How do you feel about screamers?

[WesternSwing]

I guess I'm noisy, or so Mrs. WS and my partners have said and teased me about on occasion, and I guess I really don't realize how noisy I am or they wouldn't razz me about it. For me, it is totally an unconcious response. I am just very vocal. Of course, I talk allot too, so there you have it.

I like noisy women, plain and simple. I like to know I'm having some kind of effect on her. When a woman is silent I wonder if anything I'm doing is right. I've had partners who've said they had incredibly great sex with me (and I guess they have because they've come back for more), but I had no freaking idea they were having any fun at all. It's kind of a hit to the ole' male ego, you know? Surrender

Mr. WS

[R&R]

For me, alot will depend on the situation and how the orgasm is, but yes I am very loud. Screamer? Not sure about that, but I have to be careful when family or friends come to visit. I also have had some nice notes under the door from listeners who have stayed next to us at some hotels and only 1 complaint.

This may sound odd, but sometimes the louder I get, and stronger the orgasm will be. (Or is it the other way around?)

Hubby is usually very quiet, BUT he is excellent at sex talk which always gets me going.

Renee

[ready2play]

I know that my hubby has a hard time with cumming quietly, a kid just moved back home and being more quiet is nessasary.

[ohash01]

I am very rarely loud. Every once in a while there will be that certain spot and I will shout a 4 letter word, but most of the time I'm quiet. I can cum and not make a peep...actually...I'm usually breathless and speechless at the point of cumming, so I usually make no noise. Maybe a little squeak.

I've been in the same house with screamers...nice for fantasizing, but other than that...*meh* Just unneccessary. I remember when I was in college and living with a couple guys. One of them brought a screamer home. I had to work at 6am. I threw her shoes off the balcony to show how I felt about being kept awake...then I got into it with my roommate the next day about how RUDE that was.

[Thrax]

Maybe it's because I'm an introvert, but I tend to be on the less vocal side: some grunts, moans, and maybe the occasional mmmmmm...mmmmmm....MMMMMMMMMMMM. Actually, since I can be very quiet, I sometimes am a little more vocal just to let a woman know I AM enjoying myself.

I've been with a few very, VERY quiet women, and had to learn to read the twitches, squeaks, and involuntary muscle and other body reactions (flushing, wetness) and hope for the best. I prefer the women who are vocal to a POINT. If the moans and groans are combined with a reasonable amount of the aforementioned involuntary as well as voluntary (hips rising, boink-speed increasing, face contorting, etc.) reactions then that seems realistic to me.

Screamers, or women that are overly-dramatic? Reminds me of porn and takes me out of the moment actually. (I start to think, "Yeah, I've had my moments, but am I THAT good?") Hey, but it won't stop me. If she's having a good time, or pretending to have a good time, then I'm MORE than happy to carry on!

Thrax

[She_n_Jaybee]

We both tend to be rather quiet. Some noise, but generally not too loud. If it gets even somewhat loud, it's because someone is doing a really, really good job!

Many years back, the woman I went to a swing club with (on a regular basis), had a friend that would often tag along. She had a very noticeable accent in everyday conversation. Quite often, she was the 5th wheel, when two couples would get together. But she'd move around, lending a hand where needed, and act as cheerleader. She would do commentary on what was going on, loud. The hotter the action, the louder her soundtrack. Plus, she sounded just like your typical porno soundtrack. The weird(er) thing, when she did that, no accent. When she got excited, it was soundtrack alternated with moaning and screaming. One night we were in a corner room, that is inside a large open play room usually packed with couples playing. The private room had an open transom over the door. It was a good night for her. The rest of us were too busy laughing hysterically at her antics. When we came out, everyone gave us a standing ovation.

[discoandvyper]

You guys are familiar with screamers, right? The first time I was with my wife there was all kinds of noise and I'm not sure it was handled right.

Apparently she had never been with a screamer before. Daddy makes a little noise in the sack.

Nah, I'm just rattling off some Ron White comedy and yes, I know, I butchered it.

