Do you prefer men who are circumcised or uncircumcised?

[Corinne]

Hi all,
it's me again, the woman who always has penis-questions!
We are currently living in Germany, and are planning on going to our first visit to a swingersclub in this area.
I talked to a friend of mine, she is american and knows about our lifestyle, and when I told her about us going there, she surprised me with her comment that she could never go to a german club "because all the guys are not circumcised, and that is sooo yucky and disgusting!"
Well, I am german, married to a cut american, but I have been with intact guys before, and have yet to meet a "yucky and disgusting" one, even giving oral sex, makes no difference to me.
But after doing some research on the net, it seems like this is a very common response, mostly in American women (and I don't mean that in any disrespectful way, just an observation I made).
So my question would be, do most of you ladies also have a problem with this? If you would come to a european country, would you refrain from swinging because of this?
Sign me,
curious in Germany!
Corinne

[TNT]

Well, since my husband is uncut, I guess you could say that is my preference, since he is definitely my preference.

I had never even seen a cut penise before we started swinging. I have no problems with them, other than the fact that they looked kinda strange to me in the beginning, but since he is the only uncut man I have ever had sex with I'm getting use to the others and there really is no difference.

Of course, I do think that his is the most beautiful one I have ever seen.

Teresa

[Stratecpl]

Makes no differance to me.....One of my regular boys is from Germany and is uncut...and I have been with a couple others that were uncut. As long as the guy is clean and healthy it makes no differance one way or another......one thing I did notice about the uncut guys..they seem to be easier to get off with a blowjob??? Wonder if the little extra skin has anything to do with that???

[4ormoresomes]

I prefer cut - Eric is, as well as all but two other guys we have been with. However, one of my favorites was an uncut black dude (my first black experience). It also helped that he was ~10" and would cum by the gallon (or so it seemed)! I agree with Connie that uncut guys seem to get off faster.

Michelle

[lookin-4-sum]

i agree with teresa, my hubby is also uncut and i love it, there is just something sexy about but cut or uncut, once it is in use, its how they use it right/ lol, you dont see it anyway.
kristi

[MattLisa]

Uncut men seem to have a more sensitive head than cut... I've played with both (hubby is not cut) and enjoy both fairly equally. Sometimes the extra skin can make condoms a problem, but you can usually make it work pretty easily (they can tend to slip sometimes). I do like giving oral to uncut men though, they are more sensitve

[oceans]

I have noticed overtime that the few uncut men I ran into had a slight unpleasent smell to them, I am not sure if it is because moisture and sweat stay under the forskin or what. I had to ask each one of them to wash thoroughly before I would give them oral. As far as feeling while having intercourse I realy cant tell the difference. Cut to me looks much better, I love my hubby's it looks awesome, like a well crafted piece of art and it feels best in my mouth. I have to agree though uncut men are far more sensitive and had a problem with cumming way too soon.

[TNT]

Hmmmm, I don't know about other uncut men, but I have never had a problem with Ted cumming to soon...even our quickies last over two hours and then I usually have to let him know that its okay to cum. The man has excellent self control.

Teresa

[PA_RACERS]

To be totally honest with you......I have never seen an uncut penis before. When my son was born we had a hard time deciding whether or not to have him circumsized. After research I learned that an uncut penis is much harder to keep clean and the men are more pron to urinary infection. I think that information has turned me against wanting to explore an uncut penis. I may be wrong about my information but I would have to think a long time before I would agree to suck an uncut penis.

[Corinne]

PA, don't worry. Unfortunately this is the one myth about an uncut penis that is so common in the US. They are neither harder to clean (well, maybe an extra 5 sec in the shower) and the study about more infections has been found to be flawed. So no problems here!
I have been with intact guys, and I have found that, especially when the guy is hung, the sex can be sometimes more enjoyable. There is less friction and more gliding due to the skin around the shaft being "movable"
Anyway, thanks for all your replies, I guess it is really not that big of a deal for most women.
Corinne

[vegascouple4bifem]

Hi all, my very second post as a newbie. This is a really interesting topic, as it's a very cultural thing. My man is cut, and I've only been with one person who wasn't, and I'd have to say that uncut is very erotic, as they're more sensitive, but beyond that, sexually speaking, it really doesn't make a whole lot of difference to me, though I wish for my man's sake he wasn't cut, as I've heard the head gets desensitized, which is a shame. But as a woman, I don't really feel any difference except for oral, it's kinda nice to have the foreskin to play with!
I researched it for months when I had my two sons, and found it's simply done for the sake of being done. And in fact, after reading about it, am now opposed to circumcision, and am advising my two friends who are pregnant against it.
Don't know if anyone agrees or cares, but I happened to feel very passionate about this topic, so thought I'd throw in my two cents. Thanks!

[Stratecpl]

As far as my opinion goes, I am cut and that's that, been that way all my life. I really wouldn't want it put back, either!

Sensitive vs. insensitive?? Well, everyone needs to make their minds up here. It's all with preferences anyway. Some religions banned circumcision, so that may account for the lack of circumcised foreigners. But too sensitive equals less intercourse time before ejaculation.... insensitive equals LONGER intercourse time before ejaculation. I don't have a problem with cumming vs. not cumming, so maybe my insensitive head is plenty sensitive enough. Personally I opt for more intercourse time!!

Ron, Husband of Stratecpl

[M&B]

Well, my wife says cut is best. She loves the look and feel.

We spent a lot of time with another couple where we used to live. The husband was not cut. My better half had no problems with him, although, she always said she preferred mine.

Of course, my opinion on appearance is kinda moot since that's the way I've been all of my life.

As a nudist, it, you know, spends a lot of time "exposed to the elements". We hike in almost all kinds of weather, swim a lot. And, of course, we have a great sex life!!

Now, since I am cut and the head is so abused ;^>, I probably have lost a certain amount of sensitivity. I dunno! But, then again, with my wife's tender lovin' care and with the help of a few friends, I can't complain.

M&B

[Kail]

I'm an uncut male and I wanna sound in on this. I can't speak for the aesthetic preference of women, but I will say that I'm very grateful that my parents didn't have me circumcised. The best feelings during sex and related activities come from the foreskin. Also I've never had any infections, and keeping it clean takes 5 seconds in the shower, as someone said earlier.

[MelissaB]

Interesting topic, and in fact it relates to how we got started in swinging.

I always preferred circumcised. One of my teen boyfriends wasn't done and I thought it was gross. I had a son out of wedlock and had him circed but they didn't cut him back far enough and he looks funny; he's 7 now.

Once I had a boyfriend (circumcised)who was really well endowed. It was great to look at, but it hurt. One of my best friends married an Italian guy (Frank)who is also well endowed. She told me, but you can see the bulge anyway. Due to my experience I felt bad for her, but she indicated sex was wonderful, so I figured to each her own. Last summer dh and I were with them and it's a long story, but we ended up skinny dipping. That when I noticed that Frank is not circumcised.

Later I brought it up to my friend and started we wonder if the foreskin made a difference. She asked is I wanted to try it, we made a plan, and 2 weeks later we switched partners. I had the best sex ever with Frank. Dh satisfied my friend too, orally, he's good at that.

We want to have more children and now I'm a little on the fence about circumcision. But, I think I'd have it done because it's only the really big ones that need the extra skin. Dh is average but has a very neat circumcision. The doctor that did him is still in practice, so I would use him instead of the dork that did my son.

Originally posted by Corinne:
<STRONG>Hi all,
it's me again, the woman who always has penis-questions!
We are currently living in Germany, and are planning on going to our first visit to a swingersclub in this area.
I talked to a friend of mine, she is american and knows about our lifestyle, and when I told her about us going there, she surprised me with her comment that she could never go to a german club "because all the guys are not circumcised, and that is sooo yucky and disgusting!"
Well, I am german, married to a cut american, but I have been with intact guys before, and have yet to meet a "yucky and disgusting" one, even giving oral sex, makes no difference to me.
But after doing some research on the net, it seems like this is a very common response, mostly in American women (and I don't mean that in any disrespectful way, just an observation I made).
So my question would be, do most of you ladies also have a problem with this? If you would come to a european country, would you refrain from swinging because of this?
Sign me,
curious in Germany!
Corinne</STRONG>