how important was/is the lifestyle to you?

foozballnow · 06-19-2006, 07:35 PM

First off, this is popping my post cherry. been looking around and finally decided to make my first post. Great site here.

For those of you in the lifestyle and those considering it, how important is it? How far would you go to get it or stay in it? Just curious here is all.

DGrey · 06-19-2006, 07:42 PM

It's something we both mutually wanted. If and when the time comes that one of us or both of us wants out, we'll get out. We'd hardly call ourselves hardcore lifestylers as our family comes first and we usually only get one night a month, sometimes two, for playtime. It's something fun for us to do when we have the time. It holds no more importance than that.

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tmc823 · 06-19-2006, 07:49 PM

We have been lurking here for a little over a year, learned a lot, and have had no issues to speak of from our swinging, in large part due to this great site. (This is our first post also). We both wanted to explore the lifestyle and have had no regrets. If either one of us wanted to stop or had never wanted to start, that would have been/would be the end of that. No questions, we are in this together for each other.

T

T is he
M is she

WesternSwing · 06-20-2006, 01:36 AM

Swinging was something we both wanted to try, and it's been a fantastic ride, I'll tell ya'.

However it isn't our whole life. In fact right now we are taking a little break from it just because our lives are so busy that we barely have time for each other much less having sex with others. So it is a really fun thing we do, but it isn't all-consuming of our life. It's more like a hobby.

Mr. WS

Chicup · 06-20-2006, 01:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by WesternSwing

It's more like a hobby.

Mr. WS

Dito

Pensacolapair · 04-27-2008, 06:34 PM

We were both fairly active in what would become 'The Lifestyle' prior to meeting and marrying years ago... the old 'parties' that often resulted in public sex, 3-somes, 4-somes, etc. After we developed our personal relationship, we never really saw a reason to stop our enjoyment of sexual variety. Over the years, swinging has been something that we have enjoyed when the right combination of our mutual desire and opportunity arose. For us it has always been something that we enjoy doing together. When either of us doesn't want to play, then we don't - end of issue. We figure that's the reason why we have not 'burned out' on 'The Lifestyle' over the years.. it's just one of the many things we enjoy doing - not a lifestyle.

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View Poll Results: How important was it for you?
I really wanted it, if my SO denied me, I'd have to look for a new SO.	2	3.77%
we both wanted it, not an issue	42	79.25%
I really wanted it but if my SO was denying it to me, I'd drop the issue	8	15.09%
My SO does not want it, I wont stop till i get it.	1	1.89%
My SO wanted it, I dont. Therefore they drop it, or find a new SO	0	0%
My SO wants it, but I dont. They will drop the issue knowing how against it i am	0	0%
Voters: 53. You may not vote on this poll

06-19-2006, 07:35 PM	#1 (permalink)
foozballnow Here to Stay Join Date: Sep 2005 Posts: 44 Location: south florida Status: married couple	how important was/is the lifestyle to you? First off, this is popping my post cherry. been looking around and finally decided to make my first post. Great site here. For those of you in the lifestyle and those considering it, how important is it? How far would you go to get it or stay in it? Just curious here is all.

06-19-2006, 07:42 PM	#2 (permalink)
DGrey Swingers Board Addict Join Date: Apr 2006 Posts: 386 Location: Exit 13A Thank you very much! Status: Married Female Swing Lifestyle Name:DGrey	Re: how important was/is the lifestyle to you? It's something we both mutually wanted. If and when the time comes that one of us or both of us wants out, we'll get out. We'd hardly call ourselves hardcore lifestylers as our family comes first and we usually only get one night a month, sometimes two, for playtime. It's something fun for us to do when we have the time. It holds no more importance than that. E
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06-19-2006, 07:49 PM	#3 (permalink)
tmc823 Registered User Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 1 Location: Florida	Re: how important was/is the lifestyle to you? We have been lurking here for a little over a year, learned a lot, and have had no issues to speak of from our swinging, in large part due to this great site. (This is our first post also). We both wanted to explore the lifestyle and have had no regrets. If either one of us wanted to stop or had never wanted to start, that would have been/would be the end of that. No questions, we are in this together for each other. T T is he M is she

06-20-2006, 01:36 AM	#4 (permalink)
WesternSwing South of disorder Join Date: Mar 2004 Posts: 2,973 Location: Utah Status: Single Male	Re: how important was/is the lifestyle to you? Swinging was something we both wanted to try, and it's been a fantastic ride, I'll tell ya'. However it isn't our whole life. In fact right now we are taking a little break from it just because our lives are so busy that we barely have time for each other much less having sex with others. So it is a really fun thing we do, but it isn't all-consuming of our life. It's more like a hobby. Mr. WS
	__________________ "Sex is something you do, sexuality is something you are." ~ Anna Freud

04-27-2008, 06:34 PM	#6 (permalink)
Pensacolapair Educated Posterior Join Date: Jan 2007 Posts: 183 Location: Florida Status: Couple - He (M )posts, She (G) vetos as required Swing Lifestyle Name:MandGinSD	Re: how important was/is the lifestyle to you? We were both fairly active in what would become 'The Lifestyle' prior to meeting and marrying years ago... the old 'parties' that often resulted in public sex, 3-somes, 4-somes, etc. After we developed our personal relationship, we never really saw a reason to stop our enjoyment of sexual variety. Over the years, swinging has been something that we have enjoyed when the right combination of our mutual desire and opportunity arose. For us it has always been something that we enjoy doing together. When either of us doesn't want to play, then we don't - end of issue. We figure that's the reason why we have not 'burned out' on 'The Lifestyle' over the years.. it's just one of the many things we enjoy doing - not a lifestyle.
	__________________ "When you're up to your ass in alligators, it's hard to remember that you came to drain the swamp!"

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