Question for the guys: Do you prefer FMF or MFM?

[celtic239]

I'm as straight as an arrow but I would prefer a MFM. As a young man I was told that the key to being a 'real man' was the ability to totally please a woman. I get a real turn on watching as well as being a part of the process of sending the Mrs into a state of sexual bliss. If that means bringing a toy into the process then fine. If it means that bringing another guy into the equation then that's fine too.

[Geoduck]

Wow, this was a tough call. I'm the man in the couple, and I chose an MFM. I'll explain why. You're in for the long answer.

First, though, the other side of the coin. Yes, I'd love to be in a hot FMF. I imagine that few men wouldn't love the opportunity to kiss two women at the same time, to play with two naked female bodies at the same time, to have two women give him oral sex at the same time--the idea of two women's mouths on my cock at the same time is a big turn-on for me--and to be inside two women, right after another.

I'm in a long-term relationship with a woman. We're not married, but we live together. My gf and I were playing one night. As we did foreplay, we talked. She invented a story about having us in an FMF threesome. The details she brought to the story were hot, and really raised our arousal level--especially mine!

We've talked about FMFs many times, and she's said it'd turn her on seeing me with another woman. That's a pretty rare comment, I know.

Now as we all know, there's another common aspect to a FMF. Do the women play together? My gf is straight. She has no interest in playing with another woman. But a couple times she's said that if we were having an FMF, she might not mind if the other woman touched her breasts. I don't think she'd like a woman to kiss her or give her oral sex, and I know she'd never do that to another woman--at least as of now. But a little breast play might be good.

Would I be upset if we had an FMF and my gf let another woman touch her breasts? Heck, no! I'd find it a turn-on. And if she got carried away by all the good feelings and decided to reciprocate, I'd be happy to go with the flow.

Back to MFMs.

This is the swing fantasy my gf and I use most. I'd love seeing her with another man. I'd love sharing.

I have two big fantasies about how it might happen. In one version, we'd start with MFM foreplay. Once we moved to the bedroom (or the bed, if in a hotel), I'd sit on the side, watching, as my gf enjoys her new lover. Sure, I'd be naked and playing with myself as I watch them. Then I'd join them for round two.

In another version, both of us men would pleasure my gf from the start once in bed. I'd love to alternate having her suck me with him fucking her, and vice versa (with him wearing a condom for the fucking). My gf has said that it's a fantasy of hers to suck my cock while another guy is fucking her from behind. Hot!

I've never had a threesome--my gf, either. But many years ago I did some heavy MFM foreplay. It never turned into a full-blown sex for a variety of reasons. But it was exciting kissing a woman while a friend was touching her breasts. It was fun touching her breasts while he was touching... And it was hot seeing him suck her nipples, seeing her response, and... Remembering those moments and transposing them to my gf makes me especially want an MFM. That's why I chose that option.

Geo

[ncmd_couple]

We have done MFM, FFM, and FMF. Each has its advantages and disadvantages. But the best is with two Bi-ladies!!!

[ist75swing]

We like MFM and prefer MFM.
Both of us enjoy it, she has lots of orgasms, i like to watch her cum and join.

Am I closeted homosexual?

M

[SecretAsianMan]

I have a preference for FMF (especially if both gals are bisexual and are equally into pleasuring each other as they are into pleasuring me)

... but I have certainly had my share of (and enjoyed) MFM and even a few other combinations not covered in this poll

[sahajacpl]

Voted FMF because we have done more of them, and, also because for a man its very pleasurable to play with two women on the same bed and then slip his dick into the female's pussy and fuck one, and, then the other women, switching from one hot pussy to the other.

However, MFM has its own appeal because you get to watch the wife or S.O. you want to please gets her fantasy brought to reality. Its an awesome sight to watch the guy eat her pussy, roll her clit, slip his tongue into her vagina and then sink his erect dick into your wife's or SO's vagina and fuck her to orgasm/s. And, if she can a take a DP with two cocks, one in front, one in her rear it doubles her pleasure. So you can contribute to and also watch her have mind-blowing orgasms. Sort of "have your cake and eat it too". Lol.

However, it's a Hard choice to make between the two options. The first offers you more personal participation, whereas, in the second you have the "front row" seat to watch and also participate in the hot action.

[bd21461]

I am a selfless person, I voted MFM. The wife has to be pleased. I wished, I can vote MFM and FMF.

[atol2]

Having tried both we definitely pick the MFM - she gets all the attention, I get to stare and relax while passion is still flying all over and females can go on without resting. Occasionally we'll do the FMF just to brake the routine.

[wild stud]

I am a orally bi male so I picked mfm. The wife also says she hates to compet with another lady.But if we get the chance to have a fmf threesome we sure will not turn it down. The other thing is it is much easer to find a male partner than a female.

[personal416]

I voted MFM. She's straight, so with FMF, there is too much "dead" time or loss of arousal for her... maybe with a different Female... and we're still open to try again, things would be different. With MFM, she was purring for hours on end. I've never seen or heard her in so much bliss as what two guys could continuously put her through. It is an incredible thing for us to experience! And the DP... I thought she was going to explode with ecstasy
!!

[rick181au]

We have tried both and we go for the M F M, the reason being that two can go into one a lot more times “and a lot more fun” than one into two, I get off on seeing the wife enjoying herself with another guy and then joining in for silky seconds, "or thirds"!

If the wife was Bi then it would be good to have a F M F but she is not Bi, so the one F M F we did try naturally I wanted to spend more of my time with the other woman after all I am human, my wife was OK seeing me with the other woman but for the three of us the sex did not come close to the sex with a M F M threesome.

[Kelli_Kanyon]

I am female, but we do it a little different in our home. When we have a 3some or moresome, it is usually my females friends that join me and my husband. BUT, us ladies all stay dressed, we just like to make my hubby get naked and "perform" for us. It can really make an enjoyable evening for the ladies. We get to visit with eachother and have good live entertainment

Kelli

[horsey84000]

The trouble with female male female when one of them is your wife or girlfriend you end up paying more attention on the foreign gal if she is hot and guess what you end up hurting your significant others feelings and you end up having a guilty constious like all men that we are Dogs in one way or another and the girlfreind or wife will give you hell latter and boy I got a lot of that with my wife so I don't do it with her any more its got to be a hot gal that loves sex and other guy and leave my wife out of it if its my girlfriend its ok with me because I like to watch also enven if he gots a larger equipment than I do and I'm quit hung so its kind of a turn on maybe I'm Bi , and I've had a few of those and they were quite refresching so , in all and all your better off doing it with people you do not know or a professional gal and have a dobby with the group and it seems a lot better for all of us and we all get off and go our sepperate ways....

[smoothwaitress]

We have had both several times and find them both very exciting. I like mfm due to the fact tha I can really sit back if i choose and watch my wife enjoying herself. It also depends on the people involved. Its all good fun.

[GerdOEvert]

We have tried MFM several times at clubs and at homes, apartments etc.

My wife love MFM I prefer FMF. Once in a while MFM is good when the other guy is bi, and want to experiment.

The best we ever had was Vaginal DP, God did that feel good. The guy who introduced us to that knew what he was doing. I did not think two cocks could fit into one pussy.

I also love creampie, and snowballing. At the Club, sometimes Eileen would go to a private room with a lover, and I would do her after she came out. She would tell me all the things they did, and I found that hot.

At our Club, more action was FFM than MFM by a long shot.

Otto & Eileen