Would you play with soft swingers?

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by Edison Carter

Susan here--Here's what I just find odd about soft swapping: Sucking a guy's cock in my mouth is fine, but having it inside my pussy is crossing some personal 'line' ? I don't get it . The truth is, if I think a man's cock is worth sucking, it's certainly worth fucking with.

I agree, I feel the same way with kissing.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by SouthBond

OK girls, beat me, whip me. Pop their cherry and score were very unsensitive words to use. I should have said my wife wanted to share one of the most wonderful moments in the sexual experience and I should have said that I was extremely attracted to the other wife and wanted give her the gift of love. I just slipped off into the gutter of basic emotions and desire. It's really good to see that the participants on this forum have such lofty standards of sexual encounters. I would have been more than happy to have used a super deluxe all weather condom and bonded with the other very attractive wife.

LOL, I'm not saying that. We are all out here because we like to F***. I just thought the word score was straight out of the 10th grade boy's locker room, thats all. I know what you meant, I told you that.

[Pepper & Drew]

Originally Posted by SouthBond

OK girls, beat me, whip me. Pop their cherry and score were very unsensitive words to use. I should have said my wife wanted to share one of the most wonderful moments in the sexual experience and I should have said that I was extremely attracted to the other wife and wanted give her the gift of love. I just slipped off into the gutter of basic emotions and desire. It's really good to see that the participants on this forum have such lofty standards of sexual encounters. I would have been more than happy to have used a super deluxe all weather condom and bonded with the other very attractive wife.

I prefer to use the words deflower and consumate :rollseyes

I think people are balking a bit because they wouldn't want you refering to them that way. Bang, screw, hit that, getting a piece....etc. You can think whatever you want, but people who SAY everything they think usually don't get anywhere. Just something to remember .

Pepper

[bill&sabrina]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

Am I the only one that this bothers? I mean, I read your post and I agree with everything your wife did, they should have been more forthcoming. But I don't understand how one is "allowed" to go all the way, and the other may be "allowed" if they decide. I don't know, but that always seems selfish to me.
However, thats jmo.

I totally attribute this to selfishness. I just don't believe that someone can be so selfless to not want an equal share of the fun sometimes. Sabrina and I both can sit on the sidelines more than get in the game. We would both be lying if we said that we didn't want to get in the game sometimes.

[SandB]

We are a soft swing couple who have been in the lifestyle for over 10 years. We are very comfortable with our decision and are very up front with it in our ad's and when we meet new couples. My partner can make a man cum with her mouth that is as exciting as engaging in intercourse and I have been told I am very orally talented as well. We love the life we lead, the people we meet (and party with) and the fun we have but we reserve one thing for ourselves that is special. If others do not understand or are not willing to accept than they are missing out not us.

[des1re06]

Yes, the majority of our experience has been soft swap, and has been very enjoyable. I'm including FF, as I've just learned recently how to "f*ck like a boy" with ladies who enjoy strap-ons.

Mrs. D

[oc1234]

We have played with soft swingers a number of times and enjoy it a lot. We prefer
full swap and MMF more, but soft swinging is very nice too.

[3sumff]

We don't care really! Actually, starting off with a little soft swing first is good ice breaker. Then work up to the full swing! Oral play to orgasm feels so damn good!

[Playful1]

Sorry, it just doesn't do it for me. If they are soft swing, I respect that, but it isn't for me. I am in this for full fledged sex, and leaving it at soft swinging, just doesn't do it for me.

[RDfnd]

Sure, it's all part of the "sexual sundae" we enjoy.

[daddynbabygrl]

As folks who right now, are content with soft swinging, then obviously we don't have a problem with it. We are up front about our intentions and what we are comfortable with.... we are doing this together and for one another.....and for those who don't agree or respect that with us, then they are not for us *and that is fine!*.....there's enough people out there for everyone and every "comfort level".......no offense taken by us if someone says "no" because we don't full swap.....we have OUR reasons and that's that.....it's OUR decision....and we respect those who do and and have their own reasons for being in whatever desired comfort level of the lifestyle.....

**big hippie love hug**

~ Daddy

[Malachista]

I do play with soft swingers, but it does not always leave me satisfied... I guess I need to feel a dick inside me (even if just for a few thrusts) to feel that the play was great

silly but true

[sweet_tna]

We prefer full swap, but it depends on who we're with. If we really hit it off with a couple that's soft swap only, then we'll go with the flow. Mr. Sweet and I will end up playing with each other at the end of the night, anyway.

=)

[Greg & Sheryl]

Originally Posted by Malachista

I guess I need to feel a dick inside me (even if just for a few thrusts) to feel that the play was great.

Sheryl is exactly the same way. For her, swinging is all about the fucking. That's why we rarely pursue FMF threesomes.

[babycole]

Our first swap was soft swap only (we were just sticking our toes in the water first to see how it felt). But with that experience, it felt like unfinished business to us, so after that we decided we would be more than fine with full swap. We have had times though, if it was my time of the month, where we have just soft swapped with others, but then again, still felt like unfinished business to us. So, we voted for "maybe, but only if we really liked them". We would soft swap with others under certain conditions, but if we really liked them, we'd certainly feel the need to fill the slots with the tabs one day soon thereafter!