Full Swap, Soft Swap or?...

OhioCouple · 12-09-2002, 03:53 PM

All swingers have their preferences when it comes to playtime. What do you prefer?

I have tried to set this poll up so that singles and couples who also swing with singles and other couples may be able to answer it.

You may choose more than one option.

**EDIT** Please remember to vote by preference more so than what you are willing to settle for with others.

Mariposa_y_Oso · 12-09-2002, 05:17 PM

How are we supposed to get to know one another better if we do this by secret ballot?

We generally don't go "all the way" the first time we play with a couple, but we prefer the full swap with some bisexual activity (Mari is bi, but I am straight). Of course, depending upon the situation, almost any of those could happen.

I have a question regarding the soft swap with no body fluids...isn't saliva considered a bodily fluid? Or does that just refer to touching and no kissing?

Cheers!
~Mike

OhioCouple · 12-09-2002, 05:50 PM

Ya'll just crack me up! Well many people have a problem relaying their personal preferences in print. Therefore a poll so that anyone can vote.

As for the soft swap - no bodily fluids, I suppose I could have worded it better, but that bold notice says to keep it short and to the point!

My meaning behind that was you only play with your significant other in every way shape and form. Ie, no exchange of kissing, or oral sex, pretty much just having sex with your mate in the same vicinity of another couple doing the same.

Lori

dave_susie2001 · 12-10-2002, 10:23 PM

We full swap with "no exchange of bodily fluids." What I mean by that is that when we are with a couple that we know well and don't use condoms, we don't "cum inside." The reasons are varied, but here they are:

A) Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids, it's much less than a full load of semen, therefore it reduces the risk associated with swapping body fluids.

B) I (Dave) don't like the taste of semen, and if I want to go down on the woman, I would prefer not to slurp up a load of cum (my own, or otherwise) while I'm doing it.

Tanman aka Mike and Marie · 12-20-2002, 09:25 AM

I thought "soft" regarded anything with another couple EXCEPT insertion?

When did this change and why wasn't I notified?

CanadianCouple · 12-21-2002, 05:51 PM

Lori --

We prefer full swap, although we'll adhere to any limits the other couple insist on.

Would you mind us asking where you and Gene fall in that poll?

Dan

Regularguy · 12-21-2002, 05:59 PM

Why would a guy think it is hot for his woman to lick her pussy juice off the guys dick, but refuse to go down on her afte rhe came in her?

When I come in a woman and she wants some more oral sex, I don't hesitate any more then a woman does when she goes down on the guy after he has been in her wet pussy.

Dave wrote; "A) Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids, it's much less than a full load of semen, therefore it reduces the risk associated with swapping body fluids."

Why is there more of a risk from semen but not pussy juice? I swallow as much pussy juice over 5-30 minutes then women I am with from 10 seconds of me shooting come.

thesexmonsters · 12-22-2002, 10:35 PM

Hey, you left out "Full swap - but bi-sexual activity betwen women only!"

The Sex Monsters

bimrdcpl · 12-22-2002, 11:48 PM

The hubby and I enjoy full swap, with condoms. We just cant imagine being in a room with another couple exchanging oral and none of the other fun stuff.

Thats our story and we're sticking to it.
Happy Holidays Everone!!!!
Dawn

vevaycpl · 12-24-2002, 06:14 PM

Way to go Sexmonsters!!!! we would fall into your catagoy. We also believe it would be right there at the top of the preference poll.

dave_susie2001 · 12-25-2002, 08:30 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Regularguy
Why would a guy think it is hot for his woman to lick her pussy juice off the guys dick, but refuse to go down on her afte rhe came in her?

When I come in a woman and she wants some more oral sex, I don't hesitate any more then a woman does when she goes down on the guy after he has been in her wet pussy.

Regular Guy...

To each his/her own. I don't "expect" a woman to do anything when we're with another couple. If she wants to go down on me after I've fucked her...great. If not....that's fine too. All I said was that I didn't like the taste of semen. Therefore, one of our rules was that there was no cumming inside.

Quote:

Originally posted by Regularguy
Dave wrote; "A) Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids, it is much less than a full load of semen."

Why is there more of a risk from semen but not pussy juice? I swallow as much pussy juice over 5-30 minutes then women I am with from 10 seconds of me shooting come. [/b]

Why is there more of a risk from semen than there is from saliva? Why is there more of a risk from Blood than semen? Hey, I'm no microbiologist...that's just the way it is (to my limited understanding.)

Maybe I should have said, "Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids,"STATISTICLY THE RISK is much less than a full load of semen." There have been many discussions on this board about STD's and safe sex. In fact, there is a whole forum just for this subject. Everyone has their own feelings on safe sex, and from what I've seen, there isn't anything that anyone can say that will change anyone elses feelings on it.

In anycase, to each his own. Keep doing what you like....keep expressing your opinions....and happy swinging.

LowPurrCpl · 12-18-2003, 10:31 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by dave_susie2001
In anycase, to each his own. Keep doing what you like....keep expressing your opinions....and happy swinging.

Dave_Susie2001... That why I Love this group! Great attitude and well said.

As for the poll... The Mrs. and I are still 'feelin our way around' on this subject. Our comfort level tends to change, and depends much on the specific scenario, and how comfortable we are with the other couple(s). We've both been interested in "all of the above" at one time or another.

Mr. LowPurrCpl

NorCal Nites · 12-18-2003, 05:58 PM

Where is full swap with only same sex for the women/men?

We full swap, but other than male/female and assistance from 2nd male, the men don't play with one another.

**Alura** · 12-18-2003, 06:10 PM

We've swapped with our playmates. But we might choose to do something different in the future. Does anyone have any good ideas?

Alura

jcbicouple · 12-18-2003, 06:46 PM

Our vote was for full swap with all parties. However, "swapping" really isn't a good term for our play experiences. We prefer one big pile, with everyone playing together.

Would never do separate rooms, or even separate beds. We like to enjoy the experience together, whether playing with a man, woman, or couple.

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View Poll Results: What are your preferences? You may choose more than one.
Full swap all the way - no bi-sexual activity.	315	29.89%
Soft swap all the way - no exchange of bodily fluids (oral)	122	11.57%
Soft Swap - but will do oral with others	182	17.27%
Voyeur - No physical contact	120	11.39%
Full swap with all parties - MM, MF,FF,MFM	283	26.85%
I am not sure - haven't swung yet.	170	16.13%
Full Swap with Bi-Female Activities Only	326	30.93%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 1054. You may not vote on this poll

12-09-2002, 03:53 PM	#1 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... All swingers have their preferences when it comes to playtime. What do you prefer? I have tried to set this poll up so that singles and couples who also swing with singles and other couples may be able to answer it. You may choose more than one option. EDIT Please remember to vote by preference more so than what you are willing to settle for with others. __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W. Last edited by OhioCouple : 12-09-2002 at 05:53 PM.

12-09-2002, 05:17 PM	#2 (permalink)
Mariposa_y_Oso Here to Stay Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 76 Location: El Paso, TX Status: Married Couple	How are we supposed to get to know one another better if we do this by secret ballot? We generally don't go "all the way" the first time we play with a couple, but we prefer the full swap with some bisexual activity (Mari is bi, but I am straight). Of course, depending upon the situation, almost any of those could happen. I have a question regarding the soft swap with no body fluids...isn't saliva considered a bodily fluid? Or does that just refer to touching and no kissing? Cheers! ~Mike __________________ "Morality is your agreement with yourself to abide by your own rules."

12-09-2002, 05:50 PM	#3 (permalink)
OhioCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Dec 2001 Posts: 6,616 Location: Ohio Status: Married Female	Ya'll just crack me up! Well many people have a problem relaying their personal preferences in print. Therefore a poll so that anyone can vote. As for the soft swap - no bodily fluids, I suppose I could have worded it better, but that bold notice says to keep it short and to the point! My meaning behind that was you only play with your significant other in every way shape and form. Ie, no exchange of kissing, or oral sex, pretty much just having sex with your mate in the same vicinity of another couple doing the same. Lori __________________ Remember that human beings are complicated creatures. We like our bedtime routines but dislike routine in our bed times. - Sallie Foley, M.S.W.

12-10-2002, 10:23 PM	#4 (permalink)
dave_susie2001 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2002 Posts: 284 Location: Michigan Status: Married Couple	We full swap with "no exchange of bodily fluids." What I mean by that is that when we are with a couple that we know well and don't use condoms, we don't "cum inside." The reasons are varied, but here they are: A) Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids, it's much less than a full load of semen, therefore it reduces the risk associated with swapping body fluids. B) I (Dave) don't like the taste of semen, and if I want to go down on the woman, I would prefer not to slurp up a load of cum (my own, or otherwise) while I'm doing it.

12-20-2002, 09:25 AM	#5 (permalink)
Tanman aka Mike and Marie Looking for new friends Join Date: May 2002 Posts: 201 Location: Brentwood TN Status: Couple SLS Name:Mike_n_Marie	I thought "soft" regarded anything with another couple EXCEPT insertion? When did this change and why wasn't I notified?

12-21-2002, 05:51 PM	#6 (permalink)
CanadianCouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 1,139 Location: New Brunswick, Canada Status: Married Couple	Lori -- We prefer full swap, although we'll adhere to any limits the other couple insist on. Would you mind us asking where you and Gene fall in that poll? Dan

12-21-2002, 05:59 PM	#7 (permalink)
Regularguy Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2002 Posts: 102 Location: USA Status: S. Male with girlfriends	Why would a guy think it is hot for his woman to lick her pussy juice off the guys dick, but refuse to go down on her afte rhe came in her? When I come in a woman and she wants some more oral sex, I don't hesitate any more then a woman does when she goes down on the guy after he has been in her wet pussy. Dave wrote; "A) Even though there IS some exchange of bodily fluids, it's much less than a full load of semen, therefore it reduces the risk associated with swapping body fluids." Why is there more of a risk from semen but not pussy juice? I swallow as much pussy juice over 5-30 minutes then women I am with from 10 seconds of me shooting come.

12-22-2002, 10:35 PM	#8 (permalink)
thesexmonsters Here to Stay Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 64 Location: Central Coast, CA Status: Married Couple	What about Full Swap, Bi Women? Hey, you left out "Full swap - but bi-sexual activity betwen women only!" The Sex Monsters __________________ ...We play well with others...

12-22-2002, 11:48 PM	#9 (permalink)
bimrdcpl Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 231 Location: Warren Michigan Status: couple SLS Name:bimrdcpl2	The hubby and I enjoy full swap, with condoms. We just cant imagine being in a room with another couple exchanging oral and none of the other fun stuff. Thats our story and we're sticking to it. Happy Holidays Everone!!!! Dawn

12-24-2002, 06:14 PM	#10 (permalink)
vevaycpl Active Member Join Date: Nov 2002 Posts: 17 Location: Vevay IN.	Way to go Sexmonsters!!!! we would fall into your catagoy. We also believe it would be right there at the top of the preference poll. __________________ Ron & Diane "We say Grace and we say say maam, if you aint into that... we don't give a damn".

12-18-2003, 05:58 PM	#13 (permalink)
NorCal Nites Active Member Join Date: Dec 2003 Posts: 213 Location: Redding, CA Status: Couple	Where is full swap with only same sex for the women/men? We full swap, but other than male/female and assistance from 2nd male, the men don't play with one another. __________________ ************************ Sonya and Larren Management @ NorCalNites.com

12-18-2003, 06:10 PM	#14 (permalink)
Alura T-Town Playmates Join Date: May 2001 Posts: 6,122 Location: Tulsa, Oklahoma Status: Married to Mrs. Alura	We've swapped with our playmates. But we might choose to do something different in the future. Does anyone have any good ideas? Alura

12-18-2003, 06:46 PM	#15 (permalink)
jcbicouple Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 680 Location: Indiana Status: Happily Married Couple SLS Name:jcbicouple	Our vote was for full swap with all parties. However, "swapping" really isn't a good term for our play experiences. We prefer one big pile, with everyone playing together. Would never do separate rooms, or even separate beds. We like to enjoy the experience together, whether playing with a man, woman, or couple.

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