How do you feel about screamers?

[Thkmlkchoclik]

I am a screamer!! I don't know about anyone else, but I am a real screamer.There's no way for me to fake that with my dh. We've been together to long for him to not know when it's real or fake. Don't get me wrong I don't scream all the time, but when he got me in that bed going crazy.........Oh my gosh, it's like I'm having an all over body orgasm.

Also I love to hear my bed bang against my wall. That makes me crazy, and I cum much harder. LOL!!

[NandTfromCA]

If I am in a situation where I absolutely have to be quiet, I can be semi-quiet but your going to hear some pretty weird squeaks and grunts as well as see some terrible facial expressions.

With either of us, there are typically lots of long deep moans, sometimes some yelling, and often some sexually induced turrets. I (Mr.) have also noticed that the long deeps breaths associated with moaning can also keep me right on the edge of an orgasm or even in the peek for a long time…which causes more moaning…which keeps me in the climax…which causes more moaning…

As far as hearing others- Not only is it nice for my ego to hear a woman have a good time with me, it also helps me gauge if where I am at with her…a little to the left…a little to the right…harder…slower…deeper…etc. It’s nice to get the feedback and continue to do the things that cause the happy noises.

Mr.

[singleagain]

I don't scream...but I do get vocal...and its not for drama but because I am just a verbal kinda guy. When something feels that good I just have to tell somebody! I've been with those who scream, those who make no noise at all and those, that like me, get vocal in the throes of orgasm. Its nice to know that I really made her feel good and sometimes a little verbal communication like "Don't stop, oh God, don't stop!" will really give me a second head of steam and I have to exclaim "Oh God, that's good...mmmmmmmmmmm thats good!" when I get to that magic point.

[Katze42]

Guilty... but not all the time. I have control over it, but I don't make it more than it is. When I try to be quiet, I lose focus and I have trouble finishing (welcum to my college years in the dorms). I like to be loud, it's the exhibitionist in me, but a time and a place and it should be like punctuation to a perfect sentence. I also love to be choked... that usually shushes me up.

[UCONN Keith]

I LOVE verbally responsive lovers - as long as they are genuine and I/other can tell that they are!

Screamers, moaners, criers are wonderful!

I myself - as a man- am told that I am a "growler".......

Thanks for the poll!

Keith in CT

CT_MWM@Hotmail.com

[NewtotheLife]

After the conversation at our dinner table last night I felt like I had to respond to this thread. I've always considered myself mildly vocal in bed. Not loud or a screamer by any means. Unfortunatly this must not be the case. Bewteen please pass the peas and how was your day my fourteen year old son politely requested that "dad and I keep things down at night." He said we keep waking him up. With his bedroom three doors down I guess I must be very loud. I had no idea. The problem is I'm not sure how to tone it down. I guess we could try duct tape. So I guess I'm a screamer....... Surrender

[LOL_OMG]

I would consider myself moderately loud, LOL although maybe we should check out a decible machine. I may be as loud as Ted Nugent on a hunting day...

[captainbob]

We're not too noisy. We've gotten used to making love with the kids awake in the next room. It's a challenge to not even make the bed squeak. It's an old antique wooden bed.
But when the kids aren't home, or if we're on a trip without the kids, then my sweetie can get quite noisy. Once or twice, she has forgotten to be quiet at home and the youngest came running in the room asking if mommy's all right! So we learned to be quiet most of the time.

[gatorvol64]

Originally Posted by NewtotheLife

After the conversation at our dinner table last night I felt like I had to respond to this thread. I've always considered myself mildly vocal in bed. Not loud or a screamer by any means. Unfortunatly this must not be the case. Bewteen please pass the peas and how was your day my fourteen year old son politely requested that "dad and I keep things down at night." He said we keep waking him up. With his bedroom three doors down I guess I must be very loud. I had no idea. The problem is I'm not sure how to tone it down. I guess we could try duct tape. So I guess I'm a screamer....... Surrender

I can thouroughly sympathize. The same thing happened to me (not the exact words). I didn't realize I was quite that loud either. Now the hubby just teases the boys with it because they do not like to think we have sex. If I have to concentrate on being quite, then I can't be concentrating on the good stuff.

Vol

[JustAskJulie]

To come back and answer my own question. I can get loud in bed at times, and noise amongst others when we are with another couple or at a club can be quite a turn on at times. However, there are times where it sounds staged and then it becomes a turn off. Examples: When girls start talking to each other like they are in a porno... "oh yeah stroke him like that" and it's not just what they say but how they say it. I'd call it "porno voice" or something. And the same goes with the screamers... there are times where it goes from 'that's sexy' to 'there's no way that's real'.

[PB&J]

I'm a screamer... no faking here. the hard part is restraining myself when a kid's at home or we're in a hotel room. Although last weekend the neighbouring room didn't seem to mind... and we had two screamers in the room! I find that my orgasms are much more intense when I can let loose and scream.

I only pray when I cum- but boy oh boy, I make up for it then. and the men seem to like have their efforts so vocally appreciated.

[JustAskJulie]

Originally Posted by PB&J

Although last weekend the neighbouring room didn't seem to mind... and we had two screamers in the room! I find that my orgasms are much more intense when I can let loose and scream.

Sounds fun, did you have a scream off?

[crazi429]

Originally Posted by JustAskJulie

I was listening to swingercast again and I don't remember if it was the hosts or someone they were talking to that said they felt like people who made a lot of noise when they were cumming (screamers) were typically faking it... adding the noise in for drama, basically. And I believe something was said to the point that noise guys are cheesy. Maybe not those exact words.

So I want to know, what your opinion is about screamers (and those who are just plain noisy in bed). Are you? If so, is it real? or are you adding it for drama? Are you noisier or quieter at a club (or with others in the room) than you are when it's just the two of you?

And how do you feel about others that are noisy? Does it interrupt your groove? Do you feel like they are just putting on a show?

I haven't been with a real screamer but my current I think could be one She really fights holding the sounds in I hope to get her past that point one of these days.

[Begood03]

New member here, and my wife and I are only in the talking stages when it comes to swinging. However she is very vocal when excited, she says her body reacts to stimulation more than most peoples do. All I know is I enjoy the sounds she makes.

I am not loud, but still vocal. I feel it helps my enjoyment of the situation.

[Willing29]

We are not screamers but some noises or moans do mean something is happening right. Although there was that one time or more this summer when the windows were open wide. Good verbal skills are just as needed as good oral skills.