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Have you ever faked an Orgasm?

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Yes, I've faked at least one! 337 65.44%
No!!! I'd never do a thing like that! 178 34.56%
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Old 10-03-2003, 01:30 AM   #16 (permalink)
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From the womans perspective, I wouldnt want the guy to fake it. I would much rather hear "im too tired, lets do this again in the morning" or something along those lines. We all get those times that we just cant cum, and thats understandable.
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Old 10-03-2003, 02:07 AM   #17 (permalink)
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Wink Several things come to mind on the topic......

First two quotes - from two different men -

"The worst I ever had was wonderful!"
(I tend to think this had to be an exaggeration - sure to goodness, for men and women alike - there are times it isn't wonderful!)

"I've never had any BAD pussy. I've had some I thought was GOING bad....."
(Crude, perhaps, but probably more true than the first statement.)

As for myself; when I get close to the big "O", my head is usually back, my eyes are usually closed, I am usually breathing quite deeply albeit frequently. It was at such a juncture one evening, a male partner covered my mouth and put something called "Rush" under my nostrils.

No exaggeration necessary - I thought I was going to DIE. My heart was beating so HARD - I swear I could feel it through my chest with my hand laid there.

When I began to be a bit more assured I was going to live - I tore into the man for his assumptive, presumptive "sharing" of this item. I was totally unfamiliar with it, and was not pleased with it being forced into my system in such a way, at such a time.
(Kind of broke the mood for the other couple on the bed with us, I am sure - too bad!)

You may rest assured he never had the opportunity to "share" that - or anything else - with me, ever again. He did apologize but I don't think very sincerely. He felt his goal [being an intense orgasm for me] was what mattered. And yes, that had happened - but not without scaring the living beejeezus out of me in conjunction.

Just wonder if anyone else has ever experienced a similar "surprise sharing"?
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Old 10-03-2003, 06:31 AM   #18 (permalink)
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'Rush' presumably would have been either Amyl Nitrite or Butyl Nitrite, otherwise known as 'poppers'.

These chemicals are vasodilators, and function by relaxing and opening up the blood vessels. This will produce a rapid sensation of heat and excitement, which some say enhances sex (they are perhaps more popular among gay men).

Problem is, as the blood vessels open up, blood pressure falls rapidly. To compensate, the heart has to work harder and that increase in heart rate can be dangerous, especially if you happen to suffer with diabetes, heart disease or high blood pressure.

IMHO, this man took quite a liberty in pursuing an intense orgasm for you.
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Old 10-03-2003, 06:44 AM   #19 (permalink)
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As for myself; when I get close to the big "O", my head is usually back, my eyes are usually closed, I am usually breathing quite deeply albeit frequently. It was at such a juncture one evening, a male partner covered my mouth and put something called "Rush" under my nostrils.

No exaggeration necessary - I thought I was going to DIE. My heart was beating so HARD - I swear I could feel it through my chest with my hand laid there.

When I began to be a bit more assured I was going to live - I tore into the man for his assumptive, presumptive "sharing" of this item. I was totally unfamiliar with it, and was not pleased with it being forced into my system in such a way, at such a time.
(Kind of broke the mood for the other couple on the bed with us, I am sure - too bad!)

You may rest assured he never had the opportunity to "share" that - or anything else - with me, ever again. He did apologize but I don't think very sincerely. He felt his goal [being an intense orgasm for me] was what mattered. And yes, that had happened - but not without scaring the living beejeezus out of me in conjunction.

Just wonder if anyone else has ever experienced a similar "surprise sharing"?
Nope, and no one better ever try that with me! That's awful and nobody has the right to 'drug' someone without their knowledge or consent. Sheesh...some people....

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Old 10-07-2003, 09:24 PM   #20 (permalink)
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There are times when I'm not going to cum. I like sex, not just the cumming, but the sex itself and there are times, now and then, when a guy is just going to keep going until he thinks you have. Its easier to facilitate things ending a bit sooner than let them get dull and pointless. I've done it the other way and had a guy unhappy that I seemed to lose my energy or focus.
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Old 07-20-2004, 10:15 AM   #21 (permalink)
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I've faked it a few times. The second time we were ever with a couple, the woman came and then started to get dry. She kept telling me that she wanted to feel me cum. So I faked it to allow us to take a break and let things heat up for her again.

To answer the questions above about not being able to hide the fact that you cum, I'm one of those lucky guys that can cum multiple times in a single play session. Especially if I've taken one of those little blue pills. The more times I cum, the less ejaculate there is. After the 3rd time, it's almost non existant. It feels just as intense, but nothing or a very minimal amount comes out.
I've done it when I've just been too drained to go. I'm not sure if she knew either time but she never said anything. Do you women know and not say anything to be polite or do you truly sometimes not know?
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Old 07-23-2004, 01:19 AM   #22 (permalink)
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answering on behalf of me and Mr. Neither one of has ever faked an orgasm. I know when he isn't going to cum, and it is usually the resalt of holding off too long to please me longer. So when I'm done I always give hime a big ole kiss and make it up to him in the morning. As for me well I was one of those who always had trouble achieving an orgasm. I could always to it clitorily by myself but for someone else to do it for me it just never worked and I was always honest. I still enjoyed trying to reach that point. Lucky as I'm getting older they happen quite a bit easier.

But Here's a thinker for you. Once the Mr. and I had a a romp and I had decided to let him cum on my face for the first time. Well it was one of those sessions where he had held it off and didn't think he would be able to achieve an orgasm. But he still went at it with vigor. He closed his eyes consentrating hard, and shot all over my face. However he didn't realize he had even ejaculated till he opened his eyes and seen me. Of course he felt very jipped. But I have never heard or seen this happen before. So instead of faking and orgasm have you ever just missed one.
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Old 07-23-2004, 01:46 AM   #23 (permalink)
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The more times I cum, the less ejaculate there is.

I'm with Dave on this one. I'm fortunate enough to be able to get it up more than once in a session and with each additional orgasm there is less cum. So, yes, it IS possible for a man to orgasm without ejaculating.

In regards to faking it - never had to (although I have experienced similar problems with arousal after too much drink).
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Old 03-29-2005, 02:00 AM   #24 (permalink)
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No, but I paid for one when I stayed at a Holiday Inn.











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Old 03-29-2005, 11:02 AM   #25 (permalink)
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Sometimes if I am "holding back" trying not to argasm, I will have a "dry" orgasm ie: without ejaculate. But, when I do that, another orgasm without a break is pretty difficult. It seems I just stay right at the verge of orgasming again, but can't.
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Old 04-26-2005, 11:16 PM   #26 (permalink)
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Since I'm new to swinging I may fake at some point for some unforseen reason but as yet I have never faked. I have always felt that faking gives the person a false impression that what they did got you off so they will try it again and again with you because it worked last time. I'm speaking of guys here since I have yet to experience sex with another woman. Guys do what works, am I right? I would never give hubby a false impression. I want him to know what gets me off not keep doing what doesn't. I mean no offense here but its kinda like training a puppy...positive reinforcement.


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Old 04-26-2005, 11:35 PM   #27 (permalink)
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Fake it.....ha, if i only i could.

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Old 04-27-2005, 10:44 AM   #28 (permalink)
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Personally, I like to do the Houdini. That's when I'm doing it dogstyle, I fake the orgasm and spit on her back. Then when she turns around I really let her have it. See? It's an illusion...
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Old 08-21-2005, 08:21 AM   #29 (permalink)
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No never have faked an orgasm with either my husband or in a swinging environment. There have been plenty of times where I may not have had an orgasm but the sex is great and it feels great. My husband has also had instances where he does not have an orgasm but still enjoys participating in sex.

When my husband & I are togerther making love or having sex or both, yes I usually have an orgasm, sometimes instense other times very relaxing orgasm.

But no I never have and I probably will not try to fake an orgasm ... but I still get very vocal sometimes!
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Old 09-18-2005, 08:50 AM   #30 (permalink)
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i used fake it back in the day.. for encouragment during those marathon sex nights when i was spent. I don't have to do that anymore. I couldnt fake it now if i wanted to. he knows when i cum. If we didnt make a mess and squirt all over he knows.. so i couldnt fake now. He know he has faked it at least once maybe twice. He says he got tired and couldnt cum and i already did so he faked it and i could tell too.
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