Neither Disco or I are especially noisey in sexual scenarios. The closest we come to that is when Disco orgasms, she gives a bit of an UHHH!!! or something to that extent.

[Pepper & Drew]

I'm loud. I don't scream, but I yell, I moan, etc. I assure you it's not faking. In times where I've had to be quiet, I find that it's not as good. I'm not sure whether it's because I'm concentrating on being quiet so much that I can't focus on how it feels, or whether it's like in sports--grunting makes you hit harder--where the moans, etc actually add to the orgasm. We've played with quiet couples, and quite frankly, it wasn't as much fun because we thought that they weren't having a good time with us.

Pepper

[naughtyblonde]

I'm loud, but not a screamer. I'm more along the lines of dirty talk & primal sounds. I don't like the sound of high pitch loud women, those are the only ones that annoy me.

Oh, & it's not fake. I'm very sensitive in my canal & usually coming just about the whole time.

[GotBatteries?]

I have overheard dramatic screamers and I have wanted to stuff a sock in it.
Then again, I am 'vocally appreciative'. Always have been I think this is one of those situations that is only annoying or suspect if you arent the source of the noise.
I *try* to be quiet if the situation demands that I be more discrete and I agree with the poster that said something along the lines of it not being 'as good'. For me, I am so distracted by the idea that I *have* to be quiet that I cant focus on having a good time. The distractions really suck.
I get very frustrated with partners that dont make even a peep. I am not looking for a constant uninterupted stream of chatter, but a grunt to let me know they arent dead is always a plus!

I just really dont like anyone stuck on 'repeat'.
(Oh yeah, Daddy! Do me, Daddy! Do me, Daddy! Fuck me! Fuck me! Fuck me! Fuck me! Harder! Harder! Harder! Harder! Harder!)
Uggg.

[havefuninsun]

I am noisey -- I think I "squeal" more than scream ... and sometimes I start swearing, sometimes I start praying ("OH MY GOD!!" to "Jesus Christ!!") ... and I don't even know I'm doing it sometimes. Like someone said above, with kids at home, I have to muffle but it's very hard to ... I've tried holding my breath to keep quiet (quasi works) and breathe through what I'd normally vocalize (but Mr. Fun has pointed out that my breathing can be as loud as other noises -- hahaha). Mr. Fun is more subtle and I love to hear his moans and groans. It's a release. I think with other folks, though, I'm more quiet ...

[naughtyblonde]

Originally Posted by GotBatteries?

I just really dont like anyone stuck on 'repeat'.
(Oh yeah, Daddy! Do me, Daddy! Do me, Daddy! Fuck me! Fuck me! Fuck me! Fuck me! Harder! Harder! Harder! Harder! Harder!)
Uggg.

Seriously.

[nice_cpl_n_bama]

The only time Laurie and I get loud is when there's prudish people to shock.
We went on a camping trip with some friends in our pre-swing days. One of the couples along was a bf/gf couple. The topic of sex came up and the girl made some mean, nasty and prudish comments. Shortly after we all retired to our tents. Laurie and I deliberately "turned up the volume" just to freak her out. She was so freaked out by it she dumped her boyfriend the next day when the trip was over. She said he hung out with a bunch of perverts.
Her boyfriend ended up marrying Laurie's sister and later said the best thing we ever did for him was scaring the frigid little shrew away.

[Tia Vampire]

A screamer is a turn off for me. It than seems like it's fake or an act. A moan or " oh my God" every once in a while is fine. I'm into involuntary movements, that's more real to me. the stomach muscles jumping, the toes curling,the grabbing of the pillows or covers, and most of all and my favorite, the slobbing of the mouth.

[Qdog]

My wife and I are not "screamers" but we moan alot. If the kids are home she will cover her face with a pillow. It is a turn on for me to hear her moan as loud as she does..whether she is masturbating or we are having sex. It turns her on for me to moan or talk dirty to her while having sex. Quite a few other couples we know that are married complain their men don't say anything during sex, just wham bam. I " think" that is something they like to hear from what my wife says. Of course she told them what we do during sex and a few of them ask in details what we do.