Swinging and Body Image

ShellyM · 11-06-2006, 10:57 PM

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Originally Posted by richdon03

Don't kid yourself. All guys are attracted to redheads! Nothing like 'em! facelick You, MrsVan, are stunning!

Oh yeah, redheads are gorgeous....and they usually have incredible skin as well. Jay loves redheads. I think men like them too because they aren't all that common like us brunettes are. Mine reddens up in the sun, but not good red like Mrs. V, more like some mutant shade of copper lol.

sexcupid · 11-06-2006, 11:25 PM

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Originally Posted by ShellyM

I know, I love them all!

But, I have included a picture of my favorite one......

Well, next to Tony Stewart, anyways

*rotflmao*

Great picture of the two of you.

Maria

JacobSky · 11-08-2006, 02:07 AM

I'm 5'7" tall. I do notice many adds seeking men with a minimum height requirement that is out of my reach. It does disappoint me sometimes, but I just move on and keep searching through other adds.

Cowgirl · 11-17-2006, 09:54 AM

I think height is relative Jacobsky. Especially when you are in bed!!

I have been reading some of your posts and loving your answers. I am proud to be a brunette, have never dyed my hair blond and wouldn't even if someone payed me. I agree that the media overhypes the "blond ideal". We are constantly wondering why every actress thinks they look better blond. We love natural women who are proud of what they look like and are not trying to look like someone else. It is refreshing to hear that women don't have to be blond to be beautiful! I think Brunettes have more fun anyway!

shyguy55 · 11-06-2008, 02:32 PM

BBW love them all, My wife is bbw and love her very much and love watching her with other guys.

crazi429 · 11-07-2008, 01:43 AM

I feel it has some much more to do with personal attitude then actual body shape. If your not happy about yourself then it shows. I am overweight and working at loosing but am still happy with myself. My dream girl was always a petite to tiny lady with darker hair. I have only had a few partners in my life so far and the fun part has alway been more if the sex partner was happy with them selves. I hope you know what I am meaning. You can be happy with yourself even if you want to make improvements.

**BiloxiCouple** · 11-07-2008, 09:12 AM

The mind is the greatest sexual organ that we have. If you don't have a beautiful mind then the rest of the body is just dust in the wind.

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11-08-2006, 02:07 AM	#48 (permalink)
JacobSky Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 254 Location: Beaver, OK Status: Single Male	Re: Swingin and Body Image I'm 5'7" tall. I do notice many adds seeking men with a minimum height requirement that is out of my reach. It does disappoint me sometimes, but I just move on and keep searching through other adds. __________________ Live life to the fullest!

11-17-2006, 09:54 AM	#49 (permalink)
Cowgirl Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2006 Posts: 13 Location: Texas Status: Couple	Re: Swingin and Body Image I think height is relative Jacobsky. Especially when you are in bed!! I have been reading some of your posts and loving your answers. I am proud to be a brunette, have never dyed my hair blond and wouldn't even if someone payed me. I agree that the media overhypes the "blond ideal". We are constantly wondering why every actress thinks they look better blond. We love natural women who are proud of what they look like and are not trying to look like someone else. It is refreshing to hear that women don't have to be blond to be beautiful! I think Brunettes have more fun anyway!

11-06-2008, 02:32 PM	#50 (permalink)
shyguy55 Registered Join Date: Oct 2008 Posts: 3 Location: Charleston Status: male/m	Re: Swinging and Body Image BBW love them all, My wife is bbw and love her very much and love watching her with other guys.

11-07-2008, 01:43 AM	#51 (permalink)
crazi429 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 102 Location: Brookville Ohio Status: single male with a lady friend SLS Name:crazi429	Re: Swingin and Body Image I feel it has some much more to do with personal attitude then actual body shape. If your not happy about yourself then it shows. I am overweight and working at loosing but am still happy with myself. My dream girl was always a petite to tiny lady with darker hair. I have only had a few partners in my life so far and the fun part has alway been more if the sex partner was happy with them selves. I hope you know what I am meaning. You can be happy with yourself even if you want to make improvements.

11-07-2008, 09:12 AM	#52 (permalink)
BiloxiCouple YOUR PLACE OR OURS?? Join Date: Sep 2002 Posts: 2,754 Location: Biloxi, Mississippi Status: Couple with benefits SLS Name:graceful	Re: Swinging and Body Image The mind is the greatest sexual organ that we have. If you don't have a beautiful mind then the rest of the body is just dust in the wind. __________________ Billy & Elaine You can't fix stupid...

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