How do you feel about screamers?

[JustAskJulie]

I was listening to swingercast again and I don't remember if it was the hosts or someone they were talking to that said they felt like people who made a lot of noise when they were cumming (screamers) were typically faking it... adding the noise in for drama, basically. And I believe something was said to the point that noise guys are cheesy. Maybe not those exact words.

So I want to know, what your opinion is about screamers (and those who are just plain noisy in bed). Are you? If so, is it real? or are you adding it for drama? Are you noisier or quieter at a club (or with others in the room) than you are when it's just the two of you?

And how do you feel about others that are noisy? Does it interrupt your groove? Do you feel like they are just putting on a show?

[rpu3]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

So I want to know, what your opinion is about screamers (and those who are just plain noisy in bed). Are you? If so, is it real? or are you adding it for drama? Are you noisier or quieter at a club (or with others in the room) than you are when it's just the two of you?

And how do you feel about others that are noisy? Does it interrupt your groove? Do you feel like they are just putting on a show?

I don't think I scream, in the traditional sense, but I am vocal when it's myself and my husband, and can be loud on occasion. It isn't to add drama, that's just how I am/we are together. It certainly isn't fake.

I am quieter in a club situation or if there are others in our home/vacation rentals, etc., to the point that my husband does feel the need to check to make sure all is well.

Noise is one thing, but out right screaming/yelling/really loud noises in a group/club situation tends to distract me.

Rebecca

[JustAskJulie]

Sorry about that I screwed up the poll the first time, so I went back and fixed it to allow for multiple options as I had originally meant to.

[SuAndBud]

We're not silent by any means but neither do we "scream". What's that all about?

If we were in company and heard OTT noises, we'd both collapse into fits of giggles.

[intensity_too]

I'm very loud . . . I wouldn't say a screamer but LOUD. It is not fake at all. It's just how I am. I have never been to a club but I imagine I might be a bit more quiet but it would be a struggle. We've had sex in the same room as another couple and I was just as loud as I am at home. I'm only quiet when we have guests or are staying the night at another person's house. Sometimes to remain that quiet hubby has to place his hand over my mouth or I have to bite him.

One couple we were with said I have the porn star sounds down. I took it as a compliment. It's nothing I practice or even conciously do. It's just who I am.

[JustAskJulie]

OTT?

I guess a lot comes down to what your definition of screaming is... which is why I added "loud" to the poll. I would put someone in the category of screamer if the noises they are making could wake someone in the next room.

[Mr. Truelove]

When we are alone, the noise is more natural. But in our own house, while our kids are sleeping we tend to be much quieter. I don't think either of us would be considered screamers though. But we enjoy not having to be quiet the whole time.

[driveajeepnaked]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

OTT?

"Over the top" ... I think

[Roman Hands]

Reminds me of a joke....A 90 year old man goes into a brothel and picks out 3 ladies to join him in a "toss in the hay". They all go into a room and the old guy excuses himself and heads into the bathroom. A few minutes later he emerges with a condom on his dick, a clothespin on his nose and earmuffs on his ears...The ladies stare at him for a moment and one finally blurts out; "what the hell are you doing"? The old man takes off the earmuffs and says, eh? whadya' say young lady? I said, she replied, "what the hell are you doing? Whats with the clothes pin and earmuffs?... Wellll, the old guy drawls,the two things I can't stand when I'm having sex is the smell of burnin' rubber and the sound of screamin' women!!!!

[Califblonde]

I am one of those screamers, and I must say,I cannot help it, If the situation is right,It just cums out.At home hubby knows when to cover my face, with a pillow or a body part,to muffle the noise. Sometimes I am louder trhan others. I bet alot of you will say Bull to me, But I feel unless I hold back, (which is not the point of good sex), It is going to happen at times. If I bother you with it,OH well Sorry. Calif

[tribbles]

I used to think it was fake, I have even 'caught' a few fakers at clubs who were fully dressed, in cubbies who were moaning and screaming.

Since I found a new button for myself and scream to high heaven when it get pushed, I know at least some screams can be very, very real.

So I have to vote, sometimes it's there for drama, other times it is real. Sometimes I'm quiet and other times I scream loud enough to generate complaints if we lived in an apt.
So do I pick all the options? LOL

[ShellyM]

I don't mind it, as long as its not TOO obviously a fake orgasm. With me, the stronger my orgasm the quieter I am lol...when I have a particularly strong O I can barely breathe, much less scream.

[Dooode]

I was at a club a few years ago with a single lady, and we were in one of the play rooms getting it on ... when we heard some other lady in the orgy room that sounded like a banshee in heat. I mean she was SCREAMING. You could hear her all over the club. People stopped what they were doing to go check it out.

I love a noisy woman as much as the next guy, but if it's liable to bring the cops to the door to look for a rape victim, I say it's overkill.

Besides. Shouldn't there be a degree of consideration for others?

[SuAndBud]

Maybe it's a Pro-Tennis thing a la Monica Selec et al.

When a ball hits that spot, baby! Whooo!

[Amanda69]

I can get noisy but never screaming. For me it is mostly a throaty moan that I just can't help once the orgasm starts.

I do have a hard time believing that someone can't actually control a scream and it just does seem overly dramatic. Like someone else said if I heard someone screaming like that I would a) call police as I would think she needed help or b) fall down laughing.