no matter what.

[lnk4u2]

K here I'm not sure if I would or not. If it is something that I have any interest in at all I might but if there is no interest at all I probably wouldn't. Since we have been married almost 25 years and know each other very well, tell each other our fantasies and have the same feelings about what we don't like to do it wouldn't be a problem.

[nhcpl1968]

Neither of us would ever do S&M, bondage, water sports, etc.

[MN hotdish]

I voted that I would do anything, but have limits.
Now I'm rethinking that, just because I know that my husband would never fantasize about anything that would overstep my comfort zoene...feeling degraded, hurting someone, illegal activity (minus a little herbal toking on occasion), underage playmates, etc. The bottom line is that we truely are on the same page, we share the same values. I'm not syying that we don't have our own thoughts & fantasies that we may keep private from each other. I just don't think that he fantasizes about anything that although it might not me my cup of tea, I couldn't see the beauty in...

[Chris&Amelia]

Part of the best part of swinging (for me at least) is watching Amelia having a great time. As such, I wouldn't ask her to do anything that she wouldn't want to do in the first place, because if she's not having fun, it really takes a lot of the enjoyment out of it for me.

As for me, there are a couple of things that I would flat-out have to say "no" to (and most of these have already been mentioned by prior posters):

* Anything involving bodily fluids other then semen and vaginal fluids (i.e. scat, watersports, "vomit play", etc.)

* Anything involving animals or children in any way.

* Any sort of man-man play with me. (I realize that accidental contact will take place, especially when things start getting busy, but I really have no sexual attraction to other men)

* Any sort of pain other then "light" stuff like bites, nibbling, light scratching with nails, spanking, etc.

* Absolutely no bondage or restraints for Amelia. She's mildly claustrophobic.

[partyof2ormore]

I guess I would have to play it by ear, but about the only thing I WOULDN'T do for my wife is bi-play with another man.

I get turned on by seeing her get turned on. So if she is enjoying herself, I'm most likely going to enjoy it too.

J

[GerdOEvert]

There are different things to do in different places.

For instance, bi guy on guy is frowned on in the clubs, in my experience.

But at home or in a motel room, it is just acceptible.

I have both had oral sex with a guy with my wife and his girlfriend present, and given oral sex. Actually rather sexy to take a stiff cock and try to make it cumm.

If there were not an AIDS Scare, and has been for 20 years, I would like to try being
butt fucked and having a load of cumm deposited, just to see what it feels like.

Tried anal penetration once, and It just did not work. Too tight.

Otto

[exhibi]

I dated a woman that wanted to watch me give another guy a BJ, not my thing, we met half way and I let another guy give me one.. I'd do it again.

[I'm his]

It would depend on the act itself. I do want to please him, but, I have limitations!

[I'm her's]

I don't think I could do something just to please her, though I would be able to find excitement in anything she wanted. When she gets excited I want to reflect that back to her.

[I'm his]

Originally Posted by I'm her's

I don't think I could do something just to please her, though I would be able to find excitement in anything she wanted. When she gets excited I want to reflect that back to her.

Tisk, tisk. But, you did come here wth me, so, ...........

[I'm her's]

There is that baby!