Swinging and Body Image

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Shelly, I have the same taste in men. I like them tall, with meat on their bones. I like them hefty in a way that's more muscular than fat. Not bodybuilder-lean with 2% bodyfat, but rather manly and strong with some flesh on them.

I'm not attracted to the hairless guys that shave all over, hairless chests, arms, legs, etc. It's kind of weird to me, as if they haven't hit puberty yet. I'm not saying I'm attracted to Sasquatch, but medium/normal body hair on a man is attractive to me. I want to have sex with a MAN, I guess! Not a boy, and not Sasquatch. (I definitely like a man's genitals well-groomed, though.)

Skinny is a real turn-off to me. I just cannot get attracted to bony guys with scrawny arms and narrow chest. I'm more attracted to a man 25 lbs overweight than to a skinny one. In fact, the same is true of women, if I'm going to be playing with her. The bony-frail ones turn me off.

Oh, and I have a thing for men's arms! How they are muscular, and you can see their muscles move when they use them. See, ya'll are going to make me attack Jay, and I JUST showered! Dammit

[Tybee Swing]

Yes, exactly! I'm extremely attracted to arms with muscle you can see, a broad chest, and strong legs, too. Yowza! I'm also crazy about muscular glutes (i.e., cute butt). We probably would be very attracted to each other's husbands, because Mr. Tybee is just like that.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Yes, exactly! I'm extremely attracted to arms with muscle you can see, a broad chest, and strong legs, too. Yowza! I'm also crazy about muscular glutes (i.e., cute butt). We probably would be very attracted to each other's husbands, because Mr. Tybee is just like that.

OH SNAP!

[JacobSky]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

Hey hey,
don't forget about us brunettes now!

Hey, I've always prefered brunettes. Actually, I think that I just tend to prefer women that are not blonde. I don't have real dislike for blondes. I just think that the media put it out so much, and so many women died their hair that it turns me off. There's my correlation-----died hair = less natural woman.

[JacobSky]

Dorn, I veered off a bit......I don't want to thread jack.

Body image? Hum? I thought this thread was going to ask us about our like or dislike of our own bodies.

On AFF, I select the cupid options for skinny, average, athletic, and "a little extra padding". That's about my range, but I voted for average, becuase your basic average milf really turns me on.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by JacobSky

Hey, I've always prefered brunettes. Actually, I think that I just tend to prefer women that are not blonde. I don't have real dislike for blondes. I just think that the media put it out so much, and so many women died their hair that it turns me off. There's my correlation-----died hair = less natural woman.

Okay, next time you are in Austin look me up!!

JK

[JacobSky]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

Okay, next time you are in Austin look me up!!

JK

I'll remember that...... back to ya.....

[nice_cpl_n_bama]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

I love men who are "stocky". I like them over 5'9" tall, and they have to weigh at least around 200 pounds. I like pretty much them all......my "fetish", as Jay calls it, are white men with dark hair and dark eyes. They are my weakness man lol.
But I love men's arms, and stubble, and chest hair......I pretty much like men in general lol. Green eyes, blue eyes...........

Oh man! I fit the first part, and there's always hair dye

[nice_cpl_n_bama]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Shelly, I have the same taste in men. I like them tall, with meat on their bones. I like them hefty in a way that's more muscular than fat. Not bodybuilder-lean with 2% bodyfat, but rather manly and strong with some flesh on them.

I'm not attracted to the hairless guys that shave all over, hairless chests, arms, legs, etc. It's kind of weird to me, as if they haven't hit puberty yet. I'm not saying I'm attracted to Sasquatch, but medium/normal body hair on a man is attractive to me. I want to have sex with a MAN, I guess! Not a boy, and not Sasquatch. (I definitely like a man's genitals well-groomed, though.)

Skinny is a real turn-off to me. I just cannot get attracted to bony guys with scrawny arms and narrow chest. I'm more attracted to a man 25 lbs overweight than to a skinny one. In fact, the same is true of women, if I'm going to be playing with her. The bony-frail ones turn me off.

I'm feeling so loved right now. Laurie and honeymooned on Tybee Island. We've always talked about going back.

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by nice_cpl_n_bama

Oh man! I fit the first part, and there's always hair dye

Don't worry, I like blondes too!

[sexcupid]

Originally Posted by ShellyM

I love men who are "stocky". I like them over 5'9" tall, and they have to weigh at least around 200 pounds. I like pretty much them all......my "fetish", as Jay calls it, are white men with dark hair and dark eyes. They are my weakness man lol.
But I love men's arms, and stubble, and chest hair......I pretty much like men in general lol. Green eyes, blue eyes...........

I'm with Shelly here....men...*sigh* facelick God, I love them.

I like them at least at tall or taller than me (I'm about 5'6")...don't really have a weight preference...let's say less than 275 lbs. Am a sucker for blue eyes though. And they have to be a bit fuzzy, not like Sasquatch hairy...but fuzzy in the right spots...like right in the middle of the chest (over the breast bone area)...one of my favorite spots to touch.

Personally, I could stand to lose a bit of weight. I actually once had a guy tell me, "You are just my type...I like thicker girls" Ok, if I'm just fitting the body type you normally like and that's all you've seen in the last 3 hours that we've been talking...thanks but no. Totally turned me off of this guy, if that's what got you to talk to me in the first place, great. If that's the only thing that's kept you interested, see ya.

I think I've said enough. *lol*

Maria

[sexcupid]

Originally Posted by Tybee Swing

Shelly, I have the same taste in men. I like them tall, with meat on their bones. I like them hefty in a way that's more muscular than fat. Not bodybuilder-lean with 2% bodyfat, but rather manly and strong with some flesh on them.

I'm not attracted to the hairless guys that shave all over, hairless chests, arms, legs, etc. It's kind of weird to me, as if they haven't hit puberty yet. I'm not saying I'm attracted to Sasquatch, but medium/normal body hair on a man is attractive to me. I want to have sex with a MAN, I guess! Not a boy, and not Sasquatch. (I definitely like a man's genitals well-groomed, though.)

Totally agree here...manly men. *lmao* And that's the way I've alway described it...I want them with a decent amount of body hair, I like them to look like they've hit puberty.

Upper arm muscles, there is nothing sexier to me than having my hands on the BF's biceps when he's got his arms around me when we're having sex. They aren't huge, but it's really hard to describe why I think it's so hot.


Maria

[BobMcD]

Originally Posted by Mr. Hump alot

I think thick/chubby/voluptuous/BBw Ladies are beautyful and lot's of fun to be with I know b/c I've been married to one for almost eleven years facelick

I'm divorced from 2 in a row, and still prefer that type

[ShellyM]

Originally Posted by sexcupid

Totally agree here...manly men. *lmao* And that's the way I've alway described it...I want them with a decent amount of body hair, I like them to look like they've hit puberty.

Upper arm muscles, there is nothing sexier to me than having my hands on the BF's biceps when he's got his arms around me when we're having sex. They aren't huge, but it's really hard to describe why I think it's so hot.


Maria

I know, I love them all!

But, I have included a picture of my favorite one......

Well, next to Tony Stewart, anyways

[richdon03]

Originally Posted by MrsVan

Keith,

You said the magic words....RED HAIR IS A PLUS!!! facelick I am feeling really good right now knowing that there are more guys out there that have such an attraction to red heads. I am so glad I am a natural red head.

MrsVan

Don't kid yourself. All guys are attracted to redheads! Nothing like 'em! facelick You, MrsVan, are stunning!