Full Swap, Soft Swap or?...

customhardtail · 01-27-2004, 07:13 PM

We like full swap with bi F play...we also like everyone in one big pile...and FMF...oh and did I mention MFM.

It's all good!

Illicitlovers · 01-28-2004, 05:49 PM

If we meet a couple we really like,we tend to go with what the other couple is comfortable with.Like lately we have just met a local couple who is only comfortable with girl+girl play and oral play with the other couples spouse.........i'm o'k with that.......maybe when everone is comfortable with eachother it will progress.........but the hubby and i really enjoy full swap with girl+girl play.

-Carole

tribbles · 04-27-2005, 02:16 PM

We prefer one big pile, with everyone playing together
So there is hope for our fantasies!
We aren't doing full intercourse on the first play however, we are new at this, so need to feel our way

allycat · 05-09-2005, 12:51 AM

Full Swap with bi-females only. Can't get the hubby to take one for the team!Give me time.

CuriousInOregon · 07-11-2005, 03:43 PM

I have to say this is a great poll Really opened my eyes to how many people do not Full swap on the first meet, I am still new to the idea of swinging, We have not got out feet wet as of now, But we do have a potential meet this summer, We have discussed what we like, don't like, Rules, Limitations, and just about everything under the sun, We have only been talking online a few months but it feels like much longer, I was a little concerned about the Idea of Full Swap on the first meet, BUT we have all 4 discussed the fact that if at any time No happens then its over, We pick up and go on with our day. I am quite excited about the Prospect of seeing my husband with another woman, I am however not sure about myself being with another woman, I just thought you might like a little insite from someone who hasnt done it yet.

txduo2000 · 07-11-2005, 05:40 PM

I voted full swap - no bisexual activity.

I (fem) am not bisexual. I am not ashamed of this fact. I am not unaware that I seem to be the minority. Chicks just don't turn me on ...

With that said, I will "play" (because to me, that's all it is) with another woman on a "light" basis. If she wants to do oral on me, that's fine. But I don't do it ... and I make that clear. I don't expect it, so I don't expect that women should expect it from me.

I am not repulsed by bisexual female activity; it's just not my thing. I LOVE, in just about every way, MEN!!!!!

Though I have some bi-fem friends who try to convert me, and try to convince me that I would "love it" with a girl ... I am absolutely convinced that there is nothing that a woman can do for me that I can't get better from a man. I am convinced of this because I HAVE had bisexual interludes ... I have had two different women perform oral on me. But I have had countless men, and by far, they are always the BEST.

skewBdooB · 07-12-2005, 05:57 AM

depends on the couple or person/s involved me personally i like full swap

skewBdooB · 07-12-2005, 05:58 AM

full swap

katejustkate · 07-12-2005, 09:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by txduo2000

I voted full swap - no bisexual activity.

I (fem) am not bisexual. I am not ashamed of this fact. I am not unaware that I seem to be the minority. Chicks just don't turn me on ...

With that said, I will "play" (because to me, that's all it is) with another woman on a "light" basis. If she wants to do oral on me, that's fine. But I don't do it ... and I make that clear. I don't expect it, so I don't expect that women should expect it from me.

I am not repulsed by bisexual female activity; it's just not my thing. I LOVE, in just about every way, MEN!!!!!

Though I have some bi-fem friends who try to convert me, and try to convince me that I would "love it" with a girl ... I am absolutely convinced that there is nothing that a woman can do for me that I can't get better from a man. I am convinced of this because I HAVE had bisexual interludes ... I have had two different women perform oral on me. But I have had countless men, and by far, they are always the BEST.

I totally agree !!

discreetindcpl · 07-21-2005, 08:24 PM

Our preference is full swap with no-bi activity as we are both straight and like txduo2000 don't expect to change that anytime soon. She has had women perform oral on her a couple of times but those experiences seem to have strengthened her preference for playing with men.

That doesn't mean we don't get along with bi couples. One of our
regular partners is a couple where both are bi- but knowing us,
they don't bring it up and we never fail to have a terrific time with them.

Jamie&Kieth · 08-08-2005, 01:54 AM

Kieth & I both enjoy full swap with exchange of body fluids, this usually occurrs with a group sex style environment. We pretty much share everything with two other couples that we have been swinging with for the past 15-20 years. Almost an anything goes situation.

However, if we are with other couples who we do not know as well or not familiar with we both restrain from the exchange of fluids. Hope this doesn't sound to kinky.

honeybee77 · 01-25-2006, 03:47 PM

Anything goes as long as he and I are cool with it, agree about it.

:-)

Tia Vampire · 08-11-2006, 02:02 AM

I could do some kissing and touching with the girl, but absolutly no touching of private parts in any form or fashion,I would watch my boyfriend do another girl while hugging and kissing on him, and full swap.

JTcamp05 · 08-11-2006, 07:33 AM

Well it slways starts out soft...then well gets kinda hard......Thats is how it works right?

We really dont have rules reguarding this....were both adults can decide how much or little we are comfortable with..... As long as its "safe"......we don't label it anything!

stu · 08-11-2006, 02:33 PM

its all a dream..we are still to take the plunge.

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View Poll Results: What are your preferences? You may choose more than one.
Full swap all the way - no bi-sexual activity.	315	29.89%
Soft swap all the way - no exchange of bodily fluids (oral)	122	11.57%
Soft Swap - but will do oral with others	182	17.27%
Voyeur - No physical contact	120	11.39%
Full swap with all parties - MM, MF,FF,MFM	283	26.85%
I am not sure - haven't swung yet.	170	16.13%
Full Swap with Bi-Female Activities Only	326	30.93%
Multiple Choice Poll. Voters: 1054. You may not vote on this poll

01-27-2004, 07:13 PM	#31 (permalink)
customhardtail Active Member Join Date: Dec 2002 Posts: 32 Location: Puget Sound, WA Status: couple	We like full swap with bi F play...we also like everyone in one big pile...and FMF...oh and did I mention MFM. It's all good! __________________ K the female half Life is too short not to dance naked...

04-27-2005, 02:16 PM	#33 (permalink)
tribbles Fun and Pleasure Join Date: Mar 2005 Posts: 858 Location: SouthWest Status: Couple	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... We prefer one big pile, with everyone playing together So there is hope for our fantasies! We aren't doing full intercourse on the first play however, we are new at this, so need to feel our way __________________ Evel Knievel died of natural causes.

05-09-2005, 12:51 AM	#34 (permalink)
allycat Active Member Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 28 Location: Indiana Status: M. Female SLS Name:allycat	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... Full Swap with bi-females only. Can't get the hubby to take one for the team!Give me time.

01-28-2004, 05:49 PM	#32 (permalink)
Illicitlovers Here to Stay Join Date: Jan 2004 Posts: 24 Location: Ontario,Canada Status: Couple	If we meet a couple we really like,we tend to go with what the other couple is comfortable with.Like lately we have just met a local couple who is only comfortable with girl+girl play and oral play with the other couples spouse.........i'm o'k with that.......maybe when everone is comfortable with eachother it will progress.........but the hubby and i really enjoy full swap with girl+girl play. -Carole

07-11-2005, 03:43 PM	#35 (permalink)
CuriousInOregon Swingers Board Addict Join Date: May 2005 Posts: 601 Location: Oregon Status: Couple/ Single Female SLS Name:CuriousInOregon	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... I have to say this is a great poll Really opened my eyes to how many people do not Full swap on the first meet, I am still new to the idea of swinging, We have not got out feet wet as of now, But we do have a potential meet this summer, We have discussed what we like, don't like, Rules, Limitations, and just about everything under the sun, We have only been talking online a few months but it feels like much longer, I was a little concerned about the Idea of Full Swap on the first meet, BUT we have all 4 discussed the fact that if at any time No happens then its over, We pick up and go on with our day. I am quite excited about the Prospect of seeing my husband with another woman, I am however not sure about myself being with another woman, I just thought you might like a little insite from someone who hasnt done it yet.

07-11-2005, 05:40 PM	#36 (permalink)
txduo2000 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jun 2005 Posts: 662 Location: Dallas TX Area Status: Couple	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... I voted full swap - no bisexual activity. I (fem) am not bisexual. I am not ashamed of this fact. I am not unaware that I seem to be the minority. Chicks just don't turn me on ... With that said, I will "play" (because to me, that's all it is) with another woman on a "light" basis. If she wants to do oral on me, that's fine. But I don't do it ... and I make that clear. I don't expect it, so I don't expect that women should expect it from me. I am not repulsed by bisexual female activity; it's just not my thing. I LOVE, in just about every way, MEN!!!!! Though I have some bi-fem friends who try to convert me, and try to convince me that I would "love it" with a girl ... I am absolutely convinced that there is nothing that a woman can do for me that I can't get better from a man. I am convinced of this because I HAVE had bisexual interludes ... I have had two different women perform oral on me. But I have had countless men, and by far, they are always the BEST. Last edited by txduo2000 : 07-11-2005 at 05:41 PM. Reason: Weird code problems ????

07-12-2005, 05:57 AM	#37 (permalink)
skewBdooB Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: florida Status: single male SLS Name:skewBdooB	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... depends on the couple or person/s involved me personally i like full swap

07-12-2005, 05:58 AM	#38 (permalink)
skewBdooB Registered User Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 2 Location: florida Status: single male SLS Name:skewBdooB	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... full swap

07-21-2005, 08:24 PM	#40 (permalink)
discreetindcpl Registered Join Date: Sep 2003 Posts: 5 Location: CA Status: Couple	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... Our preference is full swap with no-bi activity as we are both straight and like txduo2000 don't expect to change that anytime soon. She has had women perform oral on her a couple of times but those experiences seem to have strengthened her preference for playing with men. That doesn't mean we don't get along with bi couples. One of our regular partners is a couple where both are bi- but knowing us, they don't bring it up and we never fail to have a terrific time with them.

08-08-2005, 01:54 AM	#41 (permalink)
Jamie&Kieth Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Jul 2005 Posts: 193 Location: Massachusetts Status: M.Female	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... Kieth & I both enjoy full swap with exchange of body fluids, this usually occurrs with a group sex style environment. We pretty much share everything with two other couples that we have been swinging with for the past 15-20 years. Almost an anything goes situation. However, if we are with other couples who we do not know as well or not familiar with we both restrain from the exchange of fluids. Hope this doesn't sound to kinky.

01-25-2006, 03:47 PM	#42 (permalink)
honeybee77 Active Member Join Date: Dec 2005 Posts: 26 Location: Richmond, Virginia Status: couple SLS Name:honeybee77	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... Anything goes as long as he and I are cool with it, agree about it. :-)

08-11-2006, 02:02 AM	#43 (permalink)
Tia Vampire Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Aug 2006 Posts: 767 Location: Florida Status: couples SLS Name:tiavampire Blog Entries: 1	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... I could do some kissing and touching with the girl, but absolutly no touching of private parts in any form or fashion,I would watch my boyfriend do another girl while hugging and kissing on him, and full swap.

08-11-2006, 07:33 AM	#44 (permalink)
JTcamp05 Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 247 Location: Ohio Status: Couple SLS Name:JtCamp05	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... Well it slways starts out soft...then well gets kinda hard......Thats is how it works right? We really dont have rules reguarding this....were both adults can decide how much or little we are comfortable with..... As long as its "safe"......we don't label it anything!

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08-11-2006, 02:33 PM	#45 (permalink)
stu Here to Stay Join Date: Feb 2005 Posts: 27 Location: USA Status: couple SLS Name:stu	Re: Full Swap, Soft Swap or?... its all a dream..we are still to take the plunge.

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