Would you perform a sexual activity just to please your partner?

[good times]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

If your partner asked you to do something because it would turn them on to see it, would you do it just for them? Even if it was something that you had no interest in or that perhaps even repulsed you?

We have discussed this before and decided that no we wouldn't do it. The reasons a pretty much the same as Spoomonkey gave.

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

For instance, if you are straight would you engage in bisexual activities to please your partner (because they wanted to see it)?

This is a good example because Mrs. GT is not Bi and while I'm not really into the girl/girl thing either, if I was, I just don't think it would be exciting for me if I new she was doing it just because I wanted her to.

[WesternSwing]

I think first off that we would never ask each other to do something that we knew the other didn't want to do just to satisfy ourself. But Mrs. WS has done things that we first said we'd only do with each other because I asked her to it with someone else because I wanted to see it. So she wasn't against doing it in the first place at all. Those are just bridges we've crossed and then erased them from our "rules" list.

Mr. WS

[oddcouple2841]

My boyfriend and I are open to almost anything, so I would do something to make him happy and vica versa. There are certain things he wants to try and there are certain things I want to try. If we don't like it, we won't do it and we'll put it in on our "won't do" list.

S

[telly2]

I'm not really into other woman but for him i have played a bit for his viewing plessure. I will admit over time i have gotten a feel for it, and am more willing to try different things.
Chantal

This is an interesting question...However, I would have to say that I would do almost anything for MrVan facelick ..He knows my limits and what I would be willing to do, however we are in the lifestyle to please each other and if there is something that I can do that would make things more exciting and interesting, you bet I would do it.

MrVan has done so many things for me and to be able to fulfill his fantasies would make happy.

MrsVan

[luvscum1]

Just me again,old luvscum
I could have voted twice here.I do most all he wants, And I do please all his friends. I do have a few limits, I use to enjoy anal sex,but have not done that for many years now. He is slowly getting me back into that. I do enjoy anal play,licking , using my tongue,and fingers . So I guess I will enjoy it again soon

[sweet_tna]

I voted that I wouldn't doing anything for Mr. Sweet that I'm not interested in doing myself. Maybe that's selfish of me, but here's the thing. I do enough non-sexual things for Mr. Sweet that I don't necessarily enjoy (like watching hockey or sitting through the NFL draft) because it makes him happy. But sex is a whole 'nother ballgame. We each want to please and see our partner be pleased--that's a huge part of the turn on for us, with swinging or "just us" sex. So why in the world would I want him to do something that isn't going to excite/please him (or he ask that of me)?

Specifically regarding bi play, I only do that because it interests me. Yes, it turns Mr. Sweet on like crazy, but if I weren't enjoying it, then it would do nothing for him.

=)

[celtic239]

I voted just about anything, with limits. I can only think of two things (1) S&M - there is no way I'm going to let someone tie me up and beat the shit out of me and (2) no male on male action.

[cupl4fun]

I think I would try most anything once. I might even try being with a guy once if she Really wanted me to, but then again maybe not. It doesn't appeal to me at all. I wouldn't force myself to do anything and I wouldn't ask her to do anything she didn't want to at least try. Oh yeah and no S&M for either of us.

[ktimephoenix]

I'm willing to try pretty much anything twice, so if Mrs P has an idea, it's generally explored.

I'm not Bisexual, and i would not have sex with a man just to forfil Mrs P's fantasy. i wouldn't be adverse to finding two bisexual men to pleasure Mrs P so she could live out that fantasy (if that was her thing).

I am uncomfortable most of the time with Anal play. not mentally uncomfortable, but physically, it usually is uncomfortable, if not painful for me. there have been the odd occasion when it's felt great, but i wouldn't push my luck by letting Mrs P fuck me with a toy up there... again, if she wants to incorporate a guy into our swing life that is into that, then i have no qualms, but i personally cannot let her physically play that fantasy out on me.

The third thing that i draw the line at is anything illegal. if a partner wanted to experience sex on drugs, wanted to incorporate someone under the age of 18, or whatever, i couldn't do it.

[ktimephoenix]

Originally Posted by celtic239

(1) S&M - there is no way I'm going to let someone tie me up and beat the shit out of me and

That's more Bondage and disipline from my understanding. S&M is more like torture, nipple clamps, pain etc. How about tying someone else up and whipping them? BDSM is like swinging. there are 100's of different aspects to it and ways to do it, so i personally wouldn't discount the entire "lifestyle" based on 1 stereotype... after all, they may have plenty to teach me

[cront]

Originally Posted by Sweetnsassy41

[B][I]

I would do judt about anything to please my partner. I am very open about human sexuality and sexual fantasies.

There are certain things I draw the line at however.. if he were to ask me to:

Shag an animal
Child Porn
Rainbow or Brown Showers,

.... CROP ......

Sweetnsassy41 is right and I completely agree with him. Fulfilling the sexual fantasies of your partner is a good idea as long as it does not destroy the society. Fantasies like child porn and shag an animal do not cam out of a decent man's mind. I don't think so.

When you do those 3 things mentioned by Sweetnsassy41, you become anti-social, you destroy the very basics of society, you show that you are not taking responsibility as a part of this social system which resides on our acts. Swinging is fine as long as you understand each other and the couples involved in swinging understands you while each of you respects your family boundaries. After all every couple has kids and they need good environment to grow.

Swinging is about respect and trust, its not about hurting animals or destroying the lives of kids whether someone's else's or yours and remember, your kids are also the part of this society. May be I am exaggerating a bit but this is what I think and believe and I follow this way of life

[Sico_tiko]

I would do anything to satisfy my partner but i have one limit which is am not a gay so i wont accept male male intercourse at all

[fun4Ds]

I would try many things.

I would think about and concider even more.

I know what lines I won't or can't cross.

[redeye69]

The third thing that i draw the line at is anything illegal. if a partner wanted to experience sex on drugs, wanted to incorporate someone under the age of 18, or whatever, i couldn't do it.[/QUOTE]

is this the new age of consent in adelade